Welcome to Oxfordshire
I will be honest you will struggle to get any mets until you are meet verified
Catch 22 I know
Try attending a social or a club that way you can ask to be verified by others or try making contact with local couples and to see if they would be interested in a social meet / coffee or similar
Seems like there's alot of talk and alot of hype without actually coming through. Maybe I havnt met the right people on here yet but it definitely is hard breaking this ice