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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why are the only messages I get from guys? I mean I am not into guys and it actually says it on my profile.. yet I get bombarded with messages and pic fabs from dudes... WTF? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have tattoos.. distinctive ones at that.. I need to have them private to keep discretion.. if I have those, face and cock pics private there will be nothing public and I will get no messages.. however i never get messages anyway |
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Usually when people are receiving mail from guys they get advised to use there filters and tick the box...but according to your profile, you have.
I've just never seen anyone else on here say they are receiving mail from single guys when they have the 'not looking for single guys' box ticked. |
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"I have tattoos.. distinctive ones at that.. I need to have them private to keep discretion.. if I have those, face and cock pics private there will be nothing public and I will get no messages.. however i never get messages anyway"
Surely if the cock pics were working you wouldn't of been here over a year with no verifications by meet and have more lady friends lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have tattoos.. distinctive ones at that.. I need to have them private to keep discretion.. if I have those, face and cock pics private there will be nothing public and I will get no messages.. however i never get messages anyway
Surely if the cock pics were working you wouldn't of been here over a year with no verifications by meet and have more lady friends lol"
No meets and so no veris... like I said not had anything except guys... I haven't had a message from a guy for awhile... perhaps I managed to change a setting I am not sure. Your right... clearly not doing well! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have tattoos.. distinctive ones at that.. I need to have them private to keep discretion.. if I have those, face and cock pics private there will be nothing public and I will get no messages.. however i never get messages anyway
Surely if the cock pics were working you wouldn't of been here over a year with no verifications by meet and have more lady friends lol"
No meets and so no veris... like I said not had anything except guys... I haven't had a message from a guy for awhile... perhaps I managed to change a setting I am not sure. Your right... clearly not doing well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are the only messages I get from guys? I mean I am not into guys and it actually says it on my profile.. yet I get bombarded with messages and pic fabs from dudes... WTF?"
welcome to the world of annoyance suffered by hundreds of couples and fems on here who get messages off guys asking if they'd like to meet even though we make it very cLear on our profile we only meet guys as and when it suits and we do the finding but it makes no difference whatsoever |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So what was the point in the thread then if you are no longer actually receiving mail from guys?  "
Because I was wanting to know why? I didn't know it was such a problem to ask, I mean yes it's been a good week since last time, and I may have fixed the issue.. it may be that I just haven't had a message in that time.. both are very possible.. sorry for wasting you time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are the only messages I get from guys? I mean I am not into guys and it actually says it on my profile.. yet I get bombarded with messages and pic fabs from dudes... WTF?
welcome to the world of annoyance suffered by hundreds of couples and fems on here who get messages off guys asking if they'd like to meet even though we make it very cLear on our profile we only meet guys as and when it suits and we do the finding but it makes no difference whatsoever"
I feel your pain... it's a bad day when I specifically say no guys and there's are the only messages I get ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hang on, I'm confused.
You're asking why you haven't had mail from guys?
Or asking why have you had no mail at all? "
Why I got mail from guys, when I had stated I wasn't interested in guys..
Says it pretty clear at the top |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tattoos.. distinctive ones at that.. I need to have them private to keep discretion.. if I have those, face and cock pics private there will be nothing public and I will get no messages.. however i never get messages anyway
Surely if the cock pics were working you wouldn't of been here over a year with no verifications by meet and have more lady friends lol"
Cocks attract cocks. Simple.
Ticking not looking for men doesn't stop them messaging. It just flags a message to say so as they go to write you a seductive, well composed piece of prose designed to weaken you resolve 
Go in your settings and block them if you're finding it hard to resist  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have tattoos.. distinctive ones at that.. I need to have them private to keep discretion.. if I have those, face and cock pics private there will be nothing public and I will get no messages.. however i never get messages anyway
Surely if the cock pics were working you wouldn't of been here over a year with no verifications by meet and have more lady friends lol
Cocks attract cocks. Simple.
Ticking not looking for men doesn't stop them messaging. It just flags a message to say so as they go to write you a seductive, well composed piece of prose designed to weaken you resolve
Go in your settings and block them if you're finding it hard to resist "
Haha thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Constructive advice for straight guy's
If you don't tick the box it will NOT stop men messaging you UNTIL you go to your message filters on your account page.
Scroll down and make sure who ever you DON'T want messaging you are stated blocked. .
No more messages unless they have already messaged you and then you would have to block individuals.
Hope this helps peeps xxxxxx
Feel the love - already too much coffee today haha
Happy swinging guy'said
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
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I had blokes blocked.
In two years I got one message from a lady I hadn't already met.
Now I get messages I don't want, but at least I know the idicator works, just incase I get another message from a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are the only messages I get from guys? I mean I am not into guys and it actually says it on my profile.. yet I get bombarded with messages and pic fabs from dudes... WTF?"
I don't get bombarded but I get them too and yet my photos are all friends only.. I guess it's the photos like the ladies said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unverified in a year? Woman will rarely send a guy an initial message. They have far too many messages off guys, so essentially have no need or time to send a first message.
Send polite messages, go to socials, do not send cock shots, do not ask for meets. All about sending an interesting, polite message to break the ice. Social events are the best way to meet people though. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Why are the only messages I get from guys? I mean I am not into guys and it actually says it on my profile.. yet I get bombarded with messages and pic fabs from dudes... WTF?"
I think it could be because of the 'gay looking' feet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Asking for a meet in an initial message does work sometimes though.
Mostly I just say no but Thursday night I was alone in a hotel. Logged into fab to fulfil my desires and I was no longer alone half an hour later.
He sent a face pic with his initial message and said he really wanted me. So sometimes it can work.
What I'm waffling along to saying is; asking to meet in an initial message isn't a guaranteed 'no', unlike many other things that are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Asking for a meet in an initial message does work sometimes though.
Mostly I just say no but Thursday night I was alone in a hotel. Logged into fab to fulfil my desires and I was no longer alone half an hour later.
He sent a face pic with his initial message and said he really wanted me. So sometimes it can work.
What I'm waffling along to saying is; asking to meet in an initial message isn't a guaranteed 'no', unlike many other things that are. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only been on here two weeks and I'm finding that more than over 50% or the guys who say there straight are bi.
No pun intended but there not Manley enough to admit it . You've done well mate, I only lasted a few days before I caved in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get messages from guys even though my profile says looking for women.
I think the reason is that some gay/bi guys prefer straight guys and they do get some joy from messaging them (we can argue whether these recipients are really 'straight' or not but that's what I'm told). So they try their luck. Who can blame them?
It doesn't bother me. I politely decline and we each wish other well. What's the big problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I see a new pic posted, no matter the sexual orientation, if I like it I will fab it - that's not same as "oi mr straight guy can I suck your cock please" is it ?
As for messaging - id never do it  |
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I'd walk straight on by!
Photos... there are lots on here with distinctive ink
Be imaginative and creative! Don't use it as an excuse for all cock shots!
No narrative
No accommodation or reason
Yeah.... exactly why should you be top of the pile over the next guy ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's because they are searching for men looking for women.
It don't matter what preference you put if you do your search different I get inundated with 'straight' guys who's profile says only after women and couples.....who have no pics (ok I'm a hypocrite) I only have private pics.
None of em seem to want me at their place either....... |
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