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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Turn her on.

And don't 'fuck' her, respect her body and be careful. And maybe reconsider using a condom. She might not have any STIs, but unless you've been tested very recently you might not know, and condoms protect against pregnancy too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

#thirdworldproblems

And why is this in introductions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Stories and fantasies section maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Turn her on.

And don't 'fuck' her, respect her body and be careful. And maybe reconsider using a condom. She might not have any STIs, but unless you've been tested very recently you might not know, and condoms protect against pregnancy too."

I was tested 3 weeks ago and came back clear, I haven't done anything sexual with anybody since

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You don't 'fuck ' a virgin....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You don't 'fuck ' a virgin.... "

Wish somebody had told that to the guy I lost my virginity too!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Turn her on.

And don't 'fuck' her, respect her body and be careful. And maybe reconsider using a condom. She might not have any STIs, but unless you've been tested very recently you might not know, and condoms protect against pregnancy too.

I was tested 3 weeks ago and came back clear, I haven't done anything sexual with anybody since"

Yes, but would you want to land yourself in a position where you have to support a child for the next 18+ years?

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Turn her on.

And don't 'fuck' her, respect her body and be careful. And maybe reconsider using a condom. She might not have any STIs, but unless you've been tested very recently you might not know, and condoms protect against pregnancy too.

I was tested 3 weeks ago and came back clear, I haven't done anything sexual with anybody since"

Your status says you want to go to Quest bi afternoon before then, the testing can / will be out the window depending on what happens.

Why do a 1 hour quickie for her? Slightly odd questions if you are otherwise experienced???

MrB

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By *otwife Cuck LifeCouple  over a year ago

Local North West pr1

I'd make the effort mate, plan it , remember what she likes, book a meal book a hotel buy her something take it slow. Don't just fuck her and fuck off. If you make the effort you might have the best day of your life and your ex might not be your ex.

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By *aveandSue1Couple  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Stories and fantasies section maybe ?"

Would tend to agree.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Turn her on.

And don't 'fuck' her, respect her body and be careful. And maybe reconsider using a condom. She might not have any STIs, but unless you've been tested very recently you might not know, and condoms protect against pregnancy too.

I was tested 3 weeks ago and came back clear, I haven't done anything sexual with anybody since

Your status says you want to go to Quest bi afternoon before then, the testing can / will be out the window depending on what happens.

Why do a 1 hour quickie for her? Slightly odd questions if you are otherwise experienced???

MrB"

Unless he plays safe at Quest of course. He has stated that he's going bare with his ex at her behest so going on this alone he would normally play safe.

Just an assumption though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

is this for real ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Her mum hates me, and her mum and dad are gonna be out for a few hours but I have to get late night train to get home afterwoods and yeah I normally play safe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd make the effort mate, plan it , remember what she likes, book a meal book a hotel buy her something take it slow. Don't just fuck her and fuck off. If you make the effort you might have the best day of your life and your ex might not be your ex."

Fuck that... just smash the fanny off her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"is this for real ? "

Exactly my thoughts too. Poor girl was another thought... being treated as a piece of meat. No one should go through that.

OP....May I suggest you let her loose it to someone who'll give the time needed whom she will want to give it to (it sounds like you want to take it) and no someone who'll walk away to someone else once it's done.

Be a man and let that one go.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Why don't you wait til you have more than an hour! Go out for a drink,relax and enjoy yourselves. A rushed hour to lose her virginity doesn't sound great to me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'd make the effort mate, plan it , remember what she likes, book a meal book a hotel buy her something take it slow. Don't just fuck her and fuck off. If you make the effort you might have the best day of your life and your ex might not be your ex."

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You don't 'fuck ' a virgin.... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots of lube and patience failing that smash her back doors right in

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By *ay19720Man  over a year ago

Ashford kent

An hr is no good for a first time op..

She will need tenderness . Fore play..licking ..ect...don't be in a rush..

Or just send here to a "man" not a boy..lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Lots of lube and patience failing that smash her back doors right in "

Wonder if you would have said that if it was your daughter,if you have one of course?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lots of lube and patience failing that smash her back doors right in

Wonder if you would have said that if it was your daughter,if you have one of course?!"

Why would you even bring that up..

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire

You're talking about a memory she will carry for the rest of her life. Personally I would go out of my way to make it the very best memory I could.

For a Virgin, in an hour it's going to be a shit one.

Also unless you are 100% sure you are clean and she is protected in another way then playing bareback is plain stupid.

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By *leasureSeeker2017Man  over a year ago

half way between cork and limerick


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I was tested 3 weeks ago and came back clear, I haven't done anything sexual with anybody since"

can take upto 6 months for anything to show on a test, 3 weeks proves nothing,

as for the sex, just be gentle , because you only have a short time i would suggest using lube and don't be shy with it.

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By *icked_tongueMan  over a year ago

Bolton


"is this for real ? "

You seriously need to ask lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"virgin ex gf".

That said it all for me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Lots of lube and patience failing that smash her back doors right in

Wonder if you would have said that if it was your daughter,if you have one of course?!

Why would you even bring that up.."

I was asking him not you. If he had a daughter who was still a virgin would he want some man smashing her back doors in,I very much doubt it. It's all about respecting women and that's showing no respect whatsoever.

