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Single male why is it so frowned on ??
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Can I ask my profile is there anything wrong with it anything I'm missing saying to much not enough lol.
Not new to swinging but used to be couple single swinging is tottaly diffrent.
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There's nothing wrong with being a single guy in here, you just need to accept you are now one in a thousand looking for the same things, compared to being part of a couple and being chased/messaged more.
Your profile reads quite well mate, nothing wrong with it apart from some grammatical errors and spelling mistakes, but I would drop that paragraph extolling your penis virtues and sexual performance.
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over a year ago
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If I wasn't reading it for the sake of this thread, I wouldn't have got past the first couple of lines as it starts off negative and would put me off. Rest seems ok though. |
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I haven't felt haTed lol but just wanting to come across who I really am don't want to be judged but then if you meet me I'm nothing like what was thought I want to be real me lol then if people don't like it least I'm being real |
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over a year ago
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Single males aren't hated in the slightest, the ones who come across as arrogant and entitled get short shrift, and quite rightly so. But if you conduct yourself with respect and have an appealing profile there's no need for you not to be successful....but yes, you are in the majority demographic so that means you'll need to be more patient, and put in more "work" than couples and single fems. OP, being a smoker and not accommodating will decrease your chances further, but some won't mind that. |
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"Your single like me mate
That's it
Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
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Single males aren't hated on this site, it's just there are way too many, so the competition is fierce. You just need to appeal more than the rest
There is also the fact that most of the single males in here are Site Supporters, so the income they generate would be sorely missed if they were blocked |
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"If I wasn't reading it for the sake of this thread, I wouldn't have got past the first couple of lines as it starts off negative and would put me off. Rest seems ok though."
Thanku I have rejig it know hopefully negative gone xxx |
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"Your single like me mate
That's it
Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
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Rubbish there people on the site that specifically look for single males, some just know how to appeal and approach woman better than other.
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over a year ago
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"Single males aren't hated in the slightest, the ones who come across as arrogant and entitled get short shrift, and quite rightly so. "
This^^
We genuinely like single males, if they have bothered to read our profile, and realise we are not he for charity shags. |
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over a year ago
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Text speak doesn't really bother me but I've seen an awful lot of people on the forum say they hate it, so maybe reconsider all the 'u' and lols? But of course you are trying to show your personality so if you think that represents a part of you then keep it. You can rework your profile every day and some will like it some won't. You are already streets ahead of all those with one line profiles... |
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over a year ago
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"Have rejig my profile to show more me lol love me or hate me
I am what I am
Lol x
Thank u for comments constructive ones anyway x"
Only glance mainly got caught up on the pics you have something to say which is always a better start
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"Have rejig my profile to show more me lol love me or hate me
I am what I am
Lol x
Thank u for comments constructive ones anyway x
Only glance mainly got caught up on the pics you have something to say which is always a better start
good luck "
Thank u may I say sane back  pics are mouth watering xx
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"Text speak doesn't really bother me but I've seen an awful lot of people on the forum say they hate it, so maybe reconsider all the 'u' and lols? But of course you are trying to show your personality so if you think that represents a part of you then keep it. You can rework your profile every day and some will like it some won't. You are already streets ahead of all those with one line profiles... "
Thank you x will tone it down x |
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either. "
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ?? |
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either.
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ??"
Only applys to single guys
If you tell them why they don't believe you anyway |
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either.
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ??
Only applys to single guys
If you tell them why they don't believe you anyway "
But if a couple doesn't accomdate it's ok.???
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either.
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ??"
The reason it's not the same comes down to the fact men are so outnumbered I'm afraid. It's one of the easier ways to whittle down the sheer number of profiles. It's not fair, but it is the way it goes on here. |
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either.
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ??
Only applys to single guys
If you tell them why they don't believe you anyway
But if a couple doesn't accomdate it's ok.???
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Some but not all single guys can't accommodate but unless you say why people automatically assume you're cheating!! Genuine couples who can't accommodate most likely have got children so don't need to explain themselves like single guys do. Only trying to make suggestions to make it easier for you. You're a tiny fish in a massive pond so need to do the best you can. |
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either.
