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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already.. |
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"Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already.."
Doesnt make them time wasters lol just means they dont want to meet you |
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"Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already..
Doesnt make them time wasters lol just means they dont want to meet you"
Or don't really think you're hot just don't want to hurt your feelings |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We had a chat after that. They have asked me more things but when i want or expect the same from them they become quiet. That happend with 2 girls already.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Even if ,why they wont say so? I am just a random guy for them so why are they care about my feelings? And the second thing. It was not like that that i sent my photo, she said that i am hot and it was her last message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Did i write something about meeting? I said that WHEN I EXPECT SAME THING FROM THEM they started to write some bullshit and became quiet. And yes if i chat with a girl for 2 or 3 days and than she doesnt respond at all without any reason i think it is wasting of time. Do you think that when girl says that i am hot for me it means that she wants to meet me now? That she will stop doing anything will wear sexy lingerie and will just fly to me. No i am not that kind of guy |
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"Even if ,why they wont say so? I am just a random guy for them so why are they care about my feelings? And the second thing. It was not like that that i sent my photo, she said that i am hot and it was her last message. "
Because some of us are actually nice and not arseholes.
Why don't you just block and move on she obviously ain't interested |
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My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All nice people live hundreds miles from me in that case :P I already did that. I am just a wee bit dissapointed in that.. Not because i am desperate only we were looking for the same thing. I should be mad only on myself for being so faithfull. |
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over a year ago
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"My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way "
3 years and for you this is not a time wasting? Then we have nothing to talk about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe you are right about thay. I am new here and i thought that there are only genuine people in here. I dont expect that they will run into my bed after two messages . I am here to meet friends with benefits so i would prefer to have some coneccion with you. Not only that i like how you look like. Because sometimes wheb i have a great chat with woman she doesnt has to be pretty at all. |
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"My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way
3 years and for you this is not a time wasting? Then we have nothing to talk about."
I said I'd meet him and I met him, it just took time |
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"My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way
3 years and for you this is not a time wasting? Then we have nothing to talk about.
I said I'd meet him and I met him, it just took time"
Totally understand im the same, was talking to a someone on and off for 18 months and just met them recently! Was worth the wait! Men meed to be patient! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So for me you are a huge one. I would not wait 3 years to have a meet. I understand that people have got lofe family etc,because i have. But i think that if you have joined that website you are not into endless chat only sex!! And after 3 years of chatting did you have 4 years of socialising? |
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"So for me you are a huge one. I would not wait 3 years to have a meet. I understand that people have got lofe family etc,because i have. But i think that if you have joined that website you are not into endless chat only sex!! And after 3 years of chatting did you have 4 years of socialising? "
Not we fucked the first meet and we now meet as regular as we can even go to swingers clubs together on the odd occasion.
Your problem is like many younger men you've mistaken a swingers site for a sex site, over time and with more experience you'll see there's a distinct difference between the two, and if you haven't got the time to play the long game I'd agree this isn't the site for you, you may have more success on tinder or POF
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"So for me you are a huge one. I would not wait 3 years to have a meet. I understand that people have got lofe family etc,because i have. But i think that if you have joined that website you are not into endless chat only sex!! And after 3 years of chatting did you have 4 years of socialising? "
Everyone is different some will meet after 1 message saying fancy a fuck but for most there needs to be a bit more chat, see if there is any chemistry, but even chatting for a few days etc doesn't automatically mean they will meet people are allowed to change their minds |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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18 months that has nothing to do with being patient only been desperate or virgin. I can easily pull from club, gym even shop but i dont want commitment and it is hard to said that after having sex first time. So i prefer to do that before and this is why i have joined this site. 18 month chat makes youa timewaster for me!!!!!! And for normal people here. After 18 month you can have wedding :p |
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"Maybe you are right about thay. I am new here and i thought that there are only genuine people in here. I dont expect that they will run into my bed after two messages . I am here to meet friends with benefits so i would prefer to have some coneccion with you. Not only that i like how you look like. Because sometimes wheb i have a great chat with woman she doesnt has to be pretty at all. "
Don't get me wrong there are some complete timewasters on here. I know as I have arranged to meet them. I don't mid so much the ones that just want to chat that dies off after a while. It's the ones you make a definite arrangement with and then a couple of hours before go completely quiet or don't even show up that piss me off completely I just have a statement rant and then move on.