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By *entleman JackMan  over a year ago

Loughborough

Why not book a little hotel somewhere nice?

That way you dont have to rush,

She can relax more,

And it will be a happier experience for you both.

Trivago is your best friend......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lots of lube and patience failing that smash her back doors right in

Wonder if you would have said that if it was your daughter,if you have one of course?!

Why would you even bring that up..

I was asking him not you. If he had a daughter who was still a virgin would he want some man smashing her back doors in,I very much doubt it. It's all about respecting women and that's showing no respect whatsoever."

.... I'd smash his back door in if he approach any of my daughters like that.... wait until her mother finds out lol...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You sound so disrespectful to her. It's meant to be a special moment. Virgins don't "fuck"... if it's all genuine what you're saying then take it nice n gentle with her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your ex virgin gf??? Really. This boy cant be serious. If you couldnt use your tongue and a finger to get her wet and ready last time, What makes you think you will this time in just an hour. Dont scar this girl for the rest of her life.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Two weeks ago you said you've not had any meets from here and you don't pull when you go out and the way you talk about women and sex makes me think you're more concerned with only you.

My advice is either offer a really good, long, sexy session with her or walk away and let someone else do it, but are you absolutely sure she doesn't have her own agenda?

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd make the effort mate, plan it , remember what she likes, book a meal book a hotel buy her something take it slow. Don't just fuck her and fuck off. If you make the effort you might have the best day of your life and your ex might not be your ex.

Fuck that... just smash the fanny off her "

How charming!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was never lucky enough to have full sex with a virgin - but would recommend a little longer than an hour and to proceed at her pace.

All seems very odd... but it got people talking.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Turn her on.

And don't 'fuck' her, respect her body and be careful. And maybe reconsider using a condom. She might not have any STIs, but unless you've been tested very recently you might not know, and condoms protect against pregnancy too.

I was tested 3 weeks ago and came back clear, I haven't done anything sexual with anybody since"

Some stis take up to 3 months before they show up on testing so though your result may be "clear" you may not actually be

Also she may say she's taken her own precautions against pregnancy but she could be full of shit

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

And it's her first time she need adequate foreplay and preparation I'm afraid a quick fuck is not the best option

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By *hairman2Man  over a year ago

truro


"Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please."
make that 4 please

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By *ONGROD888Man  over a year ago

STOCKTON

You need to lick her pussy get her really wet and fingers in it she'll be ready

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By *ONGROD888Man  over a year ago

STOCKTON

Bet you never looked back since though eh lol xx

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By *ONGROD888Man  over a year ago

STOCKTON

Any woman want a partner in crime discrete and don't mind travelling x

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By *hatty GuyMan  over a year ago

The Borough of St Peter

She wasn't too tight she was too dry, you probably had your cock out banging on her front door before she could say "hymen". Keep your cock in your pants for at least 40 minutes. treat her preciously and let her be the one to tell you when to increase the intensity or take it on a step. She'll know when she's ready for you to enter her but even don't go battering down her hatches, she'll open up for you if you toot the right tune

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To me mate it sounds like you are out for yourself and not bothered what this girl wants. 1 hour is not enough to respect this girl for the human she is. She isn't a piece of meat. If this were my daughter and I found this out I wouldn't be a happy man. If you have any respect you should tell her not until she is ready properly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To me mate it sounds like you are out for yourself and not bothered what this girl wants. 1 hour is not enough to respect this girl for the human she is. She isn't a piece of meat. If this were my daughter and I found this out I wouldn't be a happy man. If you have any respect you should tell her not until she is ready properly."

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By *nequeenslutWoman  over a year ago

rugeley


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

please do the girl a favour and send her to a man that knows what he's doing

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight"

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By *ragon-tattMan  over a year ago

runcorn

Do it right or don't do it at all.

If neither of you can accommodate then get a hotel. Not a cheap premier Inn..get a nice one. Take her on a date and make the room as nice as you can. It is an intimate thing and you are right OP. It is an honor. So treat it like one. Not just some lunchtime hook up with an ex. She trusts you to do it right. So prove her right and make up for any failings you made during the relationship.

The reason her parents don't like you is becoming more apparent the more this is talked about..it's not a personal attack. But dad's don't want their little girl to be fucked. Mum's don't want to pick up the pieces of a broken heart...and use a condom...if nothing else, consider this....

If my ex came back to me and wanted to go BB. I'd wonder why and wouldn't take the risk of her getting pregnant. Even if I knew we were both clean.

Long story short.

Treat her right or decline politely and tell her to wait for the right guy not the right now guy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Turn her on.

And don't 'fuck' her, respect her body and be careful. And maybe reconsider using a condom. She might not have any STIs, but unless you've been tested very recently you might not know, and condoms protect against pregnancy too."

thats a very good point, as a virgin is she on the pill? if not you may get more than just a fuck from this event

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All the comments on her saying he should walk away or only thinking of himself is a bit of a jump from what he put in is opening message. He said SHE ASKED HIM so if she wants him to do it how is he being the selfish one? Maybe yes plan it better take more time but if it's genuine then he is showing some thought to her by asking how he can do it with out her being in pain. Maybe the people who have said just smash her doors in should be the ones you criticise. Also someone put he ain't the full shilling what about if he does have some kind of learning difficulties and so does she is the responses on here really the best advice. Think people need to stop and think a little before they reply on some of these threats

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By *eedsmale36Man  over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight"

Make sure your naked wearing only a "kiss me quick hat" you old charmer you !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan  over a year ago

Colchester


"Why don't you wait til you have more than an hour! Go out for a drink,relax and enjoy yourselves. A rushed hour to lose her virginity doesn't sound great to me."

