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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too

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By *orkie321bWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham

OP these kind of posts never get a good response - nobody likes a whinger.

If you check the site FAQ section you will see a part about no replies to messages.

As a single lady on here I get upwards of 100 messages every day. I just don't have the time to reply to everyone, I'm not being purposely rude to people.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

It's considered generally good manners not to swear at people and take your frustrations out on them but you just managed to do that OP.

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By *irceWoman  over a year ago

Gloucester

Maybe put a note on your profile, like

"please reply even just if its a no thanks"

Freetime for many these days is limted soo try not to take non replys personally.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

lol. i think you're rude demanding people interct with you just because you wanna shove your dick in them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*interact.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's considered generally good manners not to swear at people and take your frustrations out on them but you just managed to do that OP. "

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By *adyx4Woman  over a year ago

Durham


"Maybe put a note on your profile, like

"please reply even just if its a no thanks"

Freetime for many these days is limted soo try not to take non replys personally."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Nice aggressive tone you have there...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ohhh man, I tend to get a reply from pretty much EVERY message (well majority) / even if it a read/delete-i DO get the message, as in they're not interested (which is fine).

I suppose the reciepient can at times actually feel the effort that has gone into messaging they will reply, but on the other hand.. if i had 100 "Wut u up2" messages.. i wouldnt reply either.

No-one should really get butt-ache with persons not replying (eventho it'd be nice to get one). I personally do not think that it's a status quo of being on a high horse for not replying, but i suppose thats where everyone is individual/unique eh?

If the receipient is interested they shall reply & if no reply then take the message; not interested & move on..

Pretty simples me thinks..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Threads like this are forum gold. Just makes hitting that block button so much easier.

Agression with an over inflated sense of entitlement, when added with an inability to do the basics, like reading the FAQ's, soooo sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We're not gonna reply to someone whose profile we don't like, whose pictures lead us to no find attraction, or to someone we didn't want messaging us in the first place.

Get over your sense of entitlement. You'll find fab a bit more fun. Would an inbox of 'no thank' be any better than no reply?

Man up princess

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By *iscean MaleMan  over a year ago

Darlaston

And you got to remember.. people owe you anything on here.. you choose to message people...its their choice to respond. They owe you nothing..not even their time to respond.

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By *ime for fun guyMan  over a year ago

Wherever you want


"Maybe put a note on your profile, like

"please reply even just if its a no thanks"

Freetime for many these days is limted soo try not to take non replys personally."

Wow Jess, you're a hot looking woman

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

If your gonna rant and moan do it properly.. say hi not high

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't be rude like this, I am a single man too and it's no big deal if most ppl on here don't respond. U can't make ppl like u, but u can show them that there is still nice single men out there. U just make us look like fool. U don't know the expression

. "treat people how you want to be treated"? .. I suggest u work on that...

Have fun fan's..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's considered generally good manners not to swear at people and take your frustrations out on them but you just managed to do that OP. "

This

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By *ime for fun guyMan  over a year ago

Wherever you want

Hopefully you've found some of the suggestions here helpful.

My advice is

Be polite

Create a profile that is likely to appeal to your target audience.

Don't take this too seriously, it's meant to be fun.

Have some decent pictures on your profile so people can see what they're getting. Cock pictures aren't a turn on for most.

Make an effort with your messages. Amount of times I just get a few short words is depressing, and they then expect to get a reply just by saying "wots up" etc

Remember that there are far more single guys on here than women or couples. They have a big pool of people to choose from and also get so many messages from guys desperate for a meet.

Go to some meets if possible.

If you're desperate for a quick shag then I'd suggest you see a professional.

Good luck and hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

This seems a very cynical view to have after only eight weeks on this site.

We hope that this isn't the kind of attitude that is shown when trying to contact people or there will never be any success.

Are you sure you are only contacting people who welcome contact from single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

Yup, that told em... im sure everyone will take this helpful advice on board....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

Sorry but I wouldn't respond nothing exciting on your profile to tempt me. Pics boring. Your rude. Mayb your messages come over the same.

Nice smile. Work on the rest. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh boo hoo "

This! Lol.