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ??
Only applys to single guys
If you tell them why they don't believe you anyway
But if a couple doesn't accomdate it's ok.???
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Seems to give others more room to judge, no understanding of some of the housing issues going on in this country for single people. |
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either.
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ??
The reason it's not the same comes down to the fact men are so outnumbered I'm afraid. It's one of the easier ways to whittle down the sheer number of profiles. It's not fair, but it is the way it goes on here. "
To be fair, it's the same on all of these type of sites, although; the pay sites tend to have a higher ratio of women to men than here |
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"Some but not all single guys can't accommodate but unless you say why people automatically assume you're cheating!! Genuine couples who can't accommodate most likely have got children so don't need to explain themselves like single guys do. Only trying to make suggestions to make it easier for you. You're a tiny fish in a massive pond so need to do the best you can. "
Thank you I took no offence at all I also think how would couple feel so uncomfortable with my flat mate in next room and would not want that at all x |
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"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either.
I'm not attached I have a flat mate due to me not wanting to broadcast my life to him I can't accomdate is the same said for couples or single females as most couples don't want there street family knowing what they do so also don't accommodate why can this not be the same for a single male ??
The reason it's not the same comes down to the fact men are so outnumbered I'm afraid. It's one of the easier ways to whittle down the sheer number of profiles. It's not fair, but it is the way it goes on here.
To be fair, it's the same on all of these type of sites, although; the pay sites tend to have a higher ratio of women to men than here "
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Single males aren't hated or looked down upon, complaints you see in the forums relate to men (and women, and couples) who think they are owed something merely for being on the site and that no effort is required. We were only looking for single men when we joined the site and have met some great guys.
As far as the profile goes, 4 of your pics are basically the same and one is so blurry it's a bit pointless so consider editing them.
I quite like your text although as a couple if you messaged us one of my first questions would be what you are looking for. Your profile suggests you're looking for couples as well but no info on what dynamic you like which makes me wonder if you are really interested or it would just be if you couldn't find a single playmate. |
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"Single males aren't hated or looked down upon, complaints you see in the forums relate to men (and women, and couples) who think they are owed something merely for being on the site and that no effort is required. We were only looking for single men when we joined the site and have met some great guys.
As far as the profile goes, 4 of your pics are basically the same and one is so blurry it's a bit pointless so consider editing them.
I quite like your text although as a couple if you messaged us one of my first questions would be what you are looking for. Your profile suggests you're looking for couples as well but no info on what dynamic you like which makes me wonder if you are really interested or it would just be if you couldn't find a single playmate."
Hi and thank you I have changed my profile a fair bit please take a look I'm sure it now reads a lot beeter |
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"Single males aren't hated or looked down upon, complaints you see in the forums relate to men (and women, and couples) who think they are owed something merely for being on the site and that no effort is required. We were only looking for single men when we joined the site and have met some great guys.
As far as the profile goes, 4 of your pics are basically the same and one is so blurry it's a bit pointless so consider editing them.
I quite like your text although as a couple if you messaged us one of my first questions would be what you are looking for. Your profile suggests you're looking for couples as well but no info on what dynamic you like which makes me wonder if you are really interested or it would just be if you couldn't find a single playmate.
Hi and thank you I have changed my profile a fair bit please take a look I'm sure it now reads a lot beeter"
At least it makes it a bit clearer you are interested in couples too but by saying you're open to most things / anything it can sounds like you either don't know what you want or that you're trying to please everyone. Ultimately it's your profile, lay out what you are interested in and what you can offer and although it will rule out some people hopefully instead you'll connect with people who are a better match. |
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On the whole the profile ticks through my checklist
If I'd only glanced the smoker would have stopped me ... although you do say you vape..I'd probably still be unsure but at least you explain as you do about the accommodation
Maybe a few different types of photos angles/B&W but on the whole a reasonable profile compared with a lot I see |
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OP - do you use normal dating sites as well? I have been on fab for about 14 months and haven't managed to meet ANYONE. Replies are hard to come by (most of my messages are deleted immediately or attract aggressive/insulting replies) and, as others have pointed out, the numbers are against you as a single male - women here get HUNDREDS of messages per day in many cases.