It will get better you just have to persevere and you will meet the right one for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont want one night stand with some girl from tinder who will just lay down and wait until i will do the work. I want conection. I want to know what do you like and how to please you and i want the same from you BUT i dont want relationship. I want to meet a girl or 2 that i can be friend for. Add sex to that. And that is all. But i dont want to wait years for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You still dont understand me. For me people are time wasters when you had a chat with them everythings was ok and then suddenly without any reason became quiet. You can see that she is online but she cant write even fuck off. That kind of people are timewasters for me!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You still dont understand me. For me people are time wasters when you had a chat with them everythings was ok and then suddenly without any reason became quiet. You can see that she is online but she cant write even fuck off. That kind of people are timewasters for me!!!"
Haha you maybe bored them thats why they went quiet.. people are entitled to change their mind, just move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone's opinion of what a timewaster will be different for everyone. Like I say in my opinion a timewaster is someone who arranges to meet but doesn't show"
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"Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already.."
You don't have to stay but you've got a taste of what it can be like but with time it improves. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am not crying into pillow about that it is just annoying. And i had to share that on a forum. Maybe they get bored and of course they can change their mind but still i think that it would be fair to write that especially when everything was alright. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone's opinion of what a timewaster will be different for everyone. Like I say in my opinion a timewaster is someone who arranges to meet but doesn't show"
Of course them also. I did not mension them as it did not happend for me because i am new. I hope that i will never feel that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like you need to change your expectations or change the whole site. I know which I would do."
What would you do? I think this site is good for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already..
You don't have to stay but you've got a taste of what it can be like but with time it improves. "
What do you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe it's not about time wasting it's just about getting the right vibe and feelings of comfortableness from a lady. It takes various amounts of time but not all ladies are time wasters. Tinder is different to this site and could be a better fit for you if you are looking for immediate meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I believe it's not about time wasting it's just about getting the right vibe and feelings of comfortableness from a lady. It takes various amounts of time but not all ladies are time wasters. Tinder is different to this site and could be a better fit for you if you are looking for immediate meets "
I dont want tinder because lot of girls want to be pleasured and that is all. I want to find out what girl like and i want her to know whatbi like to spend amazing hours. Not a quickie. Because i dont need website for a quickie.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stick at it from pics you sent me in last thread yer cute.we all get let down.I've 2 meets let me down last week alone!"
Thank you. There is a lot of people who would like to meet you. So those two meets are just a wanks. Or cheaters |
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there could be 10 other guys she is chatting too at the same time and u could be one of the nine she has chosen not to play with.its that simple its best just to move on but after such a short time on here i dont think u will handle it well as this may happen again and again for months as thats just how it is for single guys on here as there are so many of you.good luck on your quest though op. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way
3 years and for you this is not a time wasting? Then we have nothing to talk about.
I said I'd meet him and I met him, it just took time
Totally understand im the same, was talking to a someone on and off for 18 months and just met them recently! Was worth the wait! Men meed to be patient! "
Same with me. Recently met up with someone after 2 years. Was worth it for both of us tho. Some are worth the wait. |
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"there could be 10 other guys she is chatting too at the same time and u could be one of the nine she has chosen not to play with.its that simple its best just to move on but after such a short time on here i dont think u will handle it well as this may happen again and again for months as thats just how it is for single guys on here as there are so many of you.good luck on your quest though op. ."
Maybe it is lack of manners? Because " i am not interested anymore" would be enough. And she could text even to 200 guys. That is not the thing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way
3 years and for you this is not a time wasting? Then we have nothing to talk about.