Exactly, sounds like a desperate wee t&@t taking something that isn't his and he doesn't appreciate enough to give it the respect and care it needs.

An hour to fit it in for gods sake!

You're really pissing me off wee man!

If I were her dad, trust me, I would find you......

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley

OP, this is a fantasy, right?

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you


"Stories and fantasies section maybe ?"

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please."

Exactly what I thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't get too stressed out or you won't get hard or will blow your load before she tucks you inside her. Having said that, if you're that desperate to lose your virginity.. Maybe just consider pulling your pants down and chasing her round. She's bound to fall over eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a really shitty first time. He treated me like shit and no interest in my comfort or pleasure before then telling everyone after behind my back. Took me ages to enjoy sex again and it only came with my now husband. Don't be a twat treat her with respect

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"is this for real ?

Exactly my thoughts too. Poor girl was another thought... being treated as a piece of meat. No one should go through that.

OP....May I suggest you let her loose it to someone who'll give the time needed whom she will want to give it to (it sounds like you want to take it) and no someone who'll walk away to someone else once it's done.

Be a man and let that one go."

Well said

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By *antsguy007Man  over a year ago

Whiteley


"Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Please protect you and her....if you have learning difficulties and have a support worker perhaps discuss with them. You can be become seriously ill with life changing conditions if you don't take safe sex seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some right nobheads on this thread... "you shouldnt fuck her, make love" coming from women who get fucked infront of their husbands

All the bullying aside.. good luck op

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head

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By *rs mischiefWoman  over a year ago

Manchester


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head "

Not sure I can

*steps away from the forum

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head

Not sure I can

*steps away from the forum"

It's the best way sometimes

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Some right nobheads on this thread... "you shouldnt fuck her, make love" coming from women who get fucked infront of their husbands

All the bullying aside.. good luck op"

Yea they do after years of experience, and a first time that they likely either;

a) appreciated it because the right person made it a good experience for them so they believe that's what it should be or

B) they hated it because they were with someone that just wanted to get his end away as quickly as possible and they wish they'd had a better experience, as they since have likely experienced that making love is a far nicer

There could be other reasons of course but id sag the above cover the majority

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Some right nobheads on this thread... "you shouldnt fuck her, make love" coming from women who get fucked infront of their husbands

All the bullying aside.. good luck op"

Seems strange you've joined a swingers site without a grasp of the basic understanding couples have.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

She probably has her own agenda but I don't know what that is? She says she's on birth control, and I will pull out of her just before I cum.

I'm not going to walk away when she has asked me personally to be her first, I have known her for quite a few years and we were together for 2 years but the distance between us meant we rarely got to see each other.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some right nobheads on this thread... "you shouldnt fuck her, make love" coming from women who get fucked infront of their husbands

All the bullying aside.. good luck op"

there's a massive difference. We are on here to get "fucked" as you put it. This girl probably has no idea he's discussing her first time with members on a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some right nobheads on this thread... "you shouldnt fuck her, make love" coming from women who get fucked infront of their husbands

All the bullying aside.. good luck op

Seems strange you've joined a swingers site without a grasp of the basic understanding couples have.

MrB"

I'm not a swinger... its more like sex site to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head "

Jog on love

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I had a really shitty first time. He treated me like shit and no interest in my comfort or pleasure before then telling everyone after behind my back. Took me ages to enjoy sex again and it only came with my now husband. Don't be a twat treat her with respect "

I plan on getting her to orgasm through oral stimulation before I lube her up with ky jelly then kiss her all over before entering her nice n slowerly then when she feels comfortable I'll slowerly start to thrust in and out of her letting her get used to the feeling and the slowly increasing the speed I thrust at, hopefully letter her build herself up to organs again from penetrative sex

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Some just came up.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Some just came up."

That wasn't to you op by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"She probably has her own agenda but I don't know what that is? She says she's on birth control, and I will pull out of her just before I cum.

I'm not going to walk away when she has asked me personally to be her first, I have known her for quite a few years and we were together for 2 years but the distance between us meant we rarely got to see each other. "

Even if you pull out before you cum, pre cum can still contain sperm.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"She probably has her own agenda but I don't know what that is? She says she's on birth control, and I will pull out of her just before I cum.

I'm not going to walk away when she has asked me personally to be her first, I have known her for quite a few years and we were together for 2 years but the distance between us meant we rarely got to see each other. "

Withdrawal doesn't work pre cum is enough to impregnate someone. If she's one birth control make sure she's not taking antibiotics for anything because it can counteract some methods of birth control. The latter was something I was unaware of and therefore how I ended up pregnant with twins

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please."

I'm looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"She probably has her own agenda but I don't know what that is? She says she's on birth control, and I will pull out of her just before I cum.

I'm not going to walk away when she has asked me personally to be her first, I have known her for quite a few years and we were

together for 2 years but the distance between us meant we rarely got to see each other.

