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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do men on the forums always post about being married and cheating?
Is it a badge of honor?
I'm not having a go at the OP , but I never see cheating women do this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men on the forums always post about being married and cheating?
Is it a badge of honor?
I'm not having a go at the OP , but I never see cheating women do this."
because men think they will get sympathy whilst women just put up and shut up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men on the forums always post about being married and cheating?
Is it a badge of honor?
I'm not having a go at the OP , but I never see cheating women do this.
because men think they will get sympathy whilst women just put up and shut up "
Sympathy from who?
Women don't give sympathy shags |
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"Scared of being caught & some request im getting. When people say there discrete. Do they mean it  "
Being caught is always a possibility.
Most people do mean it when they say they're discreet, its in their best interests as well as yours. You will get one or two who find it hilarious to be indiscreet though.
Be cautious, if something seems too good to be true it undoubtedly is and always practice safer sex. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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you need to be very scared of the moral police force on here..they may try to chase you off the site as ive seen it before..so get a thick skin quick if you intend to continue..how much do you want your sexual liberty and the right to decide how to live..make your decision quick or you'll be railroaded..
welcome and hope you find what you seek xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should u stay away from people in your own local area"
Yes
Six degrees of separation & all that.
You also need to prepare to get caught, will it be worth it? Will it ruin your life or hers? Kids?
Lots to think about before you get a quick shag sweet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You haven't said enough for any real advice.
How long have you been married?
Why do you want to "explore"?
By explore do you mean cheat?...because on your own that's what it is!
Or do you wish to explore with your wife? In which case you should be discussing this with her before you put a profile up on here!
You are not coming across as looking to swing....simply to go behind your wife's back?......so you are asking the wrong people and must expect to get the negative replies that seem to be posted here already... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should u stay away from people in your own local area
Yes
Six degrees of separation & all that.
You also need to prepare to get caught, will it be worth it? Will it ruin your life or hers? Kids?
Lots to think about before you get a quick shag sweet "
Yeah I don't think you've given this a lot of thought OP. I wouldn't meet someone like you that didn't appear to have a clue about what they were doing. |
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I am married and don't want my wife to find out I'm on here, I love her, she's beautiful, my best friend, but she has a degenerative spinal condition which means sex is very painful, I don't want a love affair where I "feel" something for another woman, but I want sex, so there are reasons other than just being a cheating husband |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am married and don't want my wife to find out I'm on here, I love her, she's beautiful, my best friend, but she has a degenerative spinal condition which means sex is very painful, I don't want a love affair where I "feel" something for another woman, but I want sex, so there are reasons other than just being a cheating husband"
There may be lots of reasons but it is still cheating, no matter how you dress it up!
I'm not judging, done it myself before but OP needs to be aware of all that can happen X |
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"I am married and don't want my wife to find out I'm on here, I love her, she's beautiful, my best friend, but she has a degenerative spinal condition which means sex is very painful, I don't want a love affair where I "feel" something for another woman, but I want sex, so there are reasons other than just being a cheating husband"
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"I am married and don't want my wife to find out I'm on here, I love her, she's beautiful, my best friend, but she has a degenerative spinal condition which means sex is very painful, I don't want a love affair where I "feel" something for another woman, but I want sex, so there are reasons other than just being a cheating husband"
But if your wife doesn't know you are here then it is still cheating, no matter what the reasons.
I'm not taking a moral high ground, been there, done that, but excusing it is just that, an excuse. |
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We have talked about me "going elsewhere" but I'm not going to tell her as I know it will cause upset, should I leave her with a future of pain and life in a wheelchair so as I can find someone to live with who can have sex, or stay with the woman I love, have a secret life, and look after her ? |
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"We have talked about me "going elsewhere" but I'm not going to tell her as I know it will cause upset, should I leave her with a future of pain and life in a wheelchair so as I can find someone to live with who can have sex, or stay with the woman I love, have a secret life, and look after her ?"
my view is never justify, never explain. You owe no explanation to anyone here.
