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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I personally prefer bbw older women and into bears they are far more of a turn on esp bigger men the grey hair and facial hair makes them look more distinguished and sexy in my eyes. They seem more into pleasuring their partner and do it damn good. I get more pleasure wi a older man just my preference no hating please lol I joke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on "
"A real woman"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on "
"A real women "  so what is a slim women? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on
"A real woman" "
Just what we asked lol im sure if a slim girl had posted this I'm sure he would of remarked " slimmer is better it's a real women " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mean to bash skinny women...I chose my words badly haha. All i meant is that my personal preference is bbw I find them much more of a turn on than slim females x |
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What a boring world if we were all the same , with the same likes and dislikes .. |
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"I don't mean to bash skinny women...I chose my words badly haha. All i meant is that my personal preference is bbw I find them much more of a turn on than slim females x "
We all have preferences. Posting publicly requires care not to offend. Oh - too late... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bbw or skinny it dont matter just as long they are nice people so who cares im a boob man so you still can have big boobs with a bbw or a skinny lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on "
No it bloody isn't. I'm fat. I have friends who are slim.
Guess what, we all eat, shit and sleep.
None of us is more real than the other.
I'm bloody sick of people saying that bbws, fat women etc are real women.
It's an insult to every woman. |
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Neither 'better' than the other... It's simply preference that's all.
Some prefer a slim women and some have a thing for a well rounded body shape and everything in between  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer curvier women on the whole although I'm also attracted to some boyish slimmer women.
It's just a sexual preference. No one body is more worthy or valid than another. |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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ha love this our female size 6 uk.but if you think our male wouldnt do bigger think again we regular chamers and there is some hot bigger females there.a female that is not gona make a dick go hard does not exsist |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well said pillowqueen I'm not sayongoing one is better then the other just asking for preference as mine is bbw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a BBW as I find very sexy and womanly.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank u for ur honesty |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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Pillowqueen summed things up perfectly..it's just someone's sexual preference. Mine, I love beautiful eyes and dimples..with those, I'm yours x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bbw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proud to be a sexy bbw ( masters definition )
Kinky  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm proud to be aswell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm proud to be aswell"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference would be slim women, I find curves sexy too but not when a women is very overweight rather than curvy |
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By *lsd199Man
over a year ago
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This topic looks like for BBW women who are past self pity stage and now on acceptance stage.
The problem here is that obese women, often so called BBW, are just not healthy. Why the author is promoting toxic lifestyle? Anorexic women are also unhealthy and they are treated like mental disorder. So why we should accept a different kind of mental disorder such as obese "BBW"?
To the topic author: start living healthy. Keep working until you reach it
To others: I know that i just touched the forbidden topic and said something bad about women on FABS, so spare me the hate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This topic looks like for BBW women who are past self pity stage and now on acceptance stage.
The problem here is that obese women, often so called BBW, are just not healthy. Why the author is promoting toxic lifestyle? Anorexic women are also unhealthy and they are treated like mental disorder. So why we should accept a different kind of mental disorder such as obese "BBW"?
To the topic author: start living healthy. Keep working until you reach it
To others: I know that i just touched the forbidden topic and said something bad about women on FABS, so spare me the hate "
Im a healthy fat lass thanks.... i go to the gym 3-4times a week.. swim a mile every day...and can fuck for hours.
However I dont get why it has to be a slim or bbw... or the nasty comments towards slim women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guessing once again I'm not a 'real woman' on fab according to some just because I'm slim guess what, i am, just as larger ladies than me are real women.
Preference is just that, no need for people to be rude about it either way though!!!!!!!! |
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By *lsd199Man
over a year ago
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Author has low self esteem and she is trying to boost it by posting this topic |
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"This topic looks like for BBW women who are past self pity stage and now on acceptance stage.
