 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Hi,
I'm a single male, I've been on here properly for a few months now, on and off before.
Id like to hand out a few tips I've picked up so far.. Goes for everyone really, but especially so for men.
Be honest with people, nobody likes being made a mug of, yourself included. If you're married, bi, sub or only into one thing. Answer honestly, if asked, also if you know full well your potential partner has a right to know, don't withold it.
Men want to meet lots more than most couples and women - also probably the reason we outnumber the fairer sex on here.
Couples and women are bombarded daily with 100+ messages from us men. Therefore they pick and choose, experiment as they choose. They are spoilt for choice in the looks and size departments in most cases.
You need to stand out from the crowd, a good place to start is honesty, that'll whittle half your competition down in one move. Next your profile..
A photo is probably the first thing you look at.. I like to see body myself, not angry cock, floppy cock... Or feet! If you're brave enough to put your face on display.. Ok.. Most of us keep it secret, till we're curious. But make sure it's a good picture as tiny shit you don't think about can be gained from photos.
Be wary of your backgrounds! Be aware of your own identifiable scars, tattoos piercings etc. Be wary of all of this if you are a cheater or value your privacy. Fab is on a lot of lips outside it's membership - be wary of whom you tell and be careful with phone numbers.. Your profiles on social media and your real name can be found via people you may know.
Get on forums, Webcam, updates, meets and try to chat people up, be confident. Watch what other people think and the variety of swingers there are. But before you compose a message to someone out of the blue - think why - what attracts them to you? Is it the looks? The profile.. You had better have read it properly! As you may be deleted on impact in some cases. Explain in your message why you want them.. It's sexy to know you turn someone on.. Most people at least will thank an honest well intentioned compliment. Especially if you've been brave enough to send your face photo as requested in their profile.
If you get a reply, you've whittled the competition by half again - you stood out enough to be acknowledged. It doesn't mean they want you in Tesco carpark in two minutes - though it may.
The rest is down to you..
I've not got a lot of verifications, which doesn't tell my story by a long shot! I wish you all the luck in the world.
I've only just realized my own profile will be disected by trolls - I know my photos are shit!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi,
I'm a single male, I've been on here properly for a few months now, on and off before.
Id like to hand out a few tips I've picked up so far.. Goes for everyone really, but especially so for men.
Liked this post.. makes a lot of sense well done!
Be honest with people, nobody likes being made a mug of, yourself included. If you're married, bi, sub or only into one thing. Answer honestly, if asked, also if you know full well your potential partner has a right to know, don't withold it.
Men want to meet lots more than most couples and women - also probably the reason we outnumber the fairer sex on here.
Couples and women are bombarded daily with 100+ messages from us men. Therefore they pick and choose, experiment as they choose. They are spoilt for choice in the looks and size departments in most cases.
You need to stand out from the crowd, a good place to start is honesty, that'll whittle half your competition down in one move. Next your profile..
A photo is probably the first thing you look at.. I like to see body myself, not angry cock, floppy cock... Or feet! If you're brave enough to put your face on display.. Ok.. Most of us keep it secret, till we're curious. But make sure it's a good picture as tiny shit you don't think about can be gained from photos.
Be wary of your backgrounds! Be aware of your own identifiable scars, tattoos piercings etc. Be wary of all of this if you are a cheater or value your privacy. Fab is on a lot of lips outside it's membership - be wary of whom you tell and be careful with phone numbers.. Your profiles on social media and your real name can be found via people you may know.
Get on forums, Webcam, updates, meets and try to chat people up, be confident. Watch what other people think and the variety of swingers there are. But before you compose a message to someone out of the blue - think why - what attracts them to you? Is it the looks? The profile.. You had better have read it properly! As you may be deleted on impact in some cases. Explain in your message why you want them.. It's sexy to know you turn someone on.. Most people at least will thank an honest well intentioned compliment. Especially if you've been brave enough to send your face photo as requested in their profile.
If you get a reply, you've whittled the competition by half again - you stood out enough to be acknowledged. It doesn't mean they want you in Tesco carpark in two minutes - though it may.
The rest is down to you..
I've not got a lot of verifications, which doesn't tell my story by a long shot! I wish you all the luck in the world.
I've only just realized my own profile will be disected by trolls - I know my photos are shit!
"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
While everything you've typed is probably true "didn't read much" but skimmed, it will only be lost around page 6 or so by the end of tomorrow.
Now if this forum was anywhere modern it could be a stickie  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"only thing I would add is address a couple as a couple and understand that both people will read the message so a slow reply is quite likely"
Very good point! I've missed tons of stuff I'm sure, but we have to make our own mistakes too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
