As a couple and adults...does anyone agree that to speak on the phone is generally an adult thing to do when wanting take things forward! ...why all the Texting!..messaging!...so impersonal!...I'm sat here thinking and visualising a meet with convo taking place over the table texting!...lol...I'm baffled!...why is it so hard to call ! All we want is to talk and move forward!...anyone else have this happen?..your views ?... |
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I don't give my phone number out to random people online. That means I keep to just messaging on here, at least to start with. Only 3 people from fab have my number and 2 of them are folks I knew before I joined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never really thought of it before but nobody has ever called me on the phone, and i had about 100 guys numbers off here.
i don't really care, i do think it's because i don't wanna focus all my attention on one person when they don't really mean anything to me apart from using each other sexually.
i am now focusing more on making friends now so this might change some time soon. but otherwise i don't really want random fucks/fuck buddies phoning me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand a womans reluctance to give her number out,so many fakes and wannabes on here
Personaly as a more mature male id love to be able to have grown up conversation with like minded people, but even in my limited experience, I've had idiots pretend to be women, or couples, and the lady is always just unavailable at the moment!!!  |
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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago
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When I used to do meets, I would use a separate phone used for this purpose only. However, after having a couple of meets and they didn't look like their pictures and lied about their ages I think best way forward is to cam or skype first.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I used to do meets, I would use a separate phone used for this purpose only. However, after having a couple of meets and they didn't look like their pictures and lied about their ages I think best way forward is to cam or skype first. "
How did that go down when they turned up? Can't understand why somebody would do this and think they will get away with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use a 'fuck phone' so no problem handing the number to that out. We can always swap a sim if there's ever a problem.
we have a fab phone as well"
Seems like a very good idea!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think part of the problem isn't wanting the phone call, but the way you ask for it. That also has to be done in an adult friendly way. I'd reword / rethink that."
I agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would prefer not to talk on the phone cos I'm not good at that, but I always do if requested to do so. However we rarely get asked for a phone call. Chatting and arranging by text usually works very well for us and we never been let down on a guest meet
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely would want to speak on the phone before meeting... I can tell pretty much straight away if we will get along, and in fact, the next victim on my list got there because he totally charmed me when we chatted on the phone   |
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