The problem here is that obese women, often so called BBW, are just not healthy. Why the author is promoting toxic lifestyle? Anorexic women are also unhealthy and they are treated like mental disorder. So why we should accept a different kind of mental disorder such as obese "BBW"?
To the topic author: start living healthy. Keep working until you reach it
To others: I know that i just touched the forbidden topic and said something bad about women on FABS, so spare me the hate "
Visceral fat is unhealthy, subcutaneous fat isn't, you can have healthy levels is visceral fat but high levels of subcutaneous, or vice versa.
It's an uneducated myth that obese automatically equals unhealthy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im happy how I am thanks very much I'm bigger cos I've hypothyroidism not cos I eat to much every day and I go to the gtme and pool daily and walk hypothyroidism causes severe weight gain and difficulty losing it so get a life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I asked about preferemcee not to be bashed cos I'm bigger |
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"Im happy how I am thanks very much I'm bigger cos I've hypothyroidism not cos I eat to much every day and I go to the gtme and pool daily and walk hypothyroidism causes severe weight gain and difficulty losing it so get a life "
I have hypothyroidism fortunately well controlled. What treatment are you being given? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm on eltroxin tats it every day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my personal opinion both are great I can't honestly choose and both are real.
How stupid bbw is real skinny is real or is one a alien ?.
Anyway I say 50/50 it depends on what turns you on but personally I find both attractive. |
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"I'm on eltroxin tats it every day "
Is that levothyroxine? I know it can be difficult to establish the correct dose. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes cabs I'm on the same amount for years I was diagnosed In 2011 wi it
No one knows why a wOman is big judging them it's not right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It can be i meant |
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"I prefer curvier women on the whole although I'm also attracted to some boyish slimmer women.
It's just a sexual preference. No one body is more worthy or valid than another. "
what she said |
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"Yes cabs I'm on the same amount for years I was diagnosed In 2011 wi it
No one knows why a wOman is big judging them it's not right "
It might be an idea to ask if the dose is correct .
I don't see many judging you, maybe one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been checked and they say it's the right dose I'm checked every 3 to 6 months |
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"I have been checked and they say it's the right dose I'm checked every 3 to 6 months "
Ah right. Well good luck with it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not keen on either extreme myself. i like more average body types.
have got a thing for fucking obese guys though, i find it a bit taboo and kinky. if he lets me dominate him then even better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a boring world if we were all the same , with the same likes and dislikes .. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is this post in introductions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im happy how I am thanks very much I'm bigger cos I've hypothyroidism not cos I eat to much every day and I go to the gtme and pool daily and walk hypothyroidism causes severe weight gain and difficulty losing it so get a life "
If you have been diagnosed with hypothyroidism and are taking daily medication then your weight gain should have stabilised .. if it hasn't you should return to your gp to check you are taking the correct dosesge of medication...
I have the same condition, I was diagnosed over 5 years ago .. yes my weight ballooned before I was diagnosed but afterwards it dropped off..you can't use it as an excuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on
No it bloody isn't. I'm fat. I have friends who are slim.
Guess what, we all eat, shit and sleep.
None of us is more real than the other.
I'm bloody sick of people saying that bbws, fat women etc are real women.
It's an insult to every woman."
I'm a hologram!
Bloomin detest that 'real women' shizzle. Codswallop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on
No it bloody isn't. I'm fat. I have friends who are slim.
Guess what, we all eat, shit and sleep.
None of us is more real than the other.
I'm bloody sick of people saying that bbws, fat women etc are real women.
It's an insult to every woman."
I prefer slimmer women....but I would never suggest that a larger lady is any less of a woman. That just makes no sense. I have lady friends of all shapes and sizes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is better. Its a real woman. Much more of a turn on
No it bloody isn't. I'm fat. I have friends who are slim.
Guess what, we all eat, shit and sleep.
None of us is more real than the other.
I'm bloody sick of people saying that bbws, fat women etc are real women.
It's an insult to every woman.