I said I'd meet him and I met him, it just took time
Totally understand im the same, was talking to a someone on and off for 18 months and just met them recently! Was worth the wait! Men meed to be patient!
Same with me. Recently met up with someone after 2 years. Was worth it for both of us tho. Some are worth the wait."
No one is worth to wait that long. Maybe only when it is love. That is my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just had a quick look at your profile... quite a few spelling mistakes on there so maybe they just got tired of deciphering your messages 
A x"
Mine were not that bad as theirs.. So that is not the thing :D |
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"My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way
3 years and for you this is not a time wasting? Then we have nothing to talk about.
I said I'd meet him and I met him, it just took time
Totally understand im the same, was talking to a someone on and off for 18 months and just met them recently! Was worth the wait! Men meed to be patient!
Same with me. Recently met up with someone after 2 years. Was worth it for both of us tho. Some are worth the wait.
No one is worth to wait that long. Maybe only when it is love. That is my opinion."
Trust me and the guy I met after 3 years don't love each other far from it but we're really friends that fuck. Takes time to find the right chemistry/connection for a strong arrangement like that that works for both parties |
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"My time to meet is very very limited due to lack of childcare options. I'm very upfront and honest about that from the start, however I'll chat to some then after so long they'll call me a time waster because a meet hasn't transpired within what they consider to be a suitable timeframe, but one guy charted to me on here for over 3 years before meeting me as people have lives that need to take priority that doesn't equate to time wasting unless you decide to classify it that way
3 years and for you this is not a time wasting? Then we have nothing to talk about.
I said I'd meet him and I met him, it just took time
Totally understand im the same, was talking to a someone on and off for 18 months and just met them recently! Was worth the wait! Men meed to be patient!
Same with me. Recently met up with someone after 2 years. Was worth it for both of us tho. Some are worth the wait.
No one is worth to wait that long. Maybe only when it is love. That is my opinion."
That is your opinion. He was worth it because we are friends. Something I sincerely doubt fuck and go folk know anything about. They certainly know how to whinge about not getting a fuck tho. |
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over a year ago
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I think that you can have sex and meet and explore people in the same time. For me chat is just the beggining. I am maybe old fashioned but i prefer conversation when i can see your eyes when i see every muscle on your face when you laugh |
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"You all are so patient with this fella. !! (Excuse the sarcasm ) "
I'm merely speaking honestly from my experiences he can do with that information as he sees fit. Not sure why that would be deemed as impatience on my behalf |
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"You all are so patient with this fella. !! (Excuse the sarcasm )
I'm merely speaking honestly from my experiences he can do with that information as he sees fit. Not sure why that would be deemed as impatience on my behalf "
Curvy mamma.
my apologies. I was a just trying to get across how you all had been so patient offering constructive advice without lowering yourselves to criticise or belittle the young lad. And how you'd been so patient and he clearly has such little patience. Currently.
I commend you all. It could have all turned so nasty so early on In this thread xx |
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"there could be 10 other guys she is chatting too at the same time and u could be one of the nine she has chosen not to play with.its that simple its best just to move on but after such a short time on here i dont think u will handle it well as this may happen again and again for months as thats just how it is for single guys on here as there are so many of you.good luck on your quest though op. .
Maybe it is lack of manners? Because " i am not interested anymore" would be enough. And she could text even to 200 guys. That is not the thing.
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Firstly no, when you're getting messaged by a lot of different guys, it does take an insane amount of time to respond to them all.
In the site FAQ it says a no reply means no thanks.
Secondly, a LOT of guys on here get very verbally abusive even of you politely say "I'm really sorry you're not my type.  Have fun on Fab."
And thirdly maybe she missed your last message? Maybe she means to reply in a few days? Maybe she isnt sure about you but hasn't made up her mind yet?
