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95% percent of the north east women on here are just so ignorant
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By *ugar daddy x OP Man
over a year ago
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The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
You need to read the FAQ. No reply means not interested on this site. Some ladies get too much mail to respond to all. It's not rude at all. Putting this thread up will not help your cause at all. |
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted .
You need to read the FAQ. No reply means not interested on this site. Some ladies get too much mail to respond to all. It's not rude at all. Putting this thread up will not help your cause at all."
Agree totally.
Maybe they are just not interested?
Thing is, they have so much choice when it comes to single guys looking for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
Suck it up buttercup.... welcome to Fab.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted .
Suck it up buttercup.... welcome to Fab. " it's a fab thing often done pmsl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
After this thread, they are going to be fighting their way to your door! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are likely to have added to the list of deletes with this thread......it does no-one any good to moan.
Lots of people get lots of meets. If you are struggling I suggest you look more at what you are doing, not others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like you've made the classic "expecting too much from this site" mistake OP - hands up, I was guilty of that myself at first, but having read the FAQ section and also chatting to a lady at a club, I've realised my chances of success are EXTREMELY unlikely.
To pigeonhole North East women into the alleged "rude" category isn't the thing to do though - I live in the North West and seldom receive a reply, so geography has nothing to do with it.
I was told by the aforementioned club lady that as a single guy, I have, to quote, "no chance", and having listened to her words of wisdom, she is right.
Does that deter me? No. I'll keep trying, and if I get a meet then great, but if not, so what? I've found these forums to be excellent - I've contributed to many a range of subjects from the deep and meaningful to the light hearted and humorous, and that alone gives me enough satisfaction and reason to stay on Fab.
Just get used to it, you come under the "single man" banner and are up against it - welcome to Fab!
Hope my input is helpful, however if not, I'm sure the "stamping feet" approach will have the ladies change their approach and get your inbox swamped with offers! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
i was going to say way to endear yourself to the locals.... how to win friends and influence people....
or you got to any of the countless social events there are in and around the north east (and there are a load that happen) or maybe just go to a club....
you know.. show you can actually stand out in person!!!
judging by your "green arrow" how many of them have you bothered to put your name down for.....
its an example of sometimes using common sense to work out you have to help yourself "help yourself"......
and sometimes basic common sense and research is the difference between it working on here... and it not...
so... was the title of the thread using applied "basic common sense"?
does it entice? no... it automatically puts people on the negative....
so heres a quick tip... negativity... its not a really sexy trait! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
You need to develop a think skin in swinging - it's not an open pussy fest, you'll hear no more than yes (unless you are hitting the spot). You won't be everyone's cup of tea and vice versa |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"why does a written rejection matter so much???
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because for some reason (and for some people) it doesn't count unless it is signed in triplicate and overseen by a professional...
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
And you thought this would help...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Set me free, why don't cha, baby
Get out my life, why don't cha, baby
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on
You don't really need me
But you keep me hangin' on
You don't really need me
But you keep me hangin' on
Why do you keep a comin' around
Playin' with my heart?
Why don't you get out of my life
And let me make a new start?
Let me get over you
The way you've gotten over me, hey
Set me free, why don't cha, baby
Let me be, why don't cha, baby
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on
Now you don't really want me
You just keep me hangin' on
You say although we broke up
You still wanna be just friends
But how can we still be friends
When seein' you only breaks my heart again
And there ain't nothin' I can do about it
Woo, set me free, why don't cha, baby
Woo, get out my life, why don't cha, baby
Set me free, why don't cha, baby
Get out my life, why don't cha, baby
You claim you still care for me
But your heart and soul needs to be free
Now that you've got your freedom
You wanna still hold on to me
You don't want me for yourself
So let me find somebody else, hey
Why don't you be a man about it
And set me free
Now you don't care a thing about me
You're just using me
Go on, get out, get out of my life
And let me sleep at night
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Set me free, why don't cha, baby
Get out my life, why don't cha, baby
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on
You don't really need me
But you keep me hangin' on
You don't really need me
But you keep me hangin' on
Why do you keep a comin' around
Playin' with my heart?
