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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no idea what sort of messages you are sending so cannot comment about that but your profile looks ok to me.
My only suggestion would be maybe add a couple more non cock shots?
Have you thought about going to a social to get to know a few people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile says you are looking to mainly chat and flirt and that you may wish to meet in future
I would take that as you not wanting to meet right now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change your name and get rid of most of the cock pics ...
if somebody messages me and regardless of the content of the message, if the profile is cockcentric then I'm not interested, you need to have more of a selling point than your big dick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Different pictures would be better..we all know what a cock looks like.
The first line in your bio about breaking down boundaries(or something like that) yikes!!  strange way to start. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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First line "I'm up for breaking boundaries down" bad English tbh, people have boundaries for a reason last thing they are looking for is an outsider to come "push" them..
That's how it reads to me anyway, which I doubt was your intention..
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What am I doing wrong is my profile ok? I've been trying for ages to get a meet from either a girl or a couple but still no luck. "
Just get used to it dude, this is how it is for us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not easy for guy's is it"
I don't think it's easy for most people tbh. We had a meet up for Saturday night and had no response. Only ever put a few meets up on the 5 years we've been on the site but had no joy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not easy for guy's is it
Not that hard if you can read between the lines and play the game of fabthrones
You'll have to explain that one a bit more,how do you read between the line's?!"
Allows you to dodge the fakes, wannabes and jokers. Pick the good ones out....thankfully there are plenty of those about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i,m not surprised mate. the str8 single guy has virtually no chance on here . we are rated the lowest form in the pecking order below c/ds , trannies & half queers. there,s at least 90% are not wanting single men per say & str8 men even less . there seems an "unofficial" cut off point of 45 ,so anyone who is over that age have 2 chance of a meet , a dogs chance & no chance. so it,s no surprise to me you have had no meets on here."
Half queer?!
Maybe your attitude is to blame. |
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"i,m not surprised mate. the str8 single guy has virtually no chance on here . we are rated the lowest form in the pecking order below c/ds , trannies & half queers. there,s at least 90% are not wanting single men per say & str8 men even less . there seems an "unofficial" cut off point of 45 ,so anyone who is over that age have 2 chance of a meet , a dogs chance & no chance. so it,s no surprise to me you have had no meets on here."
I'll keep my thoughts to myself on this one methinks. |
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"i,m not surprised mate. the str8 single guy has virtually no chance on here . we are rated the lowest form in the pecking order below c/ds , trannies & half queers. there,s at least 90% are not wanting single men per say & str8 men even less . there seems an "unofficial" cut off point of 45 ,so anyone who is over that age have 2 chance of a meet , a dogs chance & no chance. so it,s no surprise to me you have had no meets on here."
"Half Queer"? 
I think I might change my sexuality  |
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the reason i said half queer is that bisexual guys are rife on here. iv,e been on 3 other site but iv,e never seen as many bi guys on a swing site as this one. if you dont like what iv,e said then tough as i,m saying it how it is for single str8 guys on here & i,m not the only one who thinks this way. |
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"the reason i said half queer is that bisexual guys are rife on here. iv,e been on 3 other site but iv,e never seen as many bi guys on a swing site as this one. if you dont like what iv,e said then tough as i,m saying it how it is for single str8 guys on here & i,m not the only one who thinks this way."
Then why not just say bisexual,rather than trying to be rude? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You say Chatting and flirting is a big turn on for me and what I'm mostly interested in' Which suggests youre not much into meeting as flirting and chatting. So no wonder women are not really showing interest. Just a thought but it would put me off that you prefer the chatting/flirting. Im on here to meet as well x |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
land of debauchery and kink |
"Thanks for the help
Hope that's not your real name
Why??
Why do you think!
He may as well stick a face pic up if he's going to have his real name up!"
Can you not have your real name up? |
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"the reason i said half queer is that bisexual guys are rife on here. iv,e been on 3 other site but iv,e never seen as many bi guys on a swing site as this one. if you dont like what iv,e said then tough as i,m saying it how it is for single str8 guys on here & i,m not the only one who thinks this way."
but whats the problem with alot of bi guys? honestly dont know how that can be a problem for u if your straight.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've written a few posts about this OP, if I recall correctly. Your profile is much better than the last one, since you've edited it. You have a good profile picture. I can't comment on the messages you've sent out, as I've not seen them, but please bear in mind, you've only been on the site for 9 weeks. It takes longer for a lot of single men to become a little more established. You need patience and persistence. Someone will bite, and you'll be on your way to your first verification. Other than that, socials and clubs are a good way to meet people... As is a cam verification if you can find someone willing to verify you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does take a while chap.
Be persistent but not pushy, it took me quire some time before I got a meet.
I now meet 2 wonderful ladies whenever I can and when they are free.
You'll get there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not easy for guy's is it
I don't think it's easy for most people tbh. We had a meet up for Saturday night and had no response. Only ever put a few meets up on the 5 years we've been on the site but had no joy x"
I find it strange why no one would not want to meet a sexy couple like yourselves. There are a lot of fools on here that like to talk about it but never follow through. If only you lived down South.
To the OP, you've only been on here 9 weeks so have patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not easy for guy's is it
I don't think it's easy for most people tbh. We had a meet up for Saturday night and had no response. Only ever put a few meets up on the 5 years we've been on the site but had no joy x
I find it strange why no one would not want to meet a sexy couple like yourselves. There are a lot of fools on here that like to talk about it but never follow through. If only you lived down South.
To the OP, you've only been on here 9 weeks so have patience. "
Thanks very much. We live quite local to a swinging club so usually go there but thought we'd try something different. No loss as went to the club anyway |
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