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"there could be 10 other guys she is chatting too at the same time and u could be one of the nine she has chosen not to play with.its that simple its best just to move on but after such a short time on here i dont think u will handle it well as this may happen again and again for months as thats just how it is for single guys on here as there are so many of you.good luck on your quest though op. .
Maybe it is lack of manners? Because " i am not interested anymore" would be enough. And she could text even to 200 guys. That is not the thing.
Firstly no, when you're getting messaged by a lot of different guys, it does take an insane amount of time to respond to them all.
In the site FAQ it says a no reply means no thanks.
Secondly, a LOT of guys on here get very verbally abusive even of you politely say "I'm really sorry you're not my type. Have fun on Fab."
And thirdly maybe she missed your last message? Maybe she means to reply in a few days? Maybe she isnt sure about you but hasn't made up her mind yet?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sadly OP - its parr for the course on any sex dating/meeting site - you just have to grim and bare it - but occasionally let of steam
Spare a thought for us openly Bisexual men - we come even further down the list lol  |
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"there could be 10 other guys she is chatting too at the same time and u could be one of the nine she has chosen not to play with.its that simple its best just to move on but after such a short time on here i dont think u will handle it well as this may happen again and again for months as thats just how it is for single guys on here as there are so many of you.good luck on your quest though op. .
Maybe it is lack of manners? Because " i am not interested anymore" would be enough. And she could text even to 200 guys. That is not the thing.
Firstly no, when you're getting messaged by a lot of different guys, it does take an insane amount of time to respond to them all.
In the site FAQ it says a no reply means no thanks.
Secondly, a LOT of guys on here get very verbally abusive even of you politely say "I'm really sorry you're not my type. Have fun on Fab."
And thirdly maybe she missed your last message? Maybe she means to reply in a few days? Maybe she isnt sure about you but hasn't made up her mind yet?
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That said, if she is reading this forum, she probably has made her minddd up now  |
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"We had a chat after that. They have asked me more things but when i want or expect the same from them they become quiet. That happend with 2 girls already.
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May not have been girls? Just asking/putting that out there.... |
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"You all are so patient with this fella. !! (Excuse the sarcasm )
I'm merely speaking honestly from my experiences he can do with that information as he sees fit. Not sure why that would be deemed as impatience on my behalf
Curvy mamma.
my apologies. I was a just trying to get across how you all had been so patient offering constructive advice without lowering yourselves to criticise or belittle the young lad. And how you'd been so patient and he clearly has such little patience. Currently.
I commend you all. It could have all turned so nasty so early on In this thread xx"
You know after I read it back I got what you meant the first time bit of a doh! Moment on behalf |
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"You all are so patient with this fella. !! (Excuse the sarcasm )
I'm merely speaking honestly from my experiences he can do with that information as he sees fit. Not sure why that would be deemed as impatience on my behalf
Curvy mamma.
my apologies. I was a just trying to get across how you all had been so patient offering constructive advice without lowering yourselves to criticise or belittle the young lad. And how you'd been so patient and he clearly has such little patience. Currently.
I commend you all. It could have all turned so nasty so early on In this thread xx
You know after I read it back I got what you meant the first time bit of a doh! Moment on behalf "
That's cool. We all have moments. I certainly have senior moments regularly now I'm 35 !!
Ps lush nurse look !! |
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Mate swinging is sex but it also means that you have relationships with people too , I'v chatted and had lots of fun at clubs with a huge range of different people but only had sex with people I click with , and I'm sure it's the same for them , don't think that coz someone chats to you that they are going to fuck you |
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You have been on here a week you have a lot to learn young padawan. Most women on here don't want endless pics of you and cock. They just generally want to know what you look like and you are real. Female profile that ask for multiple cock pics etc are fake profiles setup by men after wank material. |
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"Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already.."
I hate timewasters too it's makes it harder for people like myself to meet people plus I hate 24 hour profiles...it's pisses me off ....Burton xx
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"Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already.."
Pretty sure that's not what they're doing.