Withdrawal doesn't work pre cum is enough to impregnate someone. If she's one birth control make sure she's not taking antibiotics for anything because it can counteract some methods of birth control. The latter was something I was unaware of and therefore how I ended up pregnant with twins "

I will double check with her before I give her what she's been asking me for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Somehow I don't think this is real.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It is"
right well I'm sure it will come natural to her. No pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"She probably has her own agenda but I don't know what that is? She says she's on birth control, and I will pull out of her just before I cum.

I'm not going to walk away when she has asked me personally to be her first, I have known her for quite a few years and we were

together for 2 years but the distance between us meant we rarely got to see each other.

Withdrawal doesn't work pre cum is enough to impregnate someone. If she's one birth control make sure she's not taking antibiotics for anything because it can counteract some methods of birth control. The latter was something I was unaware of and therefore how I ended up pregnant with twins

I will double check with her before I give her what she's been asking me for."

Or just be sensible and wear a condom to be doubly safe...?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Let us know how it went on Sunday.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head "

I think I will too

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head

I think I will too"

Ah you disappoint me Josie that's not like you

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head

I think I will too

Ah you disappoint me Josie that's not like you "

He is 'cloaked' but firing blanks; he can't do much harm but shoot himself in the foot

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By *ceman5555Man  over a year ago

solihull


"Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please."

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

How old is this girl if the only time she can have sex if when her mom and dad pop out for an hour?

Seems well dodgy.

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman  over a year ago

south yorkshire

My advice don't

..you won't like this bit but let her first time be with someone who has a clue about what he's doing rather than it be something to look back on and cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is this girl if the only time she can have sex if when her mom and dad pop out for an hour?

Seems well dodgy. "

good point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head

I think I will too

Ah you disappoint me Josie that's not like you

He is 'cloaked' but firing blanks; he can't do much harm but shoot himself in the foot "

Not this misfit aswell ffs

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head

I think I will too

Ah you disappoint me Josie that's not like you

He is 'cloaked' but firing blanks; he can't do much harm but shoot himself in the foot "

Told ya; it wouldn't take the lille fella long to shoot himself in the foot

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By *ay19720Man  over a year ago

Ashford kent


"It is"

Run forest run.

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By *ikeC2012Man  over a year ago

Peterborough

She deserves better than this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Next weeks Jeremy Kyle.........just saying.

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

Make sure that she's inflated to the correct pressure or you run the risk of puncturing her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How old is this girl if the only time she can have sex if when her mom and dad pop out for an hour?

Seems well dodgy. "

.

She 25 and her mum and dad are control freaks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How old is this girl if the only time she can have sex if when her mom and dad pop out for an hour?

Seems well dodgy. .

She 25 and her mum and dad are control freaks"

Why don't you let her wait until she has a proper boyfriend or if sit down with her and ask her if this is definitely what she wants? If she definitely does want it then maybe you could wait until you both have a free weeekend and she could stay at yours or in a hotel and you could have a lovely romantic weekend and do it properly and not just a fuck and go?

H x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Think I best leave it up to others to reply to the above remark,I'll keep my thoughts in my head

I think I will too

Ah you disappoint me Josie that's not like you

He is 'cloaked' but firing blanks; he can't do much harm but shoot himself in the foot

Told ya; it wouldn't take the lille fella long to shoot himself in the foot "

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

OP be aware that if this ex isn't over you and wants you back she could be lying about birth control trying to get pregnant to trap you

That's a scenario that's not unheard of

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is such bullshit lol

Some great advice given though

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By *XmfcoupleXxCouple  over a year ago

Dublin


""virgin ex gf".

That said it all for me "

This

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple

I don't think the ex gf is the virgin

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Read fifty shades of grey and impress her with your experience lol... failing that just get on with it and spare us the details of how you're gonna do it. ...that's if it's actually real.

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By *XmfcoupleXxCouple  over a year ago

Dublin


"I don't think the ex gf is the virgin "

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts. If you cant post without being nasty its probably better if you dont post at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd make the effort mate, plan it , remember what she likes, book a meal book a hotel buy her something take it slow. Don't just fuck her and fuck off. If you make the effort you might have the best day of your life and your ex might not be your ex.

Fuck that... just smash the fanny off her "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Such a lucky girl!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is hilariously stupid. Ur a grown ass man and shes a grown ass woman. Why is this even a thread??!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight"

Really don't think an hour will be long enough.

Maybe wait til you've both got plenty of free time to play and enjoy each other.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Leave her be and let her get a nice caring boyfriend who loves her and let her be one of the few women in the world with a nice memory of losing their virginity

Ruby

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By *appy headCouple  over a year ago

leicester

If you have to ask you shouldn't be doing it , she needs time , you should be making love to her , even ifs only going to be once, make it the best time for her, remember you never forget your first , make that a nice memory

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lots of lube and patience failing that smash her back doors right in

Wonder if you would have said that if it was your daughter,if you have one of course?!

Why would you even bring that up..

I was asking him not you. If he had a daughter who was still a virgin would he want some man smashing her back doors in,I very much doubt it. It's all about respecting women and that's showing no respect whatsoever."

Totally agree. Some guys have no finesse and then wonder why us ladies delete their messages. Read and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Virgin sex seems horrible

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think people are missing the point that she's a grown woman and has asked the OP to provide this 'service'. Why are people attacking him?