I prefer slimmer women....but I would never suggest that a larger lady is any less of a woman. That just makes no sense. I have lady friends of all shapes and sizes."
Sick of the double standards, if someone said something against bbw women there'd be murder. Guess what, unless you're fucking a blow up doll she's a real woman. I'm not athletic or bbw. Curvy and proud |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well leggylady I'm not big because I eat junk everythema day and I exercise u know nothing about me so don't judge ur not skinny either ok.
I get checked every three to six months and I'm on eltroxin 125mg mon to fri and 150mg sat and sun they said it was ok at that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wicklowcouple8292 im curvy and proud to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the whole reason the body positivity movement kicked off because people (yes people) of all shapes and sizes became fed up of being presented with false unachievable imagery in the media.
As a big girl myself being fat is not okay according to the media. It's associated with lazyness, gluttony, self indulgence and self induced health issues. Bigger people are expected to be self deprecating, they are expected to settle because let's face it - a fat person is just lucky if anyone wants to date them.
I've noticed a lot of misconceptions on this thread alone. Health is important and all sizes. Slim is not the only way to be healthy and not all slim people are healthy, just as not all big people are healthy. Really... Unless you're that persons nurse or doctor then how can you know?
I suspect that very few people, myself included, intended to be fat. Except perhaps feeders/feedees. But does that make us any less worthy of love, of good sex or anything else for that matter?
"Is fat really the worst thing a human being can be? Is fat worse than vindictive, jealous, shallow, vain, boring or cruel? Not to me." J K Rowling.
Everyone has there own sexual preferences and no one group of people deserves to be put down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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An arse I meant lol |
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Sexy comes from within....you can just feel a sexy person. As a larger woman with massive breasts and baby stomach I would love to loose the stomach. I remain body confident or try too |
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By *lsd199Man
over a year ago
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Funniest thing is that a lot of people cannot see the difference between being obese and curvy
Topic author mentioned that she has illness which makes her obese, however you dont need to make a topic saying how you are proud about it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He is anot arse if u have nothing good to say say nothing to ur man not u pillowqueen "
If you use the reply+quote button on the bottom right of the post you're replying to it makes it clearer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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News Flash it's my body I'm not asking fr u to approve of it so jog on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funniest thing is that a lot of people cannot see the difference between being obese and curvy
Topic author mentioned that she has illness which makes her obese, however you dont need to make a topic saying how you are proud about it
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Why the hell not? Even if it's not your own sexual preference.
The thing is, whilst your busy judging someone's body you really have no idea what they've been through.
I also have hypothyroidism, a brain tumor that affects my hormones and thus weight AND a rare brian condition. I have also taken meds that affect my weight too. Am I proud of who I am? DAMN right, I am! Am I curvy? Hell yes!
Stop putting others down. You might find you gain in life and in bed by being a bit more mindful of others. |
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"Funniest thing is that a lot of people cannot see the difference between being obese and curvy
Topic author mentioned that she has illness which makes her obese, however you dont need to make a topic saying how you are proud about it
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People are generally quite realistic about their body size (except quite frequently men when estimating the size of their penis) most people know what curvy and fabulous mean. This is a social media, contact site not a medical one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funniest thing is that a lot of people cannot see the difference between being obese and curvy
Topic author mentioned that she has illness which makes her obese, however you dont need to make a topic saying how you are proud about it
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We agree there is a difference between obese and curvy, however it does that matter what people look, it does matter that people are rude about it or be derogatory about slim people as always happens on these threads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well leggylady I'm not big because I eat junk everythema day and I exercise u know nothing about me so don't judge ur not skinny either ok.
I get checked every three to six months and I'm on eltroxin 125mg mon to fri and 150mg sat and sun they said it was ok at that "
I'm not judging anyone and I never said I was skinny either.. I am a healthy size 12/14...
