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over a year ago
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"some people wont mind and some will. You mention it on your profile so everyone has a choice."
Agree but imo a waste of time ... enjoy n be honest with yourself first x |
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"This is just a site for a ; get a shag then buzzzzzz off : who gives a dam ."
This is why fabswingers isn't what it used to be.
Such a shame. Not pointing the finger st you for this attitude. However swinging is the ultimate goal. If done how we perceive it it's not the above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just go about your fab business without shouting your personal life from the rooftops. The more you bring attention to it, the more likely you are to be ripped a new one.
Better to just quietly crack on. |
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I've put it on my profile so not hiding it.
I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but I can't tell if that's because I'm married, I have an obnoxious personality or my face looks like the hunchback of Notre Dame's uglier twin. |
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"I've put it on my profile so not hiding it.
I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but I can't tell if that's because I'm married, I have an obnoxious personality or my face looks like the hunchback of Notre Dame's uglier twin."
You will be off some people's list due to being married but on the whole lack of meets is down to the sheer numbers of men compared to women or couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it is far better to declare your married status at the start.....that way we can make an informed decision.....go to a swingers club, chat to people face to face - that is a much better way to arrange a meet than relying on fabs messages - on fabs people can pretend to be anything - in real life at least you get a more realistic impression of whether you are attracted to them, what kind of person they are and what kind of play interests you might share - plus you can see their eyes, their body language and they can see yours too - a much more meaningful way of establishing sexual attraction than just messaging each other on here.
Of course fabs has it's uses and we have many people we keep in touch with on here....but often are first play meets happen because we see someone and start chatting to them in a club....m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are many reasons why people might not meet you, and no matter how up front you are about it, being married is only one of them...
try looking for females who are playing away too....unless they have double standards
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is married a bad thing on fab?"
Some will be fine about it. Some will hate it. It may impact the amount of interest you generate. But some married women may be more likely to gravitate toward you, given the mutually assured destruction mindset  |
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"im seperated my wife says enjoy yourself but dont invole me. so im a single very horny bloke !!"
Separated in your head not in real life me thinks - you cannot accomodate probably because your wife is at home. What bollox |
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Unless people know the whole circumstances for being on here its not for anyone to judge. I dnt agree with being on here if you are married and would not go out with a married man. Saying that i am married. Not had a relationship with my husband for four years we stay together out of convenience. Judge me ? Yes you probably will but its my life and he doesnt and never will know. |
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"im seperated my wife says enjoy yourself but dont invole me. so im a single very horny bloke !!
So...if your separated why does what your wife say matter ???"
Exactly it's got bugger all to do with his ex if he's separated! Fuck me you have to be so careful with all the crap that people sprout at time's. |
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