OP lots of foreplay and lube, though it will probably still hurt. Maybe get her to relax with a couple of wines first.

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By *abloversCouple  over a year ago

London

Leave her alone would be my advice. She's clearly into you, and you are not. If your a good friend just stay away!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed

Wow some real hate showing through for single guys on this thread.

At no point has he disrespected this lady. He said it was an honour to be asked and came to a place where he could openly discuss sex ( otherwise known as fucking you prudes)

And all he has got is crap.

The whole spirit of the post has been twisted because of the use of the word fuck.

I'm reading that this guy is not experienced and wants to ensure its as good an experience as possible.

I'm afraid I can't advise as I've never been with a virgin. But I'd imagine like anything else talk to her about it. Anything anyone says here will be an assumption based on the stereotype of a virgin. After talking to her she may want whips chains and a hard ass fucking for her first time. Unlikely but only she can say.

Lube is cheap and you can buy some in Asda and go to the self check out so no embarrassment there and it won't hurt to have it on standby.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Lots of lube and patience failing that smash her back doors right in

Wonder if you would have said that if it was your daughter,if you have one of course?!

Why would you even bring that up..

I was asking him not you. If he had a daughter who was still a virgin would he want some man smashing her back doors in,I very much doubt it. It's all about respecting women and that's showing no respect whatsoever.

Totally agree. Some guys have no finesse and then wonder why us ladies delete their messages. Read and learn. "

Yes it's depressing isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow some real hate showing through for single guys on this thread.

At no point has he disrespected this lady. He said it was an honour to be asked and came to a place where he could openly discuss sex ( otherwise known as fucking you prudes)

And all he has got is crap.

The whole spirit of the post has been twisted because of the use of the word fuck.

I'm reading that this guy is not experienced and wants to ensure its as good an experience as possible.

I'm afraid I can't advise as I've never been with a virgin. But I'd imagine like anything else talk to her about it. Anything anyone says here will be an assumption based on the stereotype of a virgin. After talking to her she may want whips chains and a hard ass fucking for her first time. Unlikely but only she can say.

Lube is cheap and you can buy some in Asda and go to the self check out so no embarrassment there and it won't hurt to have it on standby. "

Exactly. There appears to be some very rude, judgemental people on this thread.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Wow some real hate showing through for single guys on this thread.

At no point has he disrespected this lady. He said it was an honour to be asked and came to a place where he could openly discuss sex ( otherwise known as fucking you prudes)

And all he has got is crap.

The whole spirit of the post has been twisted because of the use of the word fuck.

I'm reading that this guy is not experienced and wants to ensure its as good an experience as possible.

I'm afraid I can't advise as I've never been with a virgin. But I'd imagine like anything else talk to her about it. Anything anyone says here will be an assumption based on the stereotype of a virgin. After talking to her she may want whips chains and a hard ass fucking for her first time. Unlikely but only she can say.

Lube is cheap and you can buy some in Asda and go to the self check out so no embarrassment there and it won't hurt to have it on standby.

Exactly. There appears to be some very rude, judgemental people on this thread. "

It was far worse and much more personal before Jezebel removed some comments

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow some real hate showing through for single guys on this thread.

At no point has he disrespected this lady. He said it was an honour to be asked and came to a place where he could openly discuss sex ( otherwise known as fucking you prudes)

And all he has got is crap.

The whole spirit of the post has been twisted because of the use of the word fuck.

I'm reading that this guy is not experienced and wants to ensure its as good an experience as possible.

I'm afraid I can't advise as I've never been with a virgin. But I'd imagine like anything else talk to her about it. Anything anyone says here will be an assumption based on the stereotype of a virgin. After talking to her she may want whips chains and a hard ass fucking for her first time. Unlikely but only she can say.

Lube is cheap and you can buy some in Asda and go to the self check out so no embarrassment there and it won't hurt to have it on standby.

Exactly. There appears to be some very rude, judgemental people on this thread.

It was far worse and much more personal before Jezebel removed some comments "

Jesus. OP, all I can say is enjoy yourself, take it slow and go for it!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"

Exactly. There appears to be some very rude, judgemental people on this thread. "

I know it's not like my first time was anything well planned, house party and on the floor in sleeping bags after others had left. Yeh I'm only a guy, but I'd imagine most people's first time will have had far less thought than he is genuinely trying to put into it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Virgin sex seems horrible"
we all was virgins once lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Exactly. There appears to be some very rude, judgemental people on this thread.

I know it's not like my first time was anything well planned, house party and on the floor in sleeping bags after others had left. Yeh I'm only a guy, but I'd imagine most people's first time will have had far less thought than he is genuinely trying to put into it.

"

Mine was with my boss on the Christmas party after 10 bottles of blue WKD, a pitcher of lager and several tequilas. Stay classy!!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"

Exactly. There appears to be some very rude, judgemental people on this thread.

I know it's not like my first time was anything well planned, house party and on the floor in sleeping bags after others had left. Yeh I'm only a guy, but I'd imagine most people's first time will have had far less thought than he is genuinely trying to put into it.

Mine was with my boss on the Christmas party after 10 bottles of blue WKD, a pitcher of lager and several tequilas. Stay classy!!"

My he knew how to treat a lady.

