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Struggerling to get a meet of any kind

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have been photo verified but don't seem to have any luck getting any meets so I can get properly verified does any one got any advice on how to better my chances to successfully get a meet or how to make my profile better to help me get a meet please any advice would be great thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have some public images for a start.

They don't have to be face pics, but nor should they be a bunch of cock pics too.

Get out to some socials and clubs, mix with people instead of waiting for it to happen on here. Which, could be a very long time if you only rely on fab for meets.

Also, have decent profile write up, one that will show your personality if you have one. Make sure it's grammatically correct along with good punctuation and spelling.

Once you've done all that? It's in the hands of the fab gods.

Oh and if you decide to message people, message them once and once only. If you get rejected, take that on the chin and leave it there. Don't ask why or insult anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been photo verified but don't seem to have any luck getting any meets so I can get properly verified does any one got any advice on how to better my chances to successfully get a meet or how to make my profile better to help me get a meet please any advice would be great thank you

you sound very negative which isn't a good thing on here..

also post some pics and check out the meets section for socials local to you...get proactive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One floppy cock pic as main image is like kryptonite to swingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cock pic as an avatar, no need to look at the profile, does not matter if its floppy or still, instant delete message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When things aren't going too well it is too easy to blame it on anything but the real cause.

We always think that the first place to look is at your own profile and photos.

We honestly think that rather than asking othets, take a good hard look at it yourself.

Hope it helps you.

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman over a year ago

Medway

"Have some public images for a start.

They don't have to be face pics, but nor should they be a bunch of cock pics too.

Get out to some socials and clubs, mix with people instead of waiting for it to happen on here. Which, could be a very long time if you only rely on fab for meets.

Also, have decent profile write up, one that will show your personality if you have one. Make sure it's grammatically correct along with good punctuation and spelling.

Once you've done all that? It's in the hands of the fab gods.

Oh and if you decide to message people, message them once and once only. If you get rejected, take that on the chin and leave it there. Don't ask why or insult anyone

High five this man xxx

How I don't think grammar effects someone ability to be hot in the sack lol

Take me for instance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have some public images for a start.

They don't have to be face pics, but nor should they be a bunch of cock pics too.

Get out to some socials and clubs, mix with people instead of waiting for it to happen on here. Which, could be a very long time if you only rely on fab for meets.

Also, have decent profile write up, one that will show your personality if you have one. Make sure it's grammatically correct along with good punctuation and spelling.

Once you've done all that? It's in the hands of the fab gods.

Oh and if you decide to message people, message them once and once only. If you get rejected, take that on the chin and leave it there. Don't ask why or insult anyone

Completely agree, I would instantly delete. I'm a a stickler for spelling and grammar so I couldn't message and chat with someone if I need an interpreter. But that's just me...

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman over a year ago

bolton

One floppy cock pic as main image is like kryptonite to swingers "

What this man says about the picture, not much info.

Think what a woman wants from a man or what you can offer a woman, but bear in mind that you need to stand out and become one in a million to stand out from the crowd.

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

All of the above.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're shoving your floppy cock in the face of every woman you message. Would you do this in the real world when you make first contact? Lets hope not

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

If you are straight, why are you called brummie_bi_dad ?

Also lots of people have offered suggestions, taking some suggestions up and replying on the forum would be good form

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you are straight, why are you called brummie_bi_dad ?

Clearly fab straight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just popping in to see if anything has changed. I'll pop back in another 3 days then!

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By *ngeluk69Woman over a year ago

Near enough

"If you are straight, why are you called brummie_bi_dad ?

Also lots of people have offered suggestions, taking some suggestions up and replying on the forum would be good form

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do people bother asking for advice, only to get some really good info, just for them to totally ignore it?

Good luck getting that meet OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard to add much to what's been said. You have a confusing profile name (mentioning bi but then claiming to be straight), a single picture of a flaccid cock, with only the vague description of yourself as curvy for women to go on (not sure what curvy is for a man) and a 3 1/2 line profile which compromises a confusing metaphor of you as a firework. You are up against 10, 20, 50 others guys for womens attention. Why would they pick you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice. All have been greatfully recieved and took on board and will try and spruce my profile up a bit and try and find a decent picture for my profile. If that fails will close this profile and open a new one with a different name preferbly with out the word bi in it.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Or leave your name as-is and correct your sexuality on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also your profile is confusing. Your status says your straight but profile name says bi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for all the advice. All have been greatfully recieved and took on board and will try and spruce my profile up a bit and try and find a decent picture for my profile. If that fails will close this profile and open a new one with a different name preferbly with out the word bi in it."

Why would you take the word bi out?

Would the not be dishonest about your sexuality?

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

Put more information about you in your profiles.

What do you like?

What are you good at ?

What are you looking for?

And are you bi or not ?

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