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

And your not on a high horse right now

I had 3 years of being polite,endless hi how are you from Midlands 5hrs away is not what I want

So to save mens disappointment I blocked everybody since reopened my profile

It's great to just have conversation with only those I met,would like to meet again

Being a woman that knows what she wants from here,is not on her high horse or superior,she saves time answering messages she is not interested in,its that simple,read the faqs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's difficult to reply to the hundred plus messages sometimes...and it's not being rude for the sake of it. But hey...if that's the aggressive attitude you have I'm not surprised you don't get replies.

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

If "People on here get on my nerves" then why are you here?

If we're all so awful what is the point?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone fancy a second glass of vitriol?

.... agree with all the replies, be stupid not to really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't know about most women but I always steer clear of those guys who always turn up on the newsfeed with the same negative/aggressive status day after day. "Doesnt anyone meet anymore" "everyone is fake" " whats the point of this site" We're here for fun! Misery does not attract fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Manners cost nothing end of

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing end of "

they cost time.

more time than you think. if i reply no to my 422 messages now AND none of these guys message me back to convince me they're worthy of meeting it'll take me a couple of hours at least. if any start replying so i have to block them that's more time wasted.

i do not have to reply to anyone who wants to put their dick in me, so i won't.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Manners cost nothing end of "

Should have lived by example then and tried using them in your OP then

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

OP go with the junk mail analogy

When you get junk mail through your door I'm sure you don't teleplay to all those people/companies that are expressing an interest in you/your business. You'll only reply to that unwanted mail if it interests you.

Still essentially the same thing as there are actually people behind those business that you ignore when you simply throw it in the bin when it's not what you want

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

Bitterbess, entitlement and anger. Such attractive character traits

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

It's means they are not intetested

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

and it's not even being up your own arse or on a high horse. it's called having choices and making them.

sorry that you don't understand that women are not considered the weaker sex any more and don't have to submit to what men want but times have changed since the 1950s.

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By *angbang junkieCouple  over a year ago

Ilkeston


"Manners cost nothing end of "

What have manners got to do with not getting a reply? people don't ask you to mail them, and site etiquette mean no reply=no thanks, that is a given.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not a female (clearly) so only get a few messages most days. But same as with my post (Royal Mail). I don't reply to junk mail....it goes straight in the bin. I'm sure most of the 100 messages ladies get each day could also be regarded as "junk mail". Why should they treat it any differently OP?

I've sat with ladies as they have gone through their inbox.....the number of absolutely crap messages, from no-hopers, guys miles away, obviously not read profiles etc is totally incredible. The only option is to just bin them..no time and totally pointless responding as the only sensible response to most would be "sod off"..... I'm sure that would offend you more?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's no obligation to reply. It just wastes both people's time. Easier to ignore. No need to cry about it.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

Also most don't read profiles before messaging

If they don't have the manners to politely read my profile to see if they're what I'm looking for before messaging me I'll meet their ignorance with ignorance

I was brought up to treat people how I'd like to be treated

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

it may be manners in the real world but on here it simply means that that person is saying you aren't for them...

you need to either grow a thick skin or actually read profiles.. if you think there is a slight chance someone wont reply then don't send the message...and don't come on here and rant about it as that will give people more reason not to respond to you

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By *orkie321bWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you may not like it, but tough shit, that's the way it is. The ladies hold all the power and control on this site purely down to the numbers. There are at least 10 times as many men as there are women.

Behaving like a knobhead on the forums and moaning because people don't reply will not get you a pity fuck. All it does is make the ladies of Fab even less likely to reply to you never mind meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Op - Fab is a bit different to most sites, where not replying to messages and getting blocked is fairly routine here. It happens when people aren't ready for you, don't see any compatiblity, are struggling with time constraints - as well as there having been a good number of people who've caused trouble, when they've been rejected.

In Fab, guys need to have resilience and thick skin, in order to remain and be upbeat and succesful.

Good luck!

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Stop it all of you! Poor boy is not getting shagged. He needs to be 'given a chance' or something similar.