***Now, on the other hand, with relatively little effort from other sites this year I met 35 women and slept with 22 of them - and I had about 1/3 of the year off from meeting anyone, too. Normally I meet about 50 in a year, or one per week. The numbers are still poor (got to send a lot of messages to get one meeting) but absolutely workable and if you want to meet someone in a given week you probably can.
Keep trying your luck here but chances are you will get a lot more sex from sites which are supposedly not for that purpose (but of course they all are really, fundamentally) |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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Could it be you are posting as Straight, but looking for TV's and your recent status (22 mins ago) names and shames someone for blocking you ?
"Can I ask my profile is there anything wrong with it anything I'm missing saying to much not enough lol.
Not new to swinging but used to be couple single swinging is tottaly diffrent.
Thanks merry Xmas to all "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair alot of guys are fakes on here. Either claiming to be a female or couple. The site is overloaded on a ratio for men so women and good couples get bombarded eith messages. Theyve too much option on here which makes it extremely hard for men to meet. Espeshally without a veri. |
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"OP - do you use normal dating sites as well? I have been on fab for about 14 months and haven't managed to meet ANYONE. Replies are hard to come by (most of my messages are deleted immediately or attract aggressive/insulting replies) and, as others have pointed out, the numbers are against you as a single male - women here get HUNDREDS of messages per day in many cases.
***Now, on the other hand, with relatively little effort from other sites this year I met 35 women and slept with 22 of them - and I had about 1/3 of the year off from meeting anyone, too. Normally I meet about 50 in a year, or one per week. The numbers are still poor (got to send a lot of messages to get one meeting) but absolutely workable and if you want to meet someone in a given week you probably can.
Keep trying your luck here but chances are you will get a lot more sex from sites which are supposedly not for that purpose (but of course they all are really, fundamentally) "
 no, they're categorically *not* all the same. The reason you're "having" to send a lot of messages is because I'd wager those women think you're actually wanting to form a connection with you. |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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True
but when you have a meet today on and you are looking for TV's it does put that in a slightly different box does it not...of course unless you intend to just talk..(Not judging you at all, really we are not, but some things just dont add up)
"I don't see any reason it should make diffence open to talking to all "
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"OP - do you use normal dating sites as well? I have been on fab for about 14 months and haven't managed to meet ANYONE. Replies are hard to come by (most of my messages are deleted immediately or attract aggressive/insulting replies) and, as others have pointed out, the numbers are against you as a single male - women here get HUNDREDS of messages per day in many cases.
***Now, on the other hand, with relatively little effort from other sites this year I met 35 women and slept with 22 of them - and I had about 1/3 of the year off from meeting anyone, too. Normally I meet about 50 in a year, or one per week. The numbers are still poor (got to send a lot of messages to get one meeting) but absolutely workable and if you want to meet someone in a given week you probably can.
Keep trying your luck here but chances are you will get a lot more sex from sites which are supposedly not for that purpose (but of course they all are really, fundamentally)
no, they're categorically *not* all the same. The reason you're "having" to send a lot of messages is because I'd wager those women think you're actually wanting to form a connection with you. "
I agree, dating sites are all different - some are more productive (i.e. lead to more real-life meetings) than others.
For single men, who are at a huge disadvantage on any site, it's particularly important to use ones with a better gender ratio and more chance of meeting people.
If you're talking about the length of conversations required before meeting then it's rarely too bad, I find. A few messages either way or a few days of slow replying, say. Then you meet and have to seduce each other in person rather than assuming you will fuck, but that's not usually difficult and still a damn sight better than just meeting no one at all, lol. |
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"OP - do you use normal dating sites as well? I have been on fab for about 14 months and haven't managed to meet ANYONE. Replies are hard to come by (most of my messages are deleted immediately or attract aggressive/insulting replies) and, as others have pointed out, the numbers are against you as a single male - women here get HUNDREDS of messages per day in many cases.
