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Finding matures! Tips and profile help?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance"
Well, you do state that ladies shouldn't message you if they don't have a firm intention of meeting you, so they might be adhering to your preference ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance
Well, you do state that ladies shouldn't message you if they don't have a firm intention of meeting you, so they might be adhering to your preference ..."
I was just trying to keep time wasters away maybe I'll change the way I have put it I think ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes op if u want to meet an older lady at least put up a definitive age range not the full spectrum also type of lady or slim curvy and give them a window into your personality will help u a bit more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does it maybe suggest then than anyone not mature is immature? "
I am older and very immature...or is that childish? Maybe just given up on my "grown up" badge for a while...who cares...I do know I'm not a "mature"  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"maybe avoid calling them 'matures'! makes me feel like a slab of stilton!
Matures is a porn category, most of us women on here are just normal woman looking for good sex  "
Precisely. I hate being put into any category |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"maybe avoid calling them 'matures'! makes me feel like a slab of stilton!
Advice taken!! Older women I mean!! "
your profile says you are looking for 'happy go lucky' girls!! make your mind up |
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"does it maybe suggest then than anyone not mature is immature?
I am older and very immature...or is that childish? Maybe just given up on my "grown up" badge for a while...who cares...I do know I'm not a "mature" "
Don't care Ariel, you look pretty fit to me and isn't that what really counts? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance"
Younger guys aren't my thing Aaron but I'm sure you're going to be just right for quite a few of the type of ladies you prefer.
You sound quite level headed -if a little inexperienced communicating with the more mature woman.
Don't use too much stereotypical terminology Just be polite and courteous, think before you paraphrase or use those daft labels you've inherited from the internet .
Be charming Be polite be honest and I'm sure you'll have more lovely ladies knocking your door down than you can handle.
Sara. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance
Younger guys aren't my thing Aaron but I'm sure you're going to be just right for quite a few of the type of ladies you prefer.
You sound quite level headed -if a little inexperienced communicating with the more mature woman.
Don't use too much stereotypical terminology Just be polite and courteous, think before you paraphrase or use those daft labels you've inherited from the internet .
Be charming Be polite be honest and I'm sure you'll have more lovely ladies knocking your door down than you can handle.
Sara."
Great advice  .. I guess the General feedback is to not put a category on it and sorry if I've offended anyone with the whole "matures" comments :/ |
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Some good advice from previous replies, such as changing the age range you're looking for.
You're asking for 'older ladies' yet also 'happy go lucky girls' it's ambiguous.
Would suggest making your profile aimed at the ladies you are trying to attract..
Good luck OP
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"maybe avoid calling them 'matures'! makes me feel like a slab of stilton!
Advice taken!! Older women I mean!! "
Do you really think that any woman likes being selected just because they're "older"? Beautiful, attractive, sexy maybe but older? "Heý, you're old...wanna fuck" is definitely not going to endear you to many women. Perhaps that is the reason for your lack of success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...... sorry if I've offended anyone with the whole "matures" comments............ :/ "
People are too easily offended.
I wouldn't worry too much about us old dears! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...... sorry if I've offended anyone with the whole "matures" comments............ :/
People are too easily offended.
I wouldn't worry too much about us old dears! "
They really are haha :/ |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Why do you have to call us anything !
Your age range is 18-99
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Yep no preference on age his profile says so or size.
Good luck fella ..I think you'll need a rethink and a new approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance
Well, you do state that ladies shouldn't message you if they don't have a firm intention of meeting you, so they might be adhering to your preference ...
I was just trying to keep time wasters away maybe I'll change the way I have put it I think ha "
You have probably shot yourself in the foot saying that as most women won't know if they want to meet someone based on a brief profile that gives little away. They might want to chat to find out more about you and whether you are compatible but won't bother as they don't want to be labelled a time waster when they decide you're not for them even though they had good intentions of a meet to start with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance
Well, you do state that ladies shouldn't message you if they don't have a firm intention of meeting you, so they might be adhering to your preference ...
I was just trying to keep time wasters away maybe I'll change the way I have put it I think ha
You have probably shot yourself in the foot saying that as most women won't know if they want to meet someone based on a brief profile that gives little away. They might want to chat to find out more about you and whether you are compatible but won't bother as they don't want to be labelled a time waster when they decide you're not for them even though they had good intentions of a meet to start with. "
A great bit of advice, will defo be taking that in to account. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We will meet you in Aubrey's lol
Aubreys really ha what a place! "
Too many "ha's" in your profile for me. I am sure many others of the "mature" generation would be similarly irked. You're not a teen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We will meet you in Aubrey's lol
Aubreys really ha what a place!
Too many "ha's" in your profile for me. I am sure many others of the "mature" generation would be similarly irked. You're not a teen."
Yes very valid advice the "ha's" are gone lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love mature couples and single ladies. I think they are a lot more horny and kinky  "
For me it's about the level of conversation and the experience!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" looking for older matures but been turned down left right and centre an my profile seems to be a main reason ha help anyone? Any tips or advice on how to get noticed or dos and fonts when looking for matures. Thanks in advance"
shame your so far,i'd be interested xx |
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