I'll go for the something similar route which actually, isn't all that similar in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm glad I passed your test!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

May i ask why you would stand out from other single guys on here? Maybe suggest tinder would suit you best? ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Christ on a bike. Are you rely expecting someone to fall at your feet with an attitude like that!? As people have pointed out already, no one is contractually obligated to message anyone back. If you can't face rejection then maybe you need to see a specialist. Why should someone spend however long it takes to read your message then reply when it could be spent messaging someone they're likely to get on with???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They say high?...I say low

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm sure your delightful post has upped your number of blocks and no replies to stratospheric proportions so do carry on showing us your patient and resilient side!

Ruby x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

From the photos you look like a nice friendly guy as well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We wonder if anything positive has come out of this post for the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We wonder if anything positive has come out of this post for the OP?"

I doubt it.

Meanwhile the women in his area will be thankful they just dodged a bullet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

Your right there MR spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So funny how so many women took what I said out of context if you knew me you would realise the way it was misinterpreted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So funny how so many women took what I said out of context if you knew me you would realise the way it was misinterpreted "

The problem is the way you have portrayed yourself on that initial posting not many women are going to want to get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yes admitted it was a bad day and I should never have put it like that I sincerely apologise to anyone I offended most of all I'm not like that thinking people know me but how can they in such a short time on the site sorry all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

don't think there is anything to misconstrue tbf.

you think we're stuck up for not interacting with you. well loads have interacted with you in this topic alone, how do you feel about their replies, i would think you're satisfied that we're interacting now? seeing as that's all you asked for.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple  over a year ago

Brizzle


"Manners cost nothing end of "

And if you said hi to somebody (or high as you said), what would you do if they said hi back? Assume they want to sleep with you?

There's manners & there's pointless one line messages, if people bother to read our profile properly & send us an interesting messsge, we will always reply even if it's no thanks. We don't reply if people don't stimulate our interest or have a Naff profile it's not being rude it's our choice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As the French say "such is life" so op don't take it personally just rethink your approach

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing end of "

On here, responding to 100's has nothing to do with manners. You have no idea what other peoples inbox's are like. Also responding means people can get past future filters, so no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We think the thing you need to make sure of is that you say HI to people who actually invite contact with single guys.

Take us for example, we say no single guys. If you were to contact say someone like us, there is no way you could expect a reply.

Choose your contacts well, and you may in time get better results.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too

Your right there MR spot on "

Read the FAQ if you're struggling with the lack of replies...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP you've only been here 9 weeks, in the grand scheme of things your still a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes admitted it was a bad day and I should never have put it like that I sincerely apologise to anyone I offended most of all I'm not like that thinking people know me but how can they in such a short time on the site sorry all"

We only know you from your post. It was all I needed to know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes admitted it was a bad day and I should never have put it like that I sincerely apologise to anyone I offended most of all I'm not like that thinking people know me but how can they in such a short time on the site sorry all

We only know you from your post. It was all I needed to know."

Agreed

A post is all that anyone knows of others on here.

All we say is if it does not represent you then don't post it. If you have posted it, then that is how it is, or that is how you are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So funny how so many women took what I said out of context if you knew me you would realise the way it was misinterpreted "

How can anyone possibly misinterpret the OP.

Clearly states that anyone who deigns not to reply to him is up theirs own arse and ignorant.....why are you ladies not all falling at the gentlemans feet....?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So funny how so many women took what I said out of context if you knew me you would realise the way it was misinterpreted

How can anyone possibly misinterpret the OP.

Clearly states that anyone who deigns not to reply to him is up theirs own arse and ignorant.....why are you ladies not all falling at the gentlemans feet....?"

Beats me! If he had no replies before he'll be down to minuses in the dozens now!

