"I'm getting into bdsm but find people who proport to be good at it aren't really. Anyone who knows what they're doing?"
So you're just 'getting into it' then going on to insult people who may have been doing it a lot longer.
Yeah good luck with that. |
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"I'm getting into bdsm but find people who proport to be good at it aren't really. Anyone who knows what they're doing?
So you're just 'getting into it' then going on to insult people who may have been doing it a lot longer.
Yeah good luck with that. "
Doing something for a long time doesn't mean you're going to be good at it. I can't roller skate and never could. |
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"I'm getting into bdsm but find people who proport to be good at it aren't really. Anyone who knows what they're doing?
So you're just 'getting into it' then going on to insult people who may have been doing it a lot longer.
Yeah good luck with that.
Doing something for a long time doesn't mean you're going to be good at it. I can't roller skate and never could. "
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"I'm getting into bdsm but find people who proport to be good at it aren't really. Anyone who knows what they're doing?"
It does take quite a while to build trust and rapport for something like that. Somebody you've just met won't know how you like to be punished, what for etc or how you like to be spanked.
You might need to chat to a few people and find one or two who you really click with.
Don't always blame the other person and take responsibility.
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