I'll have to get my wife to retell hers. I seem to recall it was rushed between getting home from school but before parent turned up from work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight"

Take it gentle, 1 hour isn't enough.

Even better,

If you are a true friend and care for her, explain to her she should wait until she is in a proper loving relationship and not give away something so precious just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Take it gentle, 1 hour isn't enough.

Even better,

If you are a true friend and care for her, explain to her she should wait until she is in a proper loving relationship and not give away something so precious just for the sake of it."

Think with his head if he's a true friend.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

U don't have to have long fore play just be gentle as long as u hit the right spot and turn her on it should be good for her as well as for u but would use condom if u can't get her wet enough use some lube but put ur cock in slow so not to hurt her

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Virginity isn't a 'condition' ........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"Virgin sex seems horrible we all was virgins once lol. "

Some of us still are

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By *ungBlackTopMan  over a year ago

salford

Reading this thread makes me wonder why am I on this site?!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman  over a year ago

gosport ish


"Reading this thread makes me wonder why am I on this site?!"
so why are you?

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By *ay19720Man  over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Reading this thread makes me wonder why am I on this site?! so why are you? "

Lmao..bang.shot down..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This should maybe be in the im dreaming section,,,, and If it's true you don't have a clue wtf your talking about,,,

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By *lovebustyladiesMan  over a year ago

Birmingham


"Reading this thread makes me wonder why am I on this site?!"
lol im here for the stimulating chat and the latest stock n shares dealings sex dont get a look in lol

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By *even inchesMan  over a year ago

nottingham


"Two tickets for the Jeremy Kyle show please."

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By *rs mischiefWoman  over a year ago

Manchester


"Some right nobheads on this thread... "you shouldnt fuck her, make love" coming from women who get fucked infront of their husbands

All the bullying aside.. good luck op

Seems strange you've joined a swingers site without a grasp of the basic understanding couples have.

MrB

I'm not a swinger... its more like sex site to me"

That's great everyone uses the site to their advantage. I love having sex with two men at once one of them being my partner which really turns him on to see me enjoying myself. I also love having sex with 2 women and a man. In fact I like to have sex with several people in all different ways.

I am a swinger..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Virgin sex seems horrible we all was virgins once lol.

Some of us still are "

lol yep looks like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Take it gentle, 1 hour isn't enough.

Even better,

If you are a true friend and care for her, explain to her she should wait until she is in a proper loving relationship and not give away something so precious just for the sake of it."

She's asked me to be her first, it's what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Virgin sex seems horrible"

You were never a virgin then lol

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Take it gentle, 1 hour isn't enough.

Even better,

If you are a true friend and care for her, explain to her she should wait until she is in a proper loving relationship and not give away something so precious just for the sake of it.

She's asked me to be her first, it's what she wants "

I think the point people were trying to make is that even though she's asked that doesn't mean you should

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By *rniceguy100Couple  over a year ago

Glos


"I had a really shitty first time. He treated me like shit and no interest in my comfort or pleasure before then telling everyone after behind my back. Took me ages to enjoy sex again and it only came with my now husband. Don't be a twat treat her with respect

I plan on getting her to orgasm through oral stimulation before I lube her up with ky jelly then kiss her all over before entering her nice n slowerly then when she feels comfortable I'll slowerly start to thrust in and out of her letting her get used to the feeling and the slowly increasing the speed I thrust at, hopefully letter her build herself up to organs again from penetrative sex "

Are you sure it's "her" who is the virgin?? You sound like Jay off the Inbetweeners!! ????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is only me or?what makes a person on her right mind to ask an ex to take her virginity?

Also what makes a decent human being to accept it?

Here I witnessed such unbelievable stuff!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is only me or?what makes a person on her right mind to ask an ex to take her virginity?

Also what makes a decent human being to accept it?

Here I witnessed such unbelievable stuff!

"

Me and my ex have known each other for years, I didn't say anything until she asked me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't help but sing "tonight's the night". ...good luck!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Getting closer to the dead,today a girl will become a woman

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By *ral DMan  over a year ago

Leicestershire

Get some KY lube and gently massage her pussy with it then take your time, when me and my first went for it i went at her like a horny bull and ripped my foreskin rope. It didn't hurt but the amount of blood was fucking unreal! And it ruined our first time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is only me or?what makes a person on her right mind to ask an ex to take her virginity?

Also what makes a decent human being to accept it?

Here I witnessed such unbelievable stuff!

Me and my ex have known each other for years, I didn't say anything until she asked me"

I honestly don't see the issue that some of the other posters are seeing.

I guess all these people lost their virginity in the most idyllic of settings, with someone they eventually went on to marry....

If she's gagging, give her what she wants. Only you know if you're taking advantage of her/the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do it right or don't do it at all.

If neither of you can accommodate then get a hotel. Not a cheap premier Inn..get a nice one. Take her on a date and make the room as nice as you can. It is an intimate thing and you are right OP. It is an honor. So treat it like one. Not just some lunchtime hook up with an ex. She trusts you to do it right. So prove her right and make up for any failings you made during the relationship.

The reason her parents don't like you is becoming more apparent the more this is talked about..it's not a personal attack. But dad's don't want their little girl to be fucked. Mum's don't want to pick up the pieces of a broken heart...and use a condom...if nothing else, consider this....

