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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol tell me about it just come back from Manchester had no luck there
So nobody wanted to meet you in Manchester or Leicester. Have you worked out the common denominator yet?"
harsh but true lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea and absolutely cold up north but coming back Manchester Monday hope I get to meet someone, just don't get it because in every day life away from fab I'm a decent looking guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3716hI8lkE terrible
it is why can't you get a meet ?  "
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Tbh soon as I heard the chorus I went off it lol not my type of music |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"just don't get it because in every day life away from fab I'm a decent looking guy "
Maybe, and this is purely speculation on my part, but maybe looks are not everything, and so waving your face at the world isn't enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never been to a club but won't mind trying one time lol aslong there alcohol and some sexy women lol I think I'd fit in
Are the beer goggles for you or them?"
lol no that's just a few brandys to feel comfortable around that environment hence never been in a situation as so  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think your location is the issue "
lol go on then what would be the issue for me lol I know there's a few but always spoke to women with respect or never spoke badly to anyone that wasn't interested |
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"I don't think your location is the issue
lol go on then what would be the issue for me lol I know there's a few but always spoke to women with respect or never spoke badly to anyone that wasn't interested "
Men who don't show respect or are rude/demanding/self entitled don't get meets and you're right, not doing those things is good but if you're still not getting meets by being respectful, what is it that's not working for you?
Do you know what the 'greeen arrow' thing is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think your location is the issue
lol go on then what would be the issue for me lol I know there's a few but always spoke to women with respect or never spoke badly to anyone that wasn't interested "
As you have asked for advice on what the issue could be...
Smoker.
Cannot accommodate.
No profile text.
All possible turn offs, but as you you are a smoker who cannot accommodate work on profile.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think your location is the issue
lol go on then what would be the issue for me lol I know there's a few but always spoke to women with respect or never spoke badly to anyone that wasn't interested
As you have asked for advice on what the issue could be...
Smoker.
Cannot accommodate.
No profile text.
All possible turn offs, but as you you are a smoker who cannot accommodate work on profile.
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accommodate = I wouldn't bring anyone where my son sleep but I know the profile need improving I would just rather meet in a nice hotel on me never expect a woman to pay for a room or anything it's the guys privilegeto cough up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No one explained what it is?
Why not just try it?"
how could I try something when I don't have a slittiest idea what it's about lol, forgive me for not knowing much and being dyslexic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reasons this may not be working for you;
1) your profile seriously needs some work, one sentence is not enough for people to get an idea as the whether you would be compatible.
2) Your current status is so disrespectful and derogatory that any self respectful woman will not go near
3) your comments on other forum threads vary wildly between desperate, needy, white knight and just plain creepy, none of these may be how you actually are but when that is all we have to judge on due to lack of profile info then it isn't going to go in your favour.
4) Get more photos dude and practice trying to get your actual personality across in how you communicate in here.
5) get yourself to a club to get some verification, even if they are social meets and not play it will do you some good. Don't go with the expectation of getting sex though just because you have paid to get in. Just see it as basically a social club where most people just happen to be swingers and you may possibly see or hear people having sex.
Hope this helps and good luck dude |
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"No one explained what it is?
Why not just try it? how could I try something when I don't have a slittiest idea what it's about lol, forgive me for not knowing much and being dyslexic "
Touch/click the green arrow by your name. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reasons this may not be working for you;
1) your profile seriously needs some work, one sentence is not enough for people to get an idea as the whether you would be compatible.
2) Your current status is so disrespectful and derogatory that any self respectful woman will not go near
3) your comments on other forum threads vary wildly between desperate, needy, white knight and just plain creepy, none of these may be how you actually are but when that is all we have to judge on due to lack of profile info then it isn't going to go in your favour.
4) Get more photos dude and practice trying to get your actual personality across in how you communicate in here.
5) get yourself to a club to get some verification, even if they are social meets and not play it will do you some good. Don't go with the expectation of getting sex though just because you have paid to get in. Just see it as basically a social club where most people just happen to be swingers and you may possibly see or hear people having sex.
Hope this helps and good luck dude"
lol I honestly apologise for all that you said there well your not wrong so I best start one step a time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok just bring me back on forums
It shows you all the posts you've ever made, the ones that others will see and make decisions on and some of them are decision breakers."
wow thanks for schooling me lol I sound like a right desperado lol far from it |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Ok just bring me back on forums "
It means that people reading what you say on one thread can quickly see what else you've said.
Or, for example, if someone was in the habit of starting threads that were very similar - "NSA Leicester, anyone?" fairly regularly, but not actually SAYING anything, that person could be seen as quite one-dimensional.
Don't click my green arrow, btw, it's a car crash of nonsense.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been to a club but won't mind trying one time lol aslong there alcohol and some sexy women lol I think I'd fit in "
Citycelts u can just turn up and pay entry fee has a bar check the website out |
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"Thanks mate I will check it out soon then I'll have to find me a date to go with lol I very much doubt I'd go alone for my first time "
You won't find a woman to go on a date with you to a swingers club!
It exactly the same as going to a pub on your own and if you can't do that, you won't have much success. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You would be fine going alone. Its a very friendly place. Be brave lol"
lol I'm so tempted to try lol I just thought as soon as you got in you then have to walk around naked lol I think I need to go for it just go out there meet few people and socialise without expecting something else
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"You would be fine going alone. Its a very friendly place. Be brave lol lol I'm so tempted to try lol I just thought as soon as you got in you then have to walk around naked lol I think I need to go for it just go out there meet few people and socialise without expecting something else "
There are millions of hits on Google about swinging/clubs/eitiquette, why not have a read. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks mate I will check it out soon then I'll have to find me a date to go with lol I very much doubt I'd go alone for my first time
You won't find a woman to go on a date with you to a swingers club!
It exactly the same as going to a pub on your own and if you can't do that, you won't have much success."
I'm up for it now lol I'm gonna do it soon I'm a nice guy lol |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Struggle to meet in Leicester "
I've not been to Leicester in about 20 years.. that's not much help to you op..I was just passing the time of day.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Struggle to meet in Leicester
I've not been to Leicester in about 20 years.. that's not much help to you op..I was just passing the time of day.
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don't even get it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At Celts there is never any expectation that you will have to be naked, some do and some don't in the bar area you have to be covered anyway so just sit and chat until you feel ready to go explore the rest of the club. Some people don't get naked at all and use the sauna and hot tub in a swimming cossie so you won't be seen as odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At Celts there is never any expectation that you will have to be naked, some do and some don't in the bar area you have to be covered anyway so just sit and chat until you feel ready to go explore the rest of the club. Some people don't get naked at all and use the sauna and hot tub in a swimming cossie so you won't be seen as odd"
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