Our profile is open and there's never any pressure to do anything at all,we've chatted and swapped pics with this couple for a month,twice they've let us down but no way a third,Helen is hornier than me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try a club more chance of meeting someone there. There are a lot of genuine people on here but also a lot of time wasters think it comes with experience spotting them early on and avoiding them just keep trying it will happen one day |
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By *ister1Man
over a year ago
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Hi there
Social meets are the best way.you just need More time,there are genuine guys in here,who are struggling to meet and then there are hundreds of guys who are just on here to perv
Social meets is the way to find out who is genuine and committed
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi there
Social meets are the best way.you just need More time,there are genuine guys in here,who are struggling to meet and then there are hundreds of guys who are just on here to perv
Social meets is the way to find out who is genuine and committed
Good luck "
There are regular organised socials, in York, Barnsley and here in Bradford
;-) D and L x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vet all profiles thoroughly persevere and the meet you seek will happen you will get lots of knock backs but you will get that 1 reply that will make it worth the effort |
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When I was part of a couple we only did mff and we're pretty successful once I as the fem started to take the lead on the account, I would only just generally chat to the lady the discussion never became sexual (other than a basic play boundaries discussion) and a lot of the fems I spoke said the found my approach so refreshing. I wpuld also make it clear that the play would be an all round experience as opposed to her being treat like a glorified sex toy, now I'm using the site as a single gem it's shocking the amount of couples that actually just view you that way
We also got lots of mff fun at swinging clubs too |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"When I was part of a couple we only did mff and we're pretty successful once I as the fem started to take the lead on the account, I would only just generally chat to the lady the discussion never became sexual (other than a basic play boundaries discussion) and a lot of the fems I spoke said the found my approach so refreshing. I wpuld also make it clear that the play would be an all round experience as opposed to her being treat like a glorified sex toy, now I'm using the site as a single gem it's shocking the amount of couples that actually just view you that way
We also got lots of mff fun at swinging clubs too "
Agree with this 100%, so many couples on here are pushed along by the male, you can tell mainly because they message us asking for a meet & we either say "Yeah send her round" or "Did you read the profile?" Depending on our mood. You then get back that she will, till you get down to a meet arranging & all of a sudden he's got to be there, just to watch etc. Well no he can't...Or you get a sorry didn't notice...what, didn't notice the dirty great first line? Didn't read the profile more like..ergo a male
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This is for Helen(Helga)as much as me,she's big curious yet nervous of what to do,were ideally looking for a lady, single OE part of a couple that would guide,be patient and maybe just maybe let me participate, am I making any sense guys????? |
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"This is for Helen(Helga)as much as me,she's big curious yet nervous of what to do,were ideally looking for a lady, single OE part of a couple that would guide,be patient and maybe just maybe let me participate, am I making any sense guys?????"
Seems odd if it solely for Helen that you would need to participate at all, why not let her explore as a single female? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is a mff actually achievable on here because we have lots of offers but either time limits,accommodation,time wasters let us down,Leeds couple BTW bi curio fem straight guy,drop us a line you cheeky people xx    "
I can assure u it is ?? |
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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago
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what you have to remember is a woman on her own might find it very scary meeting up with a couple i have a fuck buddy who loves mff so i often go to clubs with her, once we have met couples and she feels comfortable with them she is quiet happy to meet them on her own but as she says she wouldnt just meet off a site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck with it. It is achievable but you must be very patient.
I think the suggestion about her meeting with another single girl alone is probably the way forward xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ps. That 'not wanting to feel like a glorified sex toy' has hit the nail on the head completely. My last mff was three single people off fab that all just came together. I don't really wanna be the third wheel. I wanna be an equal xx |
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"Is a mff actually achievable on here because we have lots of offers but either time limits,accommodation,time wasters let us down,Leeds couple BTW bi curio fem straight guy,drop us a line you cheeky people xx "
It is we have had a number of meets x |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
The ladies posting "It'll all be about him".. I can see where you are coming from as we get the "male" oriented messages from couples..
Just makes it harder for those that are not male orientated like us. Probably also why our prospective playmates have all come via the forum & group socials. Nothing quite says "I don't think so" better than a flirt a snog & a grope.. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Of course it's possible, it happens, but you need to look at the successful couples' profiles and compare them to yours. Single fems are the minority on here, your profile doesn't say anything about what you offer the lady, and you're expecting her to accommodate. I agree with other posters, I don't like feeling like a 3rd wheel,(clubs play works great in my opinion) and I certainly wouldn't be putting myself in that position in my own home where I don't even have the opportunity to leave if it all goes tits up..... |
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