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple


"Manners cost nothing end of "

A no reply is a no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lol that bit bothered me too

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By *ose CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bradford


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

How rude are you??? When we first joined we got hundreds of messages and no, I didn't respond to them all and unfortunately had to block some rude people (like you) who got shirty and sweary! Nobody HAS to respond, yes now I do if I can but if I don't then the person messaging has no right to complain. Perhaps if you're on a big boy site you need to behave like a big boy and not throw your toys out of the pram because you didn't get what you wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too

How rude are you??? When we first joined we got hundreds of messages and no, I didn't respond to them all and unfortunately had to block some rude people (like you) who got shirty and sweary! Nobody HAS to respond, yes now I do if I can but if I don't then the person messaging has no right to complain. Perhaps if you're on a big boy site you need to behave like a big boy and not throw your toys out of the pram because you didn't get what you wanted."

We agree totally.

We also had to block the OP after a series of rude messages.

And now he is calling everyone else rude.

It is funny how some people behave one way in public on here, then totally another way in private messages.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

If that's the tone you take in your messages then i'm not surprised. Manners maketh the man and cost nothing and that just shows what kind of man you are.

Just because the women on here are looking for sex does not mean that the should be treated with any less dignity and respect than any others. Be aware that by replying they're doing you a favour. We all know the disparity in numbers here between men and women. Ask yourself this 'why should they reply?' and show some humility.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too

How rude are you??? When we first joined we got hundreds of messages and no, I didn't respond to them all and unfortunately had to block some rude people (like you) who got shirty and sweary! Nobody HAS to respond, yes now I do if I can but if I don't then the person messaging has no right to complain. Perhaps if you're on a big boy site you need to behave like a big boy and not throw your toys out of the pram because you didn't get what you wanted.

We agree totally.

We also had to block the OP after a series of rude messages.

And now he is calling everyone else rude.

It is funny how some people behave one way in public on here, then totally another way in private messages.

"

After the tone of the OP I'm not surprised you had to block him, evidently set the tone for the kind of guy he is in general

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too

How rude are you??? When we first joined we got hundreds of messages and no, I didn't respond to them all and unfortunately had to block some rude people (like you) who got shirty and sweary! Nobody HAS to respond, yes now I do if I can but if I don't then the person messaging has no right to complain. Perhaps if you're on a big boy site you need to behave like a big boy and not throw your toys out of the pram because you didn't get what you wanted.

We agree totally.

We also had to block the OP after a series of rude messages.

And now he is calling everyone else rude.

It is funny how some people behave one way in public on here, then totally another way in private messages.

After the tone of the OP I'm not surprised you had to block him, evidently set the tone for the kind of guy he is in general "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

he didn't reply to everyone in this topic either so i wonder if he gets it now that people don't always wanna reply.

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By *rbane PlayerMan  over a year ago

London


"People on here get on my nerves we are all looking for our own interpretation of fun so get off your high horses and stop thinking your superior to reply if someone says high it's fucking manners to at least respond if you are spoken too"

I understand it can be frustrating but you can't make a person respond. Better to let go ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Some of you make me smile a comment can be taken so literally wrong the problem is you can't define a person on a comment made only as a gesture I'm glad you select few have shown your true colours come on hundreds of requests daily don't make me laugh if anyone has any issues I'd appreciate we resolve on a personal level not on the bandwagon as you have done

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Some of you make me smile a comment can be taken so literally wrong the problem is you can't define a person on a comment made only as a gesture I'm glad you select few have shown your true colours come on hundreds of requests daily don't make me laugh if anyone has any issues I'd appreciate we resolve on a personal level not on the bandwagon as you have done "

So you're an hypocrite then?

If we shouldn't judge/define others by the comments they've made on this thread, then why would you judge/define that many have "shown their true colours" or block them because you didn't like their opinion

I feel no need to jump on any band wagon. I merely give my opinion, you still seem as entitled and arrogant as you did in your OP (you clear hypocrisy embeds that opinion for me) it can't be one rule for you and another for others, if you wouldn't want judging based on your OP/comments then don't judge others

You've don't nothing but backtrack since the OP claiming we've all "mis-interpreted" it, many have made it clear they don't feel that's the case. I'd personally have far more respect for you if you just held your hands up and said "do you know what I was a bit of dick sorry", because let's face it we can all be a dick every now again especially when frustrated

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"Some of you make me smile a comment can be taken so literally wrong the problem is you can't define a person on a comment made only as a gesture I'm glad you select few have shown your true colours come on hundreds of requests daily don't make me laugh if anyone has any issues I'd appreciate we resolve on a personal level not on the bandwagon as you have done "

Basically you think you're entitled to a shag cos you're on a swingers site, get over yourself.

