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New hi from North West..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi we just wanted to say hi and introduce ourselves..
We're a new fun friendly couple looking for the same a bit nervous but excites us as to where this may take us..
We're looking at clubs to start with anyone have any tips or to just settle us in here please come and say hello.
A bit daunting when you don't know anyone . .
Hope to hear from you soon..
K & M x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Golden Rule is to take things at a pace you are both comfortable with. Don't let anyone rush you. And enjoy it  "
Best advice we were given by some experienced swingers when we first set out in October had two awsome bi-fem meets but due to the advice avoided pushy people and pic hunters and a meet which would have been a disaster
Pace and being comfy is key xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good morning
I've had some great times visiting many of the clubs in the NW
With my playmate Kathryn we found Cupids couples night on a Wednesday ideal - she is / was bi curious and not into other guys .... Plus more than a bit nervous etc etc
We've found that club and that night a great intro - and will be there ... In about 13 hours .....
Anyone else there later ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The Golden Rule is to take things at a pace you are both comfortable with. Don't let anyone rush you. And enjoy it "
Will never be rushed into something we're not completely happy with ..Our own pace us the key..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"try looking at the reviews of local clubs on the clubs page
*other clubs are available"
We have looked at about 6 all different in their own right a broad spectrum is a must with us...think we will have fun trying then out at some point lol..
Nervous but excited..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The Golden Rule is to take things at a pace you are both comfortable with. Don't let anyone rush you. And enjoy it
Best advice we were given by some experienced swingers when we first set out in October had two awsome bi-fem meets but due to the advice avoided pushy people and pic hunters and a meet which would have been a disaster
Pace and being comfy is key xxx"
Aww thankyou and now your on your way? Definately won't be rushed and comfortable is a must needs to be fun or what's the point x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"hi friends great clubs are Townhouse on the Wirral and Cupids in Swinton nr Salford Manchester. I totally recommend these two as I broke my swinging Virginia here. good luck"
Have looked at townhouse maybe a visit at some point.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good morning
I've had some great times visiting many of the clubs in the NW
With my playmate Kathryn we found Cupids couples night on a Wednesday ideal - she is / was bi curious and not into other guys .... Plus more than a bit nervous etc etc
We've found that club and that night a great intro - and will be there ... In about 13 hours .....
Anyone else there later ? "
Great sounds like a good way to start hope you have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome to FAB OP, hope you enjoy your adventures. I can't offer any extra advice than has already been said.
Mr"
Well good advice which we will be acting on thanks
K & M |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get yourselves to cupids on a Wednesday for couples onlynda and don't forget to say hi "
Looked at this club is it good for first timers?
We will lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get yourselves to cupids on a Wednesday for couples onlynda and don't forget to say hi
Looked at this club is it good for first timers?
We will lol "
One a Wednesday it's very chilled. No pesky single men and everyone mingles with eachother. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get yourselves to cupids on a Wednesday for couples onlynda and don't forget to say hi
Looked at this club is it good for first timers?
We will lol
One a Wednesday it's very chilled. No pesky single men and everyone mingles with eachother. "
We will.have to have a look into all this and see what takes our fancy
K& M |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nervous but excited..
hi op and welcome, when you stop having butterflies and lose the excitement then it time to stop..enjoy "
We get that nerves ad to the excitement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have visited most clubs in the NW region.. they are all good and welcoming, it does depend on what you are looking for in a club, what night you pick and then how busy the nights are and who is there on the night..lots of factors all adds to the anticipation.
If you contact clubs in advance and explain you are new, a decent club will always look after you when you arrive and show you round and explain, help you relax those nerves.
On most nights in any club there are always newbies so no need to feel you might stick out like a sore thumb!
For me (A) i visted Cupids for my first club visit and we still go .. it's a lovely clean, warm and friendly club, spread over 2 floors with lots of playroom options.
Owners are extremely helpful and friendly.
I found the most nerve racking part on my first visit is the walk from the car to the club door, once inside I was fine! . Even now several swinging years down the line i still get the same butterflys when visiting a new club or party, but as said that is all part of the excitment of swinging!
Enjoy and take things at your own pace
A x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have visited most clubs in the NW region.. they are all good and welcoming, it does depend on what you are looking for in a club, what night you pick and then how busy the nights are and who is there on the night..lots of factors all adds to the anticipation.
We agree and think butterflies nerves all add's to the excitement of what could be..
We're definitely no pushovers and want to do things at our own pace and when we're ready..
Can't wait to try a club in the near future and meet like minded people. ..
Thankyou.x
If you contact clubs in advance and explain you are new, a decent club will always look after you when you arrive and show you round and explain, help you relax those nerves.
On most nights in any club there are always newbies so no need to feel you might stick out like a sore thumb!
For me (A) i visted Cupids for my first club visit and we still go .. it's a lovely clean, warm and friendly club, spread over 2 floors with lots of playroom options.
Owners are extremely helpful and friendly.
I found the most nerve racking part on my first visit is the walk from the car to the club door, once inside I was fine! . Even now several swinging years down the line i still get the same butterflys when visiting a new club or party, but as said that is all part of the excitment of swinging!
Enjoy and take things at your own pace
A x "
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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Slightly biased cause I work behind the bar, but Cupids couples night is a great intro to swinging in clubs.
Relaxed, friendly and no predatory single males which sometimes occur
Wherever you try it wish you all the best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Slightly biased cause I work behind the bar, but Cupids couples night is a great intro to swinging in clubs.
Relaxed, friendly and no predatory single males which sometimes occur
Wherever you try it wish you all the best "
Aww thankyou so much we have a few ideas maybe yours is one on our to do list xx |
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