Also you've been here a week!  |
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you need to take chatting as just that, chatting. it does not guarantee you a meet, and hey guess what? a meet doesn't even guarantee you sex.
we're all people here, we need to be able to know the guys we meet are not dodgy, aren't gonna rape us, aren't gonna use us and give us shit sex. we need to work out if you're safe to meet or not, so we chat and get a feel for you.
if you think a few days of chat is time wasting then maybe think about booking an escort for sex instead. we go off guys for all kinds of reasons and we're allowed to.
we don't even need to explain to you why we go off you. in fact, it's fairly important for other site members safety that we don't explain why we're not interested coz then guys can't find ways round their faults and become more fake to get sex off us. |
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"you need to take chatting as just that, chatting. it does not guarantee you a meet, and hey guess what? a meet doesn't even guarantee you sex.
we're all people here, we need to be able to know the guys we meet are not dodgy, aren't gonna rape us, aren't gonna use us and give us shit sex. we need to work out if you're safe to meet or not, so we chat and get a feel for you.
if you think a few days of chat is time wasting then maybe think about booking an escort for sex instead. we go off guys for all kinds of reasons and we're allowed to.
we don't even need to explain to you why we go off you. in fact, it's fairly important for other site members safety that we don't explain why we're not interested coz then guys can't find ways round their faults and become more fake to get sex off us."
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"you need to take chatting as just that, chatting. it does not guarantee you a meet, and hey guess what? a meet doesn't even guarantee you sex.
we're all people here, we need to be able to know the guys we meet are not dodgy, aren't gonna rape us, aren't gonna use us and give us shit sex. we need to work out if you're safe to meet or not, so we chat and get a feel for you.
if you think a few days of chat is time wasting then maybe think about booking an escort for sex instead. we go off guys for all kinds of reasons and we're allowed to.
we don't even need to explain to you why we go off you. in fact, it's fairly important for other site members safety that we don't explain why we're not interested coz then guys can't find ways round their faults and become more fake to get sex off us."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey i am new here but already have chat with couple females and it seems that even woman like to watch photo and tease themselves AND THAT IS ALL. You swap a pic and then she says that you are hot and that is it. No more relplies.. I am losing my faith in here already.."
You're hot! That is all |
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By *ad-GirlWoman
over a year ago
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"you need to take chatting as just that, chatting. it does not guarantee you a meet, and hey guess what? a meet doesn't even guarantee you sex."
I think too many assume a rely and a nice comment automatically means someone wants to meet you and its far from the case and not timewasting or not as I see it. |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
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"So because they think you are hot they have to meet you?? Wtf does that make them timewasters? "
To much bull shit on here! It's black and white, your on here to meet or go spend your time on a chat site. Some People have no idea what this site is intended for, it's not a popularity contest either.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They are probably blokes ."
Agreed.
You excited them, they wanked, they moved on to the next man so they didn't have to keep up the pretence.
At least they didn't agree to meet you are send you on a wild goose chase. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you need to take chatting as just that, chatting. it does not guarantee you a meet, and hey guess what? a meet doesn't even guarantee you sex.
I think too many assume a rely and a nice comment automatically means someone wants to meet you and its far from the case and not timewasting or not as I see it. "
I would have said you're nice looking but not what I'm looking for. Not ending the conversation leaves the door open for more conversation. After a few days of conversation it's easy to say,I've enjoyed talking but you aren't what I'm looking for, or I'm not feeling any attraction etc.
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"So because they think you are hot they have to meet you?? Wtf does that make them timewasters?
To much bull shit on here! It's black and white, your on here to meet or go spend your time on a chat site. Some People have no idea what this site is intended for, it's not a popularity contest either.
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no, you're thinking of escorts. they provide sexual services without the 'bullshit'.
this is a website with messenger so you can chat, with a forums so you can chat, with a chat rooms so you can chat.
and having hot pics make it so it is a popularity contest as well. |
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