***Now, on the other hand, with relatively little effort from other sites this year I met 35 women and slept with 22 of them - and I had about 1/3 of the year off from meeting anyone, too. Normally I meet about 50 in a year, or one per week. The numbers are still poor (got to send a lot of messages to get one meeting) but absolutely workable and if you want to meet someone in a given week you probably can.
Keep trying your luck here but chances are you will get a lot more sex from sites which are supposedly not for that purpose (but of course they all are really, fundamentally)
no, they're categorically *not* all the same. The reason you're "having" to send a lot of messages is because I'd wager those women think you're actually wanting to form a connection with you.
I agree, dating sites are all different - some are more productive (i.e. lead to more real-life meetings) than others.
For single men, who are at a huge disadvantage on any site, it's particularly important to use ones with a better gender ratio and more chance of meeting people.
If you're talking about the length of conversations required before meeting then it's rarely too bad, I find. A few messages either way or a few days of slow replying, say. Then you meet and have to seduce each other in person rather than assuming you will fuck, but that's not usually difficult and still a damn sight better than just meeting no one at all, lol."
Not at all, I'm talking about dating sites being for dating, not to be one of "50 women you've fucked in a year" |
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"Your single like me mate
That's it
Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
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Don't be daft.
I, for one, love single males.
Couples are way down the list along with single females in comparison  |
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"Your single like me mate
That's it
Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
Single man lover here"
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are literally thousands of thousands of single profiles here. That said, thousands and thousands of them behave like complete twats.
It should therefore be quite easy for you to stand out from the crowd if you wish. Be polite, be a gentleman, have patience, have respect and I am sure that you will be successful. |
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Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
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Bit much of a generalisation don't you think?
It's always worth thinking how ones attitude comes across to the many females on here |
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Not at all, I'm talking about dating sites being for dating, not to be one of "50 women you've fucked in a year""
People meet with all kinds of intentions, I suppose. Just like some people from fab meet socially, some people on mainstream dating sites meet to fuck. |
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Not at all, I'm talking about dating sites being for dating, not to be one of "50 women you've fucked in a year"
People meet with all kinds of intentions, I suppose. Just like some people from fab meet socially, some people on mainstream dating sites meet to fuck."
True, but please be upfront about your intentions with the ladies on the "real" dating sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some good points on this thread. Some of us single guys have parenting duties and the thought of little Johnnie coming in to find daddy banging some stranger whilst a man sits in the corner playing his chipolata banjo might well scar them for life.
Don't always assume can't accom means "cheating"
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"Some good points on this thread. Some of us single guys have parenting duties and the thought of little Johnnie coming in to find daddy banging some stranger whilst a man sits in the corner playing his chipolata banjo might well scar them for life.
Don't always assume can't accom means "cheating"
Merry Xmas.... "
Hear hear
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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I don't believe single males (as a generalisation) are hated on this site, but I do accept some people have their own personal issues with single males. These are different points.
The question then is where you look and network: if you have more of the former at a certain time in certain place, there is better chance of success. All things being equal that is. |
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"OP - do you use normal dating sites as well? I have been on fab for about 14 months and haven't managed to meet ANYONE. Replies are hard to come by (most of my messages are deleted immediately or attract aggressive/insulting replies) and, as others have pointed out, the numbers are against you as a single male - women here get HUNDREDS of messages per day in many cases.
***Now, on the other hand, with relatively little effort from other sites this year I met 35 women and slept with 22 of them - and I had about 1/3 of the year off from meeting anyone, too. Normally I meet about 50 in a year, or one per week. The numbers are still poor (got to send a lot of messages to get one meeting) but absolutely workable and if you want to meet someone in a given week you probably can.
Keep trying your luck here but chances are you will get a lot more sex from sites which are supposedly not for that purpose (but of course they all are really, fundamentally)
no, they're categorically *not* all the same. The reason you're "having" to send a lot of messages is because I'd wager those women think you're actually wanting to form a connection with you.