This is between you, your wife and your personal code. |
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Not trying to upset anyone or take over the op, I know I am cheating by playing away, but I'm happy with my decision and can sleep at night knowing I wouldn't do this given a choice of you lovely swingers or the wife, no contest, rather not have to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have talked about me "going elsewhere" but I'm not going to tell her as I know it will cause upset, should I leave her with a future of pain and life in a wheelchair so as I can find someone to live with who can have sex, or stay with the woman I love, have a secret life, and look after her ?
my view is never justify, never explain. You owe no explanation to anyone here.
This is between you, your wife and your personal code."
Exactly this ^^ |
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"Not trying to upset anyone or take over the op, I know I am cheating by playing away, but I'm happy with my decision and can sleep at night knowing I wouldn't do this given a choice of you lovely swingers or the wife, no contest, rather not have to."
one thing I would say is stop talking about your wife on here. She doesn't know you're here and doesn't have the luxury of choosing whether she's discussed or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly well done for the OP to be brave enough to say so here......we are a rare bunch
But perhaps some of the comments made are close to home that's true, this is not a platform to discuss your wife, that's private -
We married/attached men and women all have our reasons for being here, we decide who we tell or not, that's how it should be  |
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"Don't cheat on yer wife! Bang out of order mate."
consider how hurt she'll be if she finds out? Do you want to hurt someone you supposedly love? You never know who knows who, it's not just a fact of people being discrete or not. |
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"Should u stay away from people in your own local area
Yes
Six degrees of separation & all that.
You also need to prepare to get caught, will it be worth it? Will it ruin your life or hers? Kids?
Lots to think about before you get a quick shag sweet "
I've met people from all over uk I've found local or not the 6 degrees of separation still come into play.
Hell my own cousins hubby from Aberdeen contacted me on here don't think he recognised me but I did him |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Im married & scared of exploring. Wat advice would u give"
I just feel you maybe haven't thought this through. Please do that before embarking on something you might regret. Yes, you could get caught out, as not everyone is discreet, we know this from experience. So that is something you have to be prepared for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im married & scared of exploring. Wat advice would u give"
You are scared. You can't accommodate and can't travel. Delete your profile. It is clearly not a site for you. |
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"Should u stay away from people in your own local area
Yes
Six degrees of separation & all that.
You also need to prepare to get caught, will it be worth it? Will it ruin your life or hers? Kids?
Lots to think about before you get a quick shag sweet
Yeah I don't think you've given this a lot of thought OP. I wouldn't meet someone like you that didn't appear to have a clue about what they were doing."
Yep I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol i cant believe i am replying to this. How would you feel if your wife was screwing my cock....
Just remember karmas a bich!
If i was in a relationship i would not be messing about!!!!......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're really scared, don't do it.
If you think you'll be eaten up by guilt, don't do it.
If you can't compartmentalise, and keep a part of your life completely separate and away from the rest of it, don't do it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol i cant believe i am replying to this. How would you feel if your wife was screwing my cock....
Just remember karmas a bich!
If i was in a relationship i would not be messing about!!!!........."
Sorry to sound harsh, but no-one should escape Karma.
We fully understand that for some there are quite valid reasons to be driven to this and if this is the result of all their efforts in their relationship then good luck to them, but sadly many on here who are married are just looking for easy sex away from their partner.
For the ones who fit the second description, then Karma wil certainly bite. |
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"Lol i cant believe i am replying to this. How would you feel if your wife was screwing my cock....
Just remember karmas a bich!
If i was in a relationship i would not be messing about!!!!.........
Sorry to sound harsh, but no-one should escape Karma.
We fully understand that for some there are quite valid reasons to be driven to this and if this is the result of all their efforts in their relationship then good luck to them, but sadly many on here who are married are just looking for easy sex away from their partner.
For the ones who fit the second description, then Karma wil certainly bite."
What if being cheated on is their partners karma?
If karma does exist I don't think it works in a direct tit for tat way. I think it's the effect on yourself of your own actions.
But that's another story. |
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