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By *olosuck OP Man
over a year ago
runcorn |
I have been on fab a while now but not actively been involved with forum etc. I don't seem to be getting any luck with anyone and was wondering if any females would have a look at my profile and give me some advice as to where I'm going wrong.
Thanks in advance to anyone willing to help |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I know I'm not a lady, but for wha it's worth OP, all your pics are cock pics, I'd lose those for starters and replace them with some well considered body shots.
Your profile blurb should be about who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer and to be honest yours isn't overly enticing currently, is mainly about what you want and not put in the best of terms either. Your blurb should be like a shop window to entice people in.
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By *olosuck OP Man
over a year ago
runcorn |
"I know I'm not a lady, but for wha it's worth OP, all your pics are cock pics, I'd lose those for starters and replace them with some well considered body shots.
Your profile blurb should be about who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer and to be honest yours isn't overly enticing currently, is mainly about what you want and not put in the best of terms either. Your blurb should be like a shop window to entice people in.
Good luck "
Thanks. Will look at changing that |
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By *olosuck OP Man
over a year ago
runcorn |
"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos. "
In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos.
In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics?"
Too many cock pics.
Lose them all!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One cock pic is more than enough. You need more body shots.
Plus the profile blurb needs to say more about you and what you're into..and check your spelling too xx |
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By *olosuck OP Man
over a year ago
runcorn |
OK guys thanks for your feedback. I have removed the pics like suggested, well put the to private anyway. And have changed the content. Is this any better in ur opinion. I'm rubbish at this stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos.
In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics?"
You've written your profile from a man's perspective, and that's fair enough as you are a man. But when you do something from a man's perspective the only people you are going to attract are men. I suspect if you were to chat a woman up in a bar, you would know how to say things that appeal to the female mind. I bet you wouldn't dream of telling a lady about your masterbation habits, or showing her a selection of cock pictures. In a face to face situation you would be showing the lady who YOU are. Its no different on Fab. And a good picture for sexual purposes is a picture that makes the person look sexy. And a sexy picture doesn't necessarily have to be naked - it's just has to be sexy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read you're updated profile. Yes you will struggle as a married man, but not much you can do about that. Also not sure that it will do you any favours by saying that you've never played with a couple before. Obviously everybody has to start somewhere, but it would take a very confident couple who would be willing to take on a newby who may not understand the potentially complex dynamics of playing with an MF couple. |
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By *olosuck OP Man
over a year ago
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"Read you're updated profile. Yes you will struggle as a married man, but not much you can do about that. Also not sure that it will do you any favours by saying that you've never played with a couple before. Obviously everybody has to start somewhere, but it would take a very confident couple who would be willing to take on a newby who may not understand the potentially complex dynamics of playing with an MF couple. "
I understand what u are saying. But want to be honest. I'm bloody rubbish at this stuff. I'm OK face to face but rubbish at writing things down ?? |
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By *olosuck OP Man
over a year ago
runcorn |
"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos.
In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics?
You've written your profile from a man's perspective, and that's fair enough as you are a man. But when you do something from a man's perspective the only people you are going to attract are men. I suspect if you were to chat a woman up in a bar, you would know how to say things that appeal to the female mind. I bet you wouldn't dream of telling a lady about your masterbation habits, or showing her a selection of cock pictures. In a face to face situation you would be showing the lady who YOU are. Its no different on Fab. And a good picture for sexual purposes is a picture that makes the person look sexy. And a sexy picture doesn't necessarily have to be naked - it's just has to be sexy.
Mrs"
No ur quite right I would go straight in with stuff like that. I have taken things out about my habits etc.I'm going to be putting some different pics up soon.
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