Why don't you get out of my life
And let me make a new start?
Let me get over you
The way you've gotten over me, hey
Set me free, why don't cha, baby
Let me be, why don't cha, baby
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on
Now you don't really want me
You just keep me hangin' on
You say although we broke up
You still wanna be just friends
But how can we still be friends
When seein' you only breaks my heart again
And there ain't nothin' I can do about it
Woo, set me free, why don't cha, baby
Woo, get out my life, why don't cha, baby
Set me free, why don't cha, baby
Get out my life, why don't cha, baby
You claim you still care for me
But your heart and soul needs to be free
Now that you've got your freedom
You wanna still hold on to me
You don't want me for yourself
So let me find somebody else, hey
Why don't you be a man about it
And set me free
Now you don't care a thing about me
You're just using me
Go on, get out, get out of my life
And let me sleep at night
'Cause you don't really love me
You just keep me hangin' on"
Which version? The Supremes or Kim Wilde?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted .
You need to read the FAQ. No reply means not interested on this site. Some ladies get too much mail to respond to all. It's not rude at all. Putting this thread up will not help your cause at all."  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had some great friendly chats with women in north east, infact all over uk. Perhaps it depends on a combination of things, your approach, your profile, interests. Not everyone will be compatible.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
Shut the door on your way out please. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why does a written rejection matter so much???
because for some reason (and for some people) it doesn't count unless it is signed in triplicate and overseen by a professional...
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Now we need a new thread on what's professional  |
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"The remaining 5% have now blocked you...." I doubt it, I suspect only a tiny fraction of Fab users ever look at the forum, so his post won't have made a blind bit of difference, other than to give the regulars a bit of predictable entertainment. Very misguided approach, but you've gotta understand the frustration.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
Move to the south west then? Or the far east? I'm told the gals there love white men. |
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Is 95% an actual figure or pulled out the air?
Would love to see how that stat compares to other regions.
I'm sure there's quite a high statistic for people that don't even read people's profiles. I think they're called ignorant also.
*stirring the pot*   |
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"The remaining 5% have now blocked you.... I doubt it, I suspect only a tiny fraction of Fab users ever look at the forum, so his post won't have made a blind bit of difference, other than to give the regulars a bit of predictable entertainment. Very misguided approach, but you've gotta understand the frustration."
Well , I don't understand him calling 95% of the NE females ignorant, just because they dont reply to him. Agree the other 5% might not actually be reading the forum, it was a turn of phrase saying he's not doing himself any favours.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . " . ..... Men moan all the time on here about women not replying, yet they have nothing on their profiles to attract the women! No pics half the time...! Stop the moaning, if you want free effortless sex sort your profiles out. Or we will keep replying to the tall dark hunks who send face pics and have manors X
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Interesting to see his profile is now hidden lol
As with most women on here we all get a mountain of mail on a daily basis, currently my inbox is at 103 messages and out of all of those about 3 i speak to, not ignorant just looking for the right guy and posts like this will yup cause the other 5% to avoid you like a bad case of the clap!!
You done fucked up bro |
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . " Hi. I tried to review your profile but you have hidden it . If you have a good well written interesting profile , members will contact you .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
Welcome to life. Welcome to Fab.
It's not just the North East - it's nationwide. But with the ratio of men to women on here, the void is very large. The options are just too vast and wide.
Smile and move on! Or have a wank and rethink your strategy... |
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Forming a few assumptions here but (as your profile is hidden) .... 11 weeks ago in the forums you said you were a newbie, 3 weeks later you ridicule North East women and you have continued to do this in various forum threads since then. There have been North East socials since you joined and it appears you may not have attended those.
Whilst it is true that the vast majority don't read the forums your attitude throughout does not appear conducive to someone you would want to meet and maybe that is coming across either in your profile (which no one can view) or your messages. You have wrote to us and we sent a polite no thanks back, despite it being clear that we are currently not meeting so we would question how thoroughly you read profiles, but a lot of couples and single ladies don't have the time to reply.
