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Is there anyone worth chatting to?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello, I am also into chatting. If people can't put up with my endless nonsense chat, I don't put out.
For us and especially for me I have to really have a mental connection before I meet to play.
Surely all that flirtation only leads to a better meet..
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"
For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat. |
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By *K-cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Hello, I am also into chatting. If people can't put up with my endless nonsense chat, I don't put out.
For us and especially for me I have to really have a mental connection before I meet to play.
Surely all that flirtation only leads to a better meet..
S xx"
This is exactly it. Seems hard to find here though. |
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By *K-cpl OP Couple
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?
For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat."
Totally fair enough. We just find it hard to find those people! |
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?
For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat.
Totally fair enough. We just find it hard to find those people!"
Yes it is difficult and you'll encounter people who believe chatting means exchanging three "how are you?" messages . We've been lucky to have come across quite a few people who genuinely want the same thing though...don't lose heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?
For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat.
Totally fair enough. We just find it hard to find those people!"
Id love just to chat but never seems to happen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"
We like a bit of chat, we've 'gone in cold' with meets and it's generally not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is a very strange place. I love to chat to people, but it happens rarely on here, because everyone is always on their guard. We are here for sex, the most natural thing we do, next to breathing, eating, shitting and pissing.
Yet we're always wary of one another.
And it results in deletes, blocks, timewasting, etc...
Meh. |
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"
I love chatting with people first. I chatted to a lady for about a year before I met her and when we met it was like I'd known her for years and my kit was off in seconds. Fantastic fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always chat first. We like to make sure there is plenty of chemistry between us all before we take it further. Plenty of people on here who do like the social side of things. |
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"
For me a lot of the fun on here is chatting, sharing sexy experiences and fantasies. I love to that and if it is with local folks and moves onto a meet then great but if not then it can still lead to a steamy experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"
I don't see how people can have a physical connection before chatting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love to chat n build the suspense. Seeing my wife messaging in a group chat is si exotic and a turn on. This then leaves the meets to be about fucking.. Less words more actions then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like to chat first and then meet socially. Weirdly it's quite important that I like the person I'm having sex with. It's also establishes that the other person can put themselves out a bit which I also like. Quite often you can be chatting with a woman and you can just tell she can't be arsed. To me that doesn't bode well for if you ever meet... |
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"Most definitely chat and some flirting for a while, before a possible social."
Agree with this - if I am messaging someone I would like to try and start a bit of a converstion to be carried on at a social to see if there is any physical interest as well and mentally - makes the fun much better!!! |
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"Hello, I am also into chatting. If people can't put up with my endless nonsense chat, I don't put out.
For us and especially for me I have to really have a mental connection before I meet to play.
Surely all that flirtation only leads to a better meet..
S xx"
My thoughts exactly... ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm more of the sending fancy a fuck messages with unsolicited cock pics , kinda guy
Damn that must be why I'm not getting many replies "
I have 3 words for you..... location, location, location
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