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Am I a prude re several meets in a day?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Advice please. New to the site and I'm getting a lot of interest which is fab FAB! Lol anyway I'm wondering if it's for me as I'm looking for a regular local FB to be comfortable to explore with bit ot seems as though the men are looking to shag as many women as possible even on the same day, I don't want to me one of many women potentially catching something even with safe sex with potential cuts on fingers in mouths etc and it's turning me off massively. Thoughts pretty please |
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Arrange your meets for 7am then you can be first in the queue. Basically, there's very little you have to do on here and there are so many men, so if you don't fancy one just choose another. It's like a big box of chocolates. |
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Any single man who had more than one meet a day would be exceptional according to forum lore. I don't think you've got much to worry about on that score.
If you want a guy who is going to stick just to you though you need to be clear on that and aware that it makes you vulnerable to liars.
Also catching something is possible even if people only meet once a week.
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If you are after a relationship then be clear about that from the off. But be aware there is little you can do about others sex lives.
Some may tell you that they are meeting others, but I'd appreciate that honesty.
Others may say they are looking for a fwb. But at the same time still be meeting others.
At least with those admitting they meet others you know where they stand. |
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"No not looking for relationship but don't really fancy being one of a series the same day
Thank you though "
Sassita, if you click on the reply+quote button at the bottom of the post you're responding to we can see who you're replying to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not looking for relationship but don't really fancy being one of a series the same day
Thank you though "
Get to know people first then you can make a better judgement call on if you are being told the truth about how often they meet others
If not meeting someone who meets others the same day makes you a prude then i would say lots are prudes on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aww thank you x
It seems like a mindfield on here lol already experienced a fake profile and fake pictures on kik when met wasn't the person in the pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not looking for relationship but don't really fancy being one of a series the same day
Thank you though "
blimey...I think I would have to question the quality of the meet, and the stamina of the man, if he was going for several in a day 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate to think of myself as another notch on their bed post but if they could they would
I tend to go for people with lower veris "
Of course you are a knotch on their bedpost!! Some guys know this and restrict the number of veris they show. How about you knotching your bedpost for a change.
I like groups of guys. No pretence of being "special" just lots and lots of great physical pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be surprised at guys getting more than 2 meets in a week let alone a day,Fab can be a tough place especially for single guys so don't think it should be an issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No not looking for relationship but don't really fancy being one of a series the same day
Thank you though "
I'm not so sure many men manage to get more than one meet in a day. Most moans on here are from guys who simply can't get one!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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fair few of the guys i've met with regular manage more than one meet in a day, sometimes i'm the last one and it doesn't bother me. so long as they've showered before they get to me i'm ok with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you need to get sued to the difference between men who are interested and men who actually have the balls to meet
*used"
What do you mean? I do know the difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A guy could have a number of verifications in one day for a number of reasons. People he met at a club, party or social for example....?
Before I moved and downsized I used to hold regular parties (on previous profile). I think I had seven verifications on one date....but I hadn't had sex with all of them . You may need to read the actual verifications.....
Welcome to Worcester by the way. I'm sure you will enjoy it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A guy could have a number of verifications in one day for a number of reasons. People he met at a club, party or social for example....?
Before I moved and downsized I used to hold regular parties (on previous profile). I think I had seven verifications on one date....but I hadn't had sex with all of them . You may need to read the actual verifications.....
Welcome to Worcester by the way. I'm sure you will enjoy it!"
Thank you
I understand all that
However I do know that this guy had several meets the same day. Anyway I guess it's the name of the game and I need to decide if it's for me!
Cheers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A guy could have a number of verifications in one day for a number of reasons. People he met at a club, party or social for example....?
Before I moved and downsized I used to hold regular parties (on previous profile). I think I had seven verifications on one date....but I hadn't had sex with all of them . You may need to read the actual verifications.....
Welcome to Worcester by the way. I'm sure you will enjoy it!
Thank you
I understand all that
However I do know that this guy had several meets the same day. Anyway I guess it's the name of the game and I need to decide if it's for me!
Cheers "
So it's "one guy" who is troubling you, just pass him by, I don't know why you are worrying. There are loads of guys on here who can't get a meet and lots who would do exclusive. Use the site for what you want,if it all worries you too much then leave. It's a bit extreme to say cuts on fingers ect, as you must be referring to HIV AIDS and you can only catch it if they have it first. The site isn't riddled with it x |
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I don't think the guys get much chance to have multiple fab shags per day.
Many of us here meet infrequently, taking our time to select who's more likely well matched. Plus we have jobs, kids, families etc. Most of us are probably well above national standards for sexual health care - we know our stuff. It's not zero risk but also not a perfect storm arena for diseases.
Many of us do find fbs that span many years together. Always consider that people may tell you what they think you want to hear - so a few pinches of salt are sometimes necessary.
Don't be pressured - we all are unique and have our own needs and ways of doing things - but we share some interests in sexual liberty. You'll find lovely people in the forum, so gravitate towards those and you'll find good support, if needed. |
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"I hate to think of myself as another notch on their bed post but if they could they would
I tend to go for people with lower veris "
Although low amount of veri's doesn't mean that they don't meet loads
It's a minefield.
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"No not looking for relationship but don't really fancy being one of a series the same day
Thank you though
I'm not so sure many men manage to get more than one meet in a day. Most moans on here are from guys who simply can't get one!
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That's because the guys getting meets don't come on the forum whining about it
Remember OP, there is a shortage of decent, genuine single male swingers on here so any that prove they are probably get quite busy as word gets around. |
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"Yes, too prudish, you should go unlos.
Oh hold on...
Lol.
Seems to me he got confused and thought he was joining a dating site not a swingers site.
Yes. Too prudish.
He was a she  "
Then she was too prudish. Simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, too prudish, you should go unlos.
Oh hold on...
Lol.
Seems to me he got confused and thought he was joining a dating site not a swingers site.
Yes. Too prudish.
He was a she
Then she was too prudish. Simples"
Yeah....she actually messaged me.....by the time I had the time to get back on and reply....she was gone! |
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