Just thought I would give you some feedback on what people can see from looking in at your time on fab. All that said we wish you luck in what you are looking for but try to chill out and you may have more success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like you've made the classic "expecting too much from this site" mistake OP - hands up, I was guilty of that myself at first, but having read the FAQ section and also chatting to a lady at a club, I've realised my chances of success are EXTREMELY unlikely.
To pigeonhole North East women into the alleged "rude" category isn't the thing to do though - I live in the North West and seldom receive a reply, so geography has nothing to do with it.
I was told by the aforementioned club lady that as a single guy, I have, to quote, "no chance", and having listened to her words of wisdom, she is right.
Does that deter me? No. I'll keep trying, and if I get a meet then great, but if not, so what? I've found these forums to be excellent - I've contributed to many a range of subjects from the deep and meaningful to the light hearted and humorous, and that alone gives me enough satisfaction and reason to stay on Fab.
Just get used to it, you come under the "single man" banner and are up against it - welcome to Fab!
Hope my input is helpful, however if not, I'm sure the "stamping feet" approach will have the ladies change their approach and get your inbox swamped with offers! "
Wow.....that sounds quite negative for all of us single guys......luckily it's not true for everyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like you've made the classic "expecting too much from this site" mistake OP - hands up, I was guilty of that myself at first, but having read the FAQ section and also chatting to a lady at a club, I've realised my chances of success are EXTREMELY unlikely.
To pigeonhole North East women into the alleged "rude" category isn't the thing to do though - I live in the North West and seldom receive a reply, so geography has nothing to do with it.
I was told by the aforementioned club lady that as a single guy, I have, to quote, "no chance", and having listened to her words of wisdom, she is right.
Does that deter me? No. I'll keep trying, and if I get a meet then great, but if not, so what? I've found these forums to be excellent - I've contributed to many a range of subjects from the deep and meaningful to the light hearted and humorous, and that alone gives me enough satisfaction and reason to stay on Fab.
Just get used to it, you come under the "single man" banner and are up against it - welcome to Fab!
Hope my input is helpful, however if not, I'm sure the "stamping feet" approach will have the ladies change their approach and get your inbox swamped with offers! "
"I was told by the aforementioned club lady that as a single guy, I have, to quote, "no chance", and having listened to her words of wisdom, she is right."
Really... pfft what the actual f am I doing here and paid for off to find the delete button then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like you've made the classic "expecting too much from this site" mistake OP - hands up, I was guilty of that myself at first, but having read the FAQ section and also chatting to a lady at a club, I've realised my chances of success are EXTREMELY unlikely.
To pigeonhole North East women into the alleged "rude" category isn't the thing to do though - I live in the North West and seldom receive a reply, so geography has nothing to do with it.
I was told by the aforementioned club lady that as a single guy, I have, to quote, "no chance", and having listened to her words of wisdom, she is right.
Does that deter me? No. I'll keep trying, and if I get a meet then great, but if not, so what? I've found these forums to be excellent - I've contributed to many a range of subjects from the deep and meaningful to the light hearted and humorous, and that alone gives me enough satisfaction and reason to stay on Fab.
Just get used to it, you come under the "single man" banner and are up against it - welcome to Fab!
Hope my input is helpful, however if not, I'm sure the "stamping feet" approach will have the ladies change their approach and get your inbox swamped with offers!
"I was told by the aforementioned club lady that as a single guy, I have, to quote, "no chance", and having listened to her words of wisdom, she is right."
Really... pfft what the actual f am I doing here and paid for off to find the delete button then "
To take notice of what one lady in a club says is pretty pathetic in my opinion  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"The north east women have got to be the hardest to chat to . You read there profiles take time to say hello to them and not just a hello or a hi . Send a couple of sentences and it's bang deleted . "
wow OP great way to tar a whole group of women with one stroke of the brush.
there's a saying those who lose look for the reason for their loss in others and blame accordingly instead of looking at themselves for the answer to their loss.
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