I must say OP if you didn't want anyone to judge you then maybe you shouldn't have started a thread saying that bbws are better! That's just your opinion and it doesn't mean that people are judging or belittling you if they disagree with it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never said bbw was better I said it was my preference Nd I asked about perfwrench nothing more nothing less u chouse to take it up.as I thought bbw were better then skinny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never said bbw was better I said it was my preference Nd I asked about perfwrench nothing more nothing less u chouse to take it up.as I thought bbw were better then skinny"
yes and as its your preference you cant expect everyone else to agree with you! you are posting on a public forum so you should be aware of the pitfalls...
if its not going your way don't blame others for being judgemental just because they have different preferences to you |
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"Funniest thing is that a lot of people cannot see the difference between being obese and curvy
Topic author mentioned that she has illness which makes her obese, however you dont need to make a topic saying how you are proud about it
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It's similar to the way body builders tend to call themselves athletic when they're often medically obese also
I'm obese but I'm a confident woman that happens to think she's sexy as hell, you can Disagree with me me but it's of no consequence it's how I define myself that matters, not how others define me.
There's a difference between being proud of being fat and having confidence regardless of your size |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never said bbw was better I said it was my preference Nd I asked about perfwrench nothing more nothing less u chouse to take it up.as I thought bbw were better then skinny
yes and as its your preference you cant expect everyone else to agree with you! you are posting on a public forum so you should be aware of the pitfalls...
if its not going your way don't blame others for being judgemental just because they have different preferences to you "
No but she does not need to tolerate cruel comments either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh wait.... That wasn't actually aimed at me. Sorry...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never said bbw was better I said it was my preference Nd I asked about perfwrench nothing more nothing less u chouse to take it up.as I thought bbw were better then skinny
yes and as its your preference you cant expect everyone else to agree with you! you are posting on a public forum so you should be aware of the pitfalls...
if its not going your way don't blame others for being judgemental just because they have different preferences to you
No but she does not need to tolerate cruel comments either. "
well I wasn't actually referring to him, I meant in general, but would hope that she reported him to admin... |
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By *est-coupleMan
over a year ago
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"Funniest thing is that a lot of people cannot see the difference between being obese and curvy
Topic author mentioned that she has illness which makes her obese, however you dont need to make a topic saying how you are proud about it
It's similar to the way body builders tend to call themselves athletic when they're often medically obese also
I'm obese but I'm a confident woman that happens to think she's sexy as hell, you can Disagree with me me but it's of no consequence it's how I define myself that matters, not how others define me.
There's a difference between being proud of being fat and having confidence regardless of your size"
Totally agreed, Saz x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was hypothyroid until it reversed with weight loss. If the medication is correct, the thyroid functions at the right level, so you shouldn't still gain weight because of it.
The overwhelming majority of people are overweight or obese because they eat too many calories. That's not a judgment, I'm one of those people. I'm obese because I eat too much. But just own it, most of the medical excuses don't stack up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I also have clubfoot a deformity of the foot and ankle which is agony every day and swollen and ive alsonly had operationsome and infection in achilles tendon and severe bruising so it's nothin to do with my weight |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Most people with clubfoot have the same whether they are overweight or skinny most have opted for amputation the pain is so bad every day not just a bit of the time and they have arthrtis in it to |
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By *lsd199Man
over a year ago
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"Most people with clubfoot have the same whether they are overweight or skinny most have opted for amputation the pain is so bad every day not just a bit of the time and they have arthrtis in it to"
You should really consider changing your lifestyle. It does affect your health and it seems you need the changes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At its most basic scientific level, you only gain weight by consuming too many calories. That's literally how it works. It doesn't matter what those calories are made up from, whether it's "healthy" or "unhealthy" food. The reasons why people consume too many calories are many and varied and not as simple as greed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be best if the pair of them stopped talking to each other now.
Neither of them is looking very good on here in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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U have no right to go on at someone cos of how they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be best if the pair of them stopped talking to each other now.
Neither of them is looking very good on here in my opinion "
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