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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey you all !
I've been on here over a year , and had 4 meets with different lovely ladies but once I've met them they all say they don't wanna verify me as it's like writing a review on a holiday , which I think fair enough about !
But now it seems an issue with meeting other women ?
How do you all think about this ?
Can't a guy have a meet have fun and not have to write an essay about it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it's a woman thing. I don't like writing them either. I don't want a trail of where I have been and when. Its no ones business. It also increases the number of messages you get when someone reads your verifications then messages who've you met. I and maybe lots of other women don't want extra mail.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know it's leaving an unnesseccary paper trail making yourself look like some kind of slut !
Well if there's any lovely ladies that want company without the trail let me know ! ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I think it's a bit of a catch 22 situation. I can see why women wouldn't want to have a trail of people they have met.
Is there not a way that you can verify someone but not have your name attached? Maybe a way that only the admins can see the name so they know it's legit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there's a way of just showing your verification summary on your profile. So it only reads something like "Verified by 4 meets, 3 women 1 couple"."
There is but then the lady has to trust the guy never to display it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's the issue ! So with no verifications women are skeptical about meeting a young guy thinking I'm going to be some kind of time waster !
It's really annoying ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it's leaving an unnesseccary paper trail making yourself look like some kind of slut !
Well if there's any lovely ladies that want company without the trail let me know ! ????"
So ladies with alot of veris are some kind of slut? Amazes me the sort of men this site attracts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it's leaving an unnesseccary paper trail making yourself look like some kind of slut !
Well if there's any lovely ladies that want company without the trail let me know ! ????
So ladies with alot of veris are some kind of slut? Amazes me the sort of men this site attracts. "
Kind of revealing isn't it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it's leaving an unnesseccary paper trail making yourself look like some kind of slut !
Well if there's any lovely ladies that want company without the trail let me know ! ????
So ladies with alot of veris are some kind of slut? Amazes me the sort of men this site attracts. "
There are plenty like that, sadly. Verifications can lead to problems.
My old profile, I had a regular fb. We did show first verifications to start with....but as I was not her type (I was older, shorter etc than what she looked for) It just attracted the wrong type to message her....when she knocked them back, they would then message me to ask how I had managed to "pull" her. In the end we just hid them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey you all !
I've been on here over a year , and had 4 meets with different lovely ladies but once I've met them they all say they don't wanna verify me as it's like writing a review on a holiday , which I think fair enough about !
But now it seems an issue with meeting other women ?
How do you all think about this ?
Can't a guy have a meet have fun and not have to write an essay about it ?"
get you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps meeting socially,or in a club and letting people get to know the person behind profile is the way to go.
I had verifications on my profile from people when i was here before,plus a note on profile stating that veris were from people id met,but what may or may not have gone is personal and private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So ladies with alot of veris are some kind of slut? Amazes me the sort of men this site attracts. "
If they think that then they're not worth getting in touch with anyway IMO!
What is this, a swingers site or Mumsnet? |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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But are you being totally honest ?
It would be a bit odd that all of those ladies did not want to verify you.
Did any of them have verifications shown or hidden ? Even a Webcam verification would earn you that tick and you dont have to display it...
"Hey you all !
I've been on here over a year , and had 4 meets with different lovely ladies but once I've met them they all say they don't wanna verify me as it's like writing a review on a holiday , which I think fair enough about !
But now it seems an issue with meeting other women ?
How do you all think about this ?
Can't a guy have a meet have fun and not have to write an essay about it ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it's leaving an unnesseccary paper trail making yourself look like some kind of slut !
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Well if that's how you view women with verifications then it might not be surprising they have not left you any ? |
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Would it be a bad thing for Fab to introduce a button that verifies somebody as having met but they can't post it to the wall, so for example I didn't want my name showing up as I was the same as OP and didn't want people knowing who I'd been with or when, then you could just tick a box under the verification that stops it being posted to the wall but can still be accepted then maybe a little post from fab that says something like 'protected verification' at the top but then still had the actual wording the person wrote? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be a bad thing for Fab to introduce a button that verifies somebody as having met but they can't post it to the wall, so for example I didn't want my name showing up as I was the same as OP and didn't want people knowing who I'd been with or when, then you could just tick a box under the verification that stops it being posted to the wall but can still be accepted then maybe a little post from fab that says something like 'protected verification' at the top but then still had the actual wording the person wrote? "
Problem with that is people would start saying it's probably a fake veri at a guess |
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Does it really matter???? If you meet then good for you. What matters is the connection and did you both or all enjoy it? If not why would you expect a good review. A verification is not a sign of just being a real person it's a sign that you are interested and more importantly open about it. If you want to just fuck and go save all your fees and hire someone. Sorry if that's harsh but hey!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess for some people its a kind of validation. Like a "knotch on the bed post" type thing. I think they can be useful in that you know the person you are talking to is genuine, but they all do say the same thing. Everyone woman on here gives the best blow job ever apparently... |
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Cam with a man to get yourself verified. You don't necessarily need to talk about sex or show your cocks on cam, if that's not your thing. At least you know they won't fuss and will happily verify you.
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'Some' might not leave a veri, but we've never experienced what you describe. It doesn't have to be a performance review, just say they met for a play meet. Four different women not leaving one seems very strange indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is but then the lady has to trust the guy never to display it? "
Make it say.." Its was OK I suppose" That should do the trick lol.
Agree with the paper trail comments and general privacy and discretion which is why we don't display ours.
We're verified which is enough without the salacious details - after all its not bloody trip advisor. |
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There is but then the lady has to trust the guy never to display it?
Make it say.." Its was OK I suppose" That should do the trick lol.
Agree with the paper trail comments and general privacy and discretion which is why we don't display ours.
We're verified which is enough without the salacious details - after all its not bloody trip advisor. "
It depends. We would be cautious of hidden veris.
It doesn't have to be salacious, just a verification of a play meet happening.
If the summary is shown it is a bit better. But, if the other profile is completely unknown to you, it is nice to see veris from other verified people. Straight away it is 100% clear the other party is genuine. The more hidden the trail is the more work is needed. In the case of a single guy, most people wouldn't bother putting the effort in to do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess for some people its a kind of validation. Like a "knotch on the bed post" type thing. I think they can be useful in that you know the person you are talking to is genuine, but they all do say the same thing. Everyone woman on here gives the best blow job ever apparently..."
Just to clarify... I don't give the best bjs ever... Infact... I'm useless 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey you all !
I've been on here over a year , and had 4 meets with different lovely ladies but once I've met them they all say they don't wanna verify me as it's like writing a review on a holiday , which I think fair enough about !
But now it seems an issue with meeting other women ?
How do you all think about this ?
Can't a guy have a meet have fun and not have to write an essay about it ?"
ask them just to verify you but not leave a comment
Or leave a comment but tell them you won't display it?
Still get your green tick |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure there's a way of just showing your verification summary on your profile. So it only reads something like "Verified by 4 meets, 3 women 1 couple"."
Thanks is, you can choose to not display them and the summary will still show |
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