Yes some women do get hundreds of messages a day but what makes you think you're entitled to any of their time?

You're rude, judgemental and have no concept of what this site and swinging is about. I highly doubt you'll have done yourself any favours with this thread and your rude replies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some of you make me smile a comment can be taken so literally wrong the problem is you can't define a person on a comment made only as a gesture I'm glad you select few have shown your true colours come on hundreds of requests daily don't make me laugh if anyone has any issues I'd appreciate we resolve on a personal level not on the bandwagon as you have done "

It was more than a comment.

And saying about true colours, let us ask you this.

Do you believe that true colours are shown in personal messages?

We do.

And you have been in contact in private with quite a few on here haven't you?

It is funny how people speak differently in private, isn't it?

Your comments were not taken wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He blocked me and no idea why. So who is the rude bad mannered person. Look in mirror

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"He blocked me and no idea why. So who is the rude bad mannered person. Look in mirror "

So true.

The mirror tells the truth.

We don't care about being blocked by a rude, desperate single guy, we have had a few like that on here.

But then pretending to be decent on here, that kind of takes the biscuit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Friends I speak to people the way they speak to me leave it now or I might think your obsessed with me move on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny comment really, as we were spoken to first!

And not very nicely at that.

Believe us, we are not obsessed by any single guy, even when they have good manners, which certainly wasn't the case here.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple  over a year ago

Brizzle


"He blocked me and no idea why. So who is the rude bad mannered person. Look in mirror "

Why worry about it it's not as if you wanted to contact him anyway!! He can block away as far as we're concerned, this action or any of his other posts are doing him no favours & kinda defeats the object of being here. He's trying to make amends but it's too little too late now. Oh isn't hindsight a wonderful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"He blocked me and no idea why. So who is the rude bad mannered person. Look in mirror

Why worry about it it's not as if you wanted to contact him anyway!! He can block away as far as we're concerned, this action or any of his other posts are doing him no favours & kinda defeats the object of being here. He's trying to make amends but it's too little too late now. Oh isn't hindsight a wonderful thing. "

We don't think he is trying to make amends.

He is trying to blame everyone else.

The problem is though, every post is there to be read, and the consistency in behaviour is clear to all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Friends I speak to people the way they speak to me leave it now or I might think your obsessed with me move on "

Well that redeems him .....not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????"

Yes you my friend. Surely you aren't puzzled at these posts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Friends I speak to people the way they speak to me leave it now or I might think your obsessed with me move on "

Also dillusional lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

You are stunning and when you are bitter I love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Fab you are stunning

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Friends I speak to people the way they speak to me leave it now or I might think your obsessed with me move on "

And there's that arrogance again

I'd offer you a shovel but I think your doing well enough without it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fab you are stunning "

Wnt work

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I mean it you are stunning and I'm not just saying it let's move on I'm not arrogant I'm genuine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I mean it you are stunning and I'm not just saying it let's move on I'm not arrogant I'm genuine "

So is Donald Trump when he said just grab them by the pussy. They are women its what they deserve. A very genuine guy indeed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Friends I speak to people the way they speak to me leave it now or I might think your obsessed with me move on

And there's that arrogance again

I'd offer you a shovel but I think your doing well enough without it "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Come on that's ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

All the women I upset with the comments let's all meet together kiss and make-up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the women I upset with the comments let's all meet together kiss and make-up "

I think if we all met you we would be using that shovel to dig a big hole and put you in it lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the women I upset with the comments let's all meet together kiss and make-up "

Are u really that naive? Good luck on here mate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the women I upset with the comments let's all meet together kiss and make-up

Are u really that naive? Good luck on here mate "

Yup think he is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the women I upset with the comments let's all meet together kiss and make-up

Are u really that naive? Good luck on here mate

Yup think he is "

Ahh well, he won't last long lol ??

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