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ANY THING RONG WHITH MY PROFIEL
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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HI CAN ANYONE TELL IF THERS ANY THING RONG WHITH MY PROFIEL.I HAVE LOTS PEPOL LOOK AT IT BUT HAVEN'T HAD MENY MESSAGES.AND NO MEETINGS I HAVE BEEN ON THE SIET FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS.SO IF SOMEONE CAN HAVE A LOOK AND TELL ME IF I NEED TO CHAINGE IT.IT WOULD BE A GRAET HELLP THANK YOU DICKY BOY |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 cock pics and 2 miserable looking facepics.. not really onto a winner there.. search the forums for the numerous other help posts and see what advice those guys were given |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You wrote it why worry ?....the written word can be read totally different from the way you read it as you wrote it ....if you catch someone's eye then they'll be in touch ,change it off one persons advice may in fact lead you to a profile that that person alone is attracted to ....be honest and try being yourself not what you think someone on here wants you to be just so you can get your end away ...most of all be fun ,be polite ,show respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have also had problems with my profile.."
Cant speak for anyone else but I joined fab to meet my sexual needs and those of the guys I meet ..... not to alleviate somebody's boredom!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP what exactly was your expectation when you joined the site TWO weeks ago, did you imagine, as many do, that sex would be on tap ? Sadly, if so you are going to be seriously disillusioned.
Reading the forum threads about single guys/their profiles/lack of meets/what women want will give you useful insight into how Fab works. |
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"I have also had problems with my profile.."
That's perceptive of you. Maybe now you could do something about it? A good start is to read all the advice given to single men on similar threads and think what could apply to you and then rewrite it. Or you could do nothing, no pressure, no obligation, no worries. |
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" HI CAN ANYONE TELL IF THERS ANY THING RONG WHITH MY PROFIEL.I HAVE LOTS PEPOL LOOK AT IT BUT HAVEN'T HAD MENY MESSAGES.AND NO MEETINGS I HAVE BEEN ON THE SIET FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS.SO IF SOMEONE CAN HAVE A LOOK AND TELL ME IF I NEED TO CHAINGE IT.IT WOULD BE A GRAET HELLP THANK YOU DICKY BOY"
There are some instant fixes you can do....copy and paste your profile into word and spell check it, correct it and paste it back into fab.
You really don't need to use CAPITALS, especially when you stress that you're STRAIGHT, because that makes people like me think you're so desperately STRAIGHT, that you might not be and how unfair is that?
You could try smiling......
You could try asking your self this question: "when I go to a bar, do I whack my cock out when I see a lovely lady?" If the answer is yes, then leave the cock pics in, if it's no then think about having them private.
Read all the other advice in threads similar to yours and have a think.
Reassess your expectations. 2 weeks is nothing. Come back in 2 months.
Go to a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This hurt my brain."
Talk about the wrong kind of mind fuck ...
I don't think I will be able to recover ....
On a serious note ... have a look at topics which help new fabbers with their profiles. Have patience. Respect. And grow some thick skin. Good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two weeks is not enough time to worry about no meets like any site dating or sex you need to be patient and constantly asses your profile and evaluate what your sending in way of messages and if it's working and if not then you need to stop think and change your approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have also had problems with my profile..
Cant speak for anyone else but I joined fab to meet my sexual needs and those of the guys I meet ..... not to alleviate somebody's boredom!!"
Sexy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No public photos, profile says little if anything about likes or dislikes. No sign of verification.
Try socials, chat. No caps lock when posting.
Two weeks is not long, think of the ratio between single men and women /couples. It's a Beauty contest do you really deserve to win? |
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So Dicky Not to much wrong but its a bit like most single men , so you have found fab swingers, you’ll soon discover that some profiles tend to catch the attention of more people or you may have been one of those who have been ignored, when trying to message with other users your profile will says a lot to other swingers.
Most (not all) serious swingers, have verified profiles from others in the community. You may want to take the necessary steps and have your profile verified so others can know you are serious about the lifestyle, visit a social is best or if you are brave try a club.
Your profile picture Let it be the real picture of yourself,try to include a picture that reflects your true body size It will also allow others to view other features they may prefer.
Your profile make it more about you don’t just write a one sentence be specific to what you are looking for, what you hope to accomplish etc.
Take your time and describe yourself well,this will let those who will come across your profile know what you like and the type of a person you are.
They first thing we do is look at your profile picture then go to your profile. If you have described yourself well, then you will increase your chances of people that are interested in you.
Things to Make Your Swinger Profile Stand Out, be honest with your information. Some people tend to lie about their age and weight you will be disappointed after a meet if you are rejected because you are not what the other couple/single expected.
Avoid exaggerating your experiences, everyone was a newbie at a certain period of time. You should be truthful about your experience so that whoever you interact with will allow you to move at your own pace.
Exaggerating about your experience can easily end up making you fail to enjoy your encounter with other swingers because they will treat you as if you have the experience you quoted.
Keep some of your cock pictures private
Do think on getting photo verified will make it appear to most you are serious about the swinging lifestyle.
then in the words of many
" patience is the key " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent even looked at your profile and judging from your post i dont think i want to! Bad spelling and grammar are a big turn off for me "
I stayed away from that because I didn't know if was careless, lazy, education or disability. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Even after reading all those nasty posts you are still polite OP...I really don't think I would have been so restrained if it was me.
Welcome to the forum, I hope it didn't put you off, stick around and hopefully you will see not everyone is so nasty |
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