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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i really want to enjoy what swinging has to offer but i just can't get anyone to explore sex with. i have been here for a week now and the girls are just too selective always to my disadvantage: always going for taller guys or for white guys and things like that. how can i get to have a girl for myself with whom to swing for as long as it can go? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Its a shame you're having problems. I don't mind black guys at all, although you are short for me. I am tall though so thats not the case for all women.
You've only been here a week, and it does take time. Have you checked the meets and events page? I can't believe there is nothing going on in London tonight! Or maybe a club.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a week is a VERY short time. hopefully ur messages havent been FUCKmenow messages etc etc...there are LOTS of singles that dont have a preference on the men they meeet, obviously not dirty(as in unwashed) men, or guys that are total dicks lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a shame you're having problems. I don't mind black guys at all, although you are short for me. I am tall though so thats not the case for all women.
You've only been here a week, and it does take time. Have you checked the meets and events page? I can't believe there is nothing going on in London tonight! Or maybe a club.
Good luck!"
och im only 5'6 too lolol bugger.....shame!!!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"och im only 5'6 too lolol bugger.....shame!!!!"
I have met short men at parties, but they made up for it in inches else where.
I always think its a preference that goes both ways - no-one wants to climb a she-mountain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"och im only 5'6 too lolol bugger.....shame!!!!
I have met short men at parties, but they made up for it in inches else where.
I always think its a preference that goes both ways - no-one wants to climb a she-mountain."
lol I know...I can climb any mountain, i just know the good spots to rest at! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"och im only 5'6 too lolol bugger.....shame!!!!
I have met short men at parties, but they made up for it in inches else where.
I always think its a preference that goes both ways - no-one wants to climb a she-mountain.
lol I know...I can climb any mountain, i just know the good spots to rest at!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i really want to enjoy what swinging has to offer but i just can't get anyone to explore sex with. i have been here for a week now and the girls are just too selective always to my disadvantage: always going for taller guys or for white guys and things like that. how can i get to have a girl for myself with whom to swing for as long as it can go?"
You are pretty new to the scene. It can take a while to find a meet being a single guy because there are so many of you.
Get yourself to a social event and get yourself known  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for your comments but i would like to ask you to consider the fact that i have been here for about a month now and still to meet someone...are there genuine people on here? what is really going on here??? |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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There are that many single guys, you have to sell yourself. Maybe try a social or a swingers club, get yourself known. So many guys go on about unable to find meets, but dont seem to put the effort in. We get lots saying they are too scared to attend a club alone, well Helllooooooo you are grown men surly not, they aint scary places. You get out of swinging what you put in end of i guess x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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im guessing posting on the message boards are a good start too!
i joined over a year ago and became very disheartened by my messages (polite, always) just getting deleted, not even a "thanks, but no thanks".
but after chatting to some more chatty people i found there does seem to be a lot of "dicks" (the WRONG kind!) on here, so it is understandable that some women and couples dont reply as there are not enough hours in the day.
re clubs; must admit ive heard stories about it being not very nice for single guys there.....but then again, im sure the same principle as above applies, just on a lesser scale.
good luck....to you and i both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i wouls suggest changing your profile header "need some sex" would put me right off meeting someone it really smacks of desperation ......and as everyone has said for the ladies its a buyers market , you have to have a USP and stand out from the crowd in some way....unfortunately i cant tell you what way that is....because its different for everyone ....wish you luck anyways ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for your comments but i would like to ask you to consider the fact that i have been here for about a month now and still to meet someone...are there genuine people on here? what is really going on here???"
been on just over a month myself and so far had one meet!!nice
and am chatting to a few girls/Lady's and wait and see things take time
good things come to those that wait lol |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"im guessing posting on the message boards are a good start too!
i joined over a year ago and became very disheartened by my messages (polite, always) just getting deleted, not even a "thanks, but no thanks".
but after chatting to some more chatty people i found there does seem to be a lot of "dicks" (the WRONG kind!) on here, so it is understandable that some women and couples dont reply as there are not enough hours in the day.
re clubs; must admit ive heard stories about it being not very nice for single guys there.....but then again, im sure the same principle as above applies, just on a lesser scale.
good luck....to you and i both!"
Well Both our local swingers club are so very single guy freindly, so guess it depends what clubs you go to, with ours being small think they tend to be more freindly x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i really want to enjoy what swinging has to offer but i just can't get anyone to explore sex with. i have been here for a week now and the girls are just too selective always to my disadvantage: always going for taller guys or for white guys and things like that. how can i get to have a girl for myself with whom to swing for as long as it can go?"
May I suggest you lose the chips from your shoulders! 
There are shorter and black men on site that are having a whale of a time with the ladies, because they come across as fun - and that's what we're looking for.
Personally, I find your profile unappealing as it just smacks of someone looking to dump his load, and not particularly fussed where.
Women on site really are picky, and there's a lot to choose from. Whiney or easy going...whiney or easy going...hmmm...toughie! |
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"och im only 5'6 too lolol bugger.....shame!!!!
I have met short men at parties, but they made up for it in inches else where.
I always think its a preference that goes both ways - no-one wants to climb a she-mountain."
;) ill take it as one was me :p lol |
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As to the original question, a week month or year, it all depends on who you wish to play, how you approach them and if they are actually interested in you. Let's face it, that as single guys were are one of numorus on all these sites there for if you act like one of them you get treated as such. Some innocent gents get tarred with same brush but we got to grow up and move on. Also childish comment such as 'is anyone genuine here' is silly as surely anyone can see many people are verified here and many praise this sites competence so it isn't doing anyone especially yourself favours. Attend a social, swingers club singles night (even if u don't get laid) still opportunity to get advice and meet new people. Look on previous posts for advice at social and clubs. And you can't go wrong. Good luck. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"och im only 5'6 too lolol bugger.....shame!!!!
I have met short men at parties, but they made up for it in inches else where.
I always think its a preference that goes both ways - no-one wants to climb a she-mountain.
;) ill take it as one was me :p lol "
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