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Hi kinda new here would like some friendly tips
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By *ndy2383 OP Man
over a year ago
Keighley |
Hi all I'm Andy kinda new here was hoping to meet but not had much luck I know single guys have a bit of a stigma attached as some men can be very creepy im sure but there plenty of people on here.
Just wondered if anyone could give me a few tips on how to work out my profile as I'm not a big guy I'm more slim but nice and genuine just looking to stretch my boundaries
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Hello Andy. I suggest you read through your profile again as there are a couple of spelling mistakes and some capital letters missing. Two weeks without a meet is nothing! Hope you find someone soon.
Sally
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Andy and welcome..
2 weeks is nothing, and you really need to be proactive as there are 100's of men to every woman on here, so you really should start messaging THEM |
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By *ndy2383 OP Man
over a year ago
Keighley |
Thanks for the tips will check that out as I need to flash out my profile on wendnesday just seemed I was getting g a lot of deletes and no replies just wondered if I was doing something wrong being new to this |
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This isn't Instashag, & you like to lick pussy. Do you think women will struggle to find guys who like to lick pussy? There are guys on here who claim they can breathe through their ears & can lick pussy for days, doesn't mean they're any good at it.
If I was a single guy on here I'd be wasting my time I'm neither ripped or VWE. Yes that's a big generalisation but you get my drift. If you're looking for a relationship try & dating site if you're looking for NSA casual sex try a swinging club. Good luck you're going to need it, don't mean that in a derogatory way but you're a small fish in a massive ocean. |
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By *ndy2383 OP Man
over a year ago
Keighley |
I gathered I was a small fish in this ocean but everyone has to start somewhere and there plenty of meets involving single guys as I've seen on here but I know there's a lot of messes players and timewaster's to fight through just wanted some help to do so and as for club I've been giving that some serious thought and there is a local club I'm thinking of attending to meet more people and get my foot in the door so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello Andy. I suggest you read through your profile again as there are a couple of spelling mistakes and some capital letters missing. Two weeks without a meet is nothing! Hope you find someone soon.
Sally
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This and it's also terribly cliche. Genuine guy who likes to lick pussy. Never heard that one before! |
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"I gathered I was a small fish in this ocean but everyone has to start somewhere and there plenty of meets involving single guys as I've seen on here but I know there's a lot of messes players and timewaster's to fight through just wanted some help to do so and as for club I've been giving that some serious thought and there is a local club I'm thinking of attending to meet more people and get my foot in the door so to speak "
This post is one long sentence & very difficult to read because there's no punctuation, heaven forbid any messsges you send to are like. May explain the instant delete. You also smoke which will put more people off than if you didnt.
I think a reasonable time going by other posts is 6-9 months, putting in a lot of time & effort. That's potentially a lot of knock backs, but 2 weeks unless your Brad Pitt is a completely unrealistic time to expect any results on here, even just a reply to a message. Look at as many single guy profiles as you can & see the ones with veri's & get some tips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look out for socials in the forums. There are usually a few in your area. Single men on here have to make an effort, go to clubs, socials and get yourself known. If you rely on fab for meets I think you will be very disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all I'm Andy kinda new here was hoping to meet but not had much luck I know single guys have a bit of a stigma attached as some men can be very creepy im sure but there plenty of people on here.
Just wondered if anyone could give me a few tips on how to work out my profile as I'm not a big guy I'm more slim but nice and genuine just looking to stretch my boundaries
Thanks to any who help"
Browse some profiles. Which ones stand out to you? Compare them with yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi just thought I'd put my 2 pence worth in. I think I must of been one of the most luckiest guys on here.I joined the site 4 months ago after being single for 10 months. After 2 weeks of perving profiles and dealing with unintelligent time waisters I finally plucked up the courage to message someone. I put together a simple and saucy message based on their profile requirements with a cheeky "fancy a coffee" at the end. To my surprise I got a resounding response and a yes to the coffee.  So only after being on here 2 weeks I had a first meet arranged. Since then we have been inseparable. So my recommendation to you is be yourself. Be polite. Be curious. Be intelligent have a good descriptive profile also be photo verified and aime for a social meet first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Breathe
Take in the advice given by all these lovely fabbers
Grow some thick skin
Have patience
Be yourself
and good luck
And use punctuation  "
I know ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks and I am always myself, it's never a good idea to pretend to be something your not but thanks for the tips.
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Nothing changed. Carry on as you are. |
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"Right I have made a few minor changes to profile, I'm going to be thinking of some more stuff to write for tomorrow.
Let me know what you think?"
I think it's a good idea to write more stuff. I hate to say it but it reads very passive. There isn't much evidence to me of 'oomph!' 'Pazazz'.....energy or excitement. Nothing stands out for someone to think 'wow!' - it's actually quite deprecating but not in a good way. That's just my opinion. |
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Hi OP. I didn't see your profile before so can't comment of if it is improved, i can only give you my opinion on it now.
There is nothing hugely off- putting to me in there, however it is pretty bland and boring. There is nothing to catch my eye and spark interest.
I would just keep on tweaking it until you are happy with it. Have a look at the profiles of other single men who have a few verifications and see what they put in theirs. Don't copy but use them for inspiration. |
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By *ndy2383 OP Man
over a year ago
Keighley |
I will be fleshing out the profile over the next few days but thanks for tips.
Never been one for profiling myself it's like an massive Ego Advertisement and I'm not like that, I'm just me but I will take your advice onboard and add some flair to it thanks.
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