I agree, dating sites are all different - some are more productive (i.e. lead to more real-life meetings) than others.
For single men, who are at a huge disadvantage on any site, it's particularly important to use ones with a better gender ratio and more chance of meeting people.
If you're talking about the length of conversations required before meeting then it's rarely too bad, I find. A few messages either way or a few days of slow replying, say. Then you meet and have to seduce each other in person rather than assuming you will fuck, but that's not usually difficult and still a damn sight better than just meeting no one at all, lol.
Not at all, I'm talking about dating sites being for dating, not to be one of "50 women you've fucked in a year""
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True, but please be upfront about your intentions with the ladies on the "real" dating sites. "
That's just not how things work, unfortunately. If I say to a woman, "Hi, I want to fuck you." then she will block me and I will never get to meet her and nothing will come of it. It would be similarly bizarre to say, "I want to marry you" - wouldn't get me very far. Maybe a girl would message me saying, "I just want someone to buy me drinks for an evening - up for it?" then of course I would not be interested at all and she wouldn't get it from me and I wouldn't get a chance to try for more.
Being "upfront about one's intentions" is very rarely a productive strategy, in this or any other situation. I think it is widely known among adults that the underlying purpose of M/F interactions is some mix of companionship and sex, and it doesn't always need to be highlighted. It goes without saying.
So - if, OTOH, I treat her like a normal human and talk about normal things, go on a normal date and engage in normal human courtship behaviour, then our chances of success are much higher. Whether we just want a ONS or something more.
This is a two-way thing, I don't see women as victims in this arena. If anything, they're FAR more canny, clever and shrewd in the dating game than men can ever manage to be. |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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there are far too many guys on here anyway so it is more difficult but some are successful. the area you live in gives quite a lot of opportunities on the club scene as many clubs are within a short travelling distance from you |
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"Your single like me mate
That's it
Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
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Sorry but I couldnt disagree more. I did pretty well on here when I was a single guy. Having a well written profile, good mix of pics, being respectful and patient goes along way. As does going to socials and clubs. Jack. |
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"Can I ask my profile is there anything wrong with it anything I'm missing saying to much not enough lol.
Not new to swinging but used to be couple single swinging is tottaly diffrent.
Thanks merry Xmas to all "
I do not think that anyone frowns upon single males as there are couples specifically looking for them.
However a profile has to be both interesting and contain good pictures in order to get to the starting point of the race .
I think some members make the mistake of assuming that because it is a sex site , they can ignore making any effort to either sell or market their non sexual attributes . A mention of hobbies and interests will hopefully put more personality into a profile . |
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By *igtoyMan
over a year ago
Sexytown |
"You can't accommodate is that because you're cheating, if not why not say why you can't? 4 pictures the same is not necessary either. "
Just because a single male cannot accomodate it doesnt mean hes cheating. What if hes a single parent (Shock a MALE single parent) who has a disabled child and wants to find some adult company? Yes this is my situation....men can be single and decent too you know but we get cut short at the start.....cant win coz we are labelled the same as cheaters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your single like me mate
That's it
Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
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Bollocks |
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By *ik MMan
over a year ago
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"Your single like me mate
That's it
Single males are hated on this site
The only reason why we are not blocked is because of sexual discrimination laws
Bollocks"
Bollocks indeed. I've met some lovely people, more specifically women through here and have created some genuine friendships as a result. You reap what you sow in this world... |
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I don't know what your opening messages are to people, but even on here and in your profile there are still loads of spelling mistakes...with spell check, just hints at a lack of care.
what does " need to be more than a looker to catch my eye ?"- circus tricks ? Sounds like you're fussy, not all women are perfect, you say in the forum you prefer an hour glass figure, perhaps say that on your profile ?
Unless you need to vape during sex, why mention it at all if it's not smoking ?
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But there's a lot of them. And a lot of them send terrible messages and have rubbish profiles and pics yet still think they are due attention.