If my ex came back to me and wanted to go BB. I'd wonder why and wouldn't take the risk of her getting pregnant. Even if I knew we were both clean.

Long story short.

Treat her right or decline politely and tell her to wait for the right guy not the right now guy."

Perfect

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By *heartsasoneCouple  over a year ago

outside of plymouth

OP:

Think this is jackanory time

Anybody who has respect for a women who consider it a honour and in so doing would ensure they had the sweetest time and something to remember as a happy time and look back on with joy.

So light meal and nice bottle of bubbly nice hotel bath and candles and a massage then She will be purring

A quick hr bloody insult and shows lack of maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why he had to go in full details of how he's going to penetrate her I'll never know lol. Maybe getting off on the dirty talk? Still not convinced this is a real person but good luck if it is. Remember once you pop you can't stop. She may hound you for more lol.

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

This thread is virgin on the ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This thread is virgin on the ridiculous "

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"OP:

Think this is jackanory time

Anybody who has respect for a women who consider it a honour and in so doing would ensure they had the sweetest time and something to remember as a happy time and look back on with joy.

So light meal and nice bottle of bubbly nice hotel bath and candles and a massage then She will be purring

A quick hr bloody insult and shows lack of maturity.

"

No its not. She wants it, she only has an hour and she choose him.

Its an insult to women that people judge that because a woman is a virgin she can't make her own mind up. Maybe we should take the vote off her whilst we are at it.

Can't risk her making a decision like who should run the country.

Let's get her father to choose the best man to court her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I honestly don't see the issue that some of the other posters are seeing.

I guess all these people lost their virginity in the most idyllic of settings, with someone they eventually went on to marry....

If she's gagging, give her what she wants. Only you know if you're taking advantage of her/the situation."

While i would tend to agree with you and was scrolling down thinking did all these people really have the hollywood movie first time ?? (I certainly didnt - i had the teenage first time experience most did, definitely less than an hour haha ... but also wasnt scarred by it) and wondering if the "dads" treat all women with this level of respect they talk about or if its just a first time rule

But then i read she was 25 ... and i think if you waited and held back til you were 25 ... was it really an ex you were waiting for? Because they never had sex the 2 years OP says they were together so why now? and thats why i dont think shes choosing him for the right reason and he should say no

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight"

Few questions

1 Why ex ex for a reason I say.

2Always use a condom unless partner for years.

3.I hope she loses it to someone else cause you seem like the kind of guy whom a lass will regret losing it to are you staying with her afterwards.

4. Have you tried to talk to her parents maybe tell them you

Are going to take there daughters virginity when they are out you might get the go ahead from them.

5. I hope you are joking cause I feel for that poor women virginity to women is a big deal you open up to someone (no pun intended) .

Well I hope the lass luck with yoy as I bet she needs it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Few questions

1 Why ex ex for a reason I say.

2Always use a condom unless partner for years.

3.I hope she loses it to someone else cause you seem like the kind of guy whom a lass will regret losing it to are you staying with her afterwards.

4. Have you tried to talk to her parents maybe tell them you

Are going to take there daughters virginity when they are out you might get the go ahead from them.

5. I hope you are joking cause I feel for that poor women virginity to women is a big deal you open up to someone (no pun intended) .

Well I hope the lass luck with yoy as I bet she needs it. "

4. Seriously?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP:

Think this is jackanory time

Anybody who has respect for a women who consider it a honour and in so doing would ensure they had the sweetest time and something to remember as a happy time and look back on with joy.

So light meal and nice bottle of bubbly nice hotel bath and candles and a massage then She will be purring

A quick hr bloody insult and shows lack of maturity.

"

The parents are out for an hour - what happens if they come back early? Unless they're going to mass which leads to a whole new can of worms

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By *eordieg2Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

She is gonna need more than a hour to feel relaxed... Why would she want her first time to be so rushed? It should be worth it, and not be rushed over the pace of an hour.

Kissing, lots of it and with or without time... You need foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Few questions

1 Why ex ex for a reason I say.

2Always use a condom unless partner for years.

3.I hope she loses it to someone else cause you seem like the kind of guy whom a lass will regret losing it to are you staying with her afterwards.

4. Have you tried to talk to her parents maybe tell them you

Are going to take there daughters virginity when they are out you might get the go ahead from them.

5. I hope you are joking cause I feel for that poor women virginity to women is a big deal you open up to someone (no pun intended) .

Well I hope the lass luck with yoy as I bet she needs it. "

Deluded and judgemental, nice.

OP has done nothing wrong but ask for advice.

I think many men would have bitten their right arm off to take an ex girlfriend's virginity and anyone who says otherwise is lying.

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By *norksterMan  over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Few questions

1 Why ex ex for a reason I say.

2Always use a condom unless partner for years.

3.I hope she loses it to someone else cause you seem like the kind of guy whom a lass will regret losing it to are you staying with her afterwards.

4. Have you tried to talk to her parents maybe tell them you

Are going to take there daughters virginity when they are out you might get the go ahead from them.

5. I hope you are joking cause I feel for that poor women virginity to women is a big deal you open up to someone (no pun intended) .

Well I hope the lass luck with yoy as I bet she needs it.

Deluded and judgemental, nice.

OP has done nothing wrong but ask for advice.

