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Any assistance greatly appreciated
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I've been on her for a while and I'm
After some advice on where I'm going wrong my profile is the first thing people see but no one seems to even look any ideas ? |
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Look at your own profile, and read it through, thinking would someone like to meet me?
What do you think women like to see? Try thinking out of the box, as your profile is the shop window.
Participating is one way of getting noticed, being part of the forums, going to socials and getting to a club all helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I best get reading again thank you "
Yup. Compare it with other profiles. Imagine you are a lady. Would they find yours more attractive?
Consider your pictures. Is a pair of feet with a dangly thing an attractive way of portraying yourself?
It all matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a bit of a re write but I'm still unsure if it's too much info lol just words with no substance op "
Believe me when I say that it is by no means too much information. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a bit of a re write but I'm still unsure if it's too much info lol"
We have read it and re-read it.
Don't worry about there being too much information, there isn't.
The only information we can see in your profile is what kind of fun you want, nothing else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only information we can see in your profile is what kind of fun you want, nothing else."
Exactly. That is the only useful part of your entire profile text. The rest is just padding that is doing nothing.
Lose the last bit about single men getting bad press - it's way too negative. This is your profile and should be about YOU - not the rest of the site.
I would suggest that you have a very, very careful read through your profile again. Several times if necessary, and taking each sentence one at a time, considering what message it is giving. If a sentence isn't giving the reader valuable information that isn't available elsewhere on your profile, then ditch it.
Also consider that visitors to your profile are more interested in what they are going to get out of a meet with you, than your needs, so you need to consider what it is you have to offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely need more photos & not just dick pics - be imaginative, nice shower / towel / under duvet etc torso shots. Need to sell yourself more in your text - what you like, what you're looking for, what made you try swinging. Also, you mention BDSM but not whether you're a Dom or a sub - that's pretty critical info, because as a sub, I'm not interested in sub men. It's very vague, and you've got no veri's (are you even photo veri'd?).
Get to a club & get some meets & veri's - once you've got that & tarted up your profile a bit, I'm sure you'll be fine!  |
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