I think many men would have bitten their right arm off to take an ex girlfriend's virginity and anyone who says otherwise is lying."

I've been lucky enough to take someone's virginity, it's not a quick wham bam, there's a lot more to it, firstly you don't 'fuck' her, or think she's going to cum through various stimulation, there's got to be a good connection and trust, and if you're planning on taking it and moving on to other pastures, then be a gent and let someone else take over, don't let her do something she might regret. On another note, you haven't already got her locked up in your cellar have you??

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By *ink Panther.Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Few questions

1 Why ex ex for a reason I say.

2Always use a condom unless partner for years.

3.I hope she loses it to someone else cause you seem like the kind of guy whom a lass will regret losing it to are you staying with her afterwards.

4. Have you tried to talk to her parents maybe tell them you

Are going to take there daughters virginity when they are out you might get the go ahead from them.

5. I hope you are joking cause I feel for that poor women virginity to women is a big deal you open up to someone (no pun intended) .

Well I hope the lass luck with yoy as I bet she needs it.

Deluded and judgemental, nice.

OP has done nothing wrong but ask for advice.

I think many men would have bitten their right arm off to take an ex girlfriend's virginity and anyone who says otherwise is lying.

I've been lucky enough to take someone's virginity, it's not a quick wham bam, there's a lot more to it, firstly you don't 'fuck' her, or think she's going to cum through various stimulation, there's got to be a good connection and trust, and if you're planning on taking it and moving on to other pastures, then be a gent and let someone else take over, don't let her do something she might regret. On another note, you haven't already got her locked up in your cellar have you??"

Close locked up in his imagination lol

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By *alldarksurreyMan  over a year ago

surrey

Sounds like she just wants your baby batter if she doesn't want you to use condoms. It's up to you but just be prepared for the 'hello dad' in 18years time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Few questions

1 Why ex ex for a reason I say.

2Always use a condom unless partner for years.

3.I hope she loses it to someone else cause you seem like the kind of guy whom a lass will regret losing it to are you staying with her afterwards.

4. Have you tried to talk to her parents maybe tell them you

Are going to take there daughters virginity when they are out you might get the go ahead from them.

5. I hope you are joking cause I feel for that poor women virginity to women is a big deal you open up to someone (no pun intended) .

Well I hope the lass luck with yoy as I bet she needs it.

Deluded and judgemental, nice.

OP has done nothing wrong but ask for advice.

I think many men would have bitten their right arm off to take an ex girlfriend's virginity and anyone who says otherwise is lying.

I've been lucky enough to take someone's virginity, it's not a quick wham bam, there's a lot more to it, firstly you don't 'fuck' her, or think she's going to cum through various stimulation, there's got to be a good connection and trust, and if you're planning on taking it and moving on to other pastures, then be a gent and let someone else take over, don't let her do something she might regret. On another note, you haven't already got her locked up in your cellar have you??"

Huh? Why would I have a stranger's even stranger ex girlfriend locked up? Don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sounds like she just wants your baby batter if she doesn't want you to use condoms. It's up to you but just be prepared for the 'hello dad' in 18years time "
baby batter haha.

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By *norksterMan  over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"Hi all I'm after some advice, on Sunday I am meeting my virgin ex gf and she wants me to take her virginity (which is an honour).

How do I make it so she's in as little pain when we start fucking as possible? And will it also hurt me as she will be so tight?

She doesn't want me to use a condom so will be bb with her

We won't have long to fuck, just over an hour so extended for play is out of the question.

Ps I tryed fucking her a while and couldn't enter her as she's that tight

Few questions

1 Why ex ex for a reason I say.

2Always use a condom unless partner for years.

3.I hope she loses it to someone else cause you seem like the kind of guy whom a lass will regret losing it to are you staying with her afterwards.

4. Have you tried to talk to her parents maybe tell them you

Are going to take there daughters virginity when they are out you might get the go ahead from them.

5. I hope you are joking cause I feel for that poor women virginity to women is a big deal you open up to someone (no pun intended) .

Well I hope the lass luck with yoy as I bet she needs it.

Deluded and judgemental, nice.

OP has done nothing wrong but ask for advice.

I think many men would have bitten their right arm off to take an ex girlfriend's virginity and anyone who says otherwise is lying.

I've been lucky enough to take someone's virginity, it's not a quick wham bam, there's a lot more to it, firstly you don't 'fuck' her, or think she's going to cum through various stimulation, there's got to be a good connection and trust, and if you're planning on taking it and moving on to other pastures, then be a gent and let someone else take over, don't let her do something she might regret. On another note, you haven't already got her locked up in your cellar have you??

Huh? Why would I have a stranger's even stranger ex girlfriend locked up? Don't get it."

Sorry, that wasn't directed at you, merely adding to the thread you commented on..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why don't you wait til you have more than an hour! Go out for a drink,relax and enjoy yourselves. A rushed hour to lose her virginity doesn't sound great to me."

1 hour ffs. Make it special. Go out a few drinks. Flowers on the bed.

Be romantic. As she will remember this for the rest of her life. Play safe!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Sounds like she just wants your baby batter if she doesn't want you to use condoms. It's up to you but just be prepared for the 'hello dad' in 18years time "

Baby batter!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This should come to a conclusion in.....3...2....1

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Bloody hell we'll never know now how it went!

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