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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys
Been on here a while now. I get I'm no Brad Pitt but I normally get a fair share of profile views, a few messages and winks but can't seem to get anywhere
I try to play the nice card, am polite and only message those looking for my age range etc.
So can anyone explain why it is only lots of men messaging asking for meets (when I haven't messaged them) and why if I spend 10/15 min composing a genuine message I'm deleted like some sort of swinging leper
Any help or advice on my profile is wanted and appreciated
Thanks guys and girls x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ratio of guys to girls/couples is ridiculous.
Couples and girls get lots of messages from guys. We cant always respond to message and will just search ourselves when we fancy a mmf meet. Nothing worse than needy guys messaging over and over asking why no response |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Agreed. I'm not desperate enough to harass people. Was just an honest question to where I could improve my profile perhaps. also like unsaid if there was something that was maybe leading single guys on my profile, as I'm not really into that |
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Hey guys
Been on here a while now. I get I'm no Brad Pitt but I normally get a fair share of profile views, a few messages and winks but can't seem to get anywhere
I try to play the nice card, am polite and only message those looking for my age range etc.
So can anyone explain why it is only lots of men messaging asking for meets (when I haven't messaged them) and why if I spend 10/15 min composing a genuine message I'm deleted like some sort of swinging leper
Any help or advice on my profile is wanted and appreciated
Thanks guys and girls x"
Your profile says bi curious, that your open minded and that you wouldn't run a hundred miles from a cock
This is why your getting lots of men messaging!!!
Re why women are deleting you--- I will leave them to answer |
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Have you set your filters so single guys can't message you... look at that
You say you are bi-curious so that would get interest from guys
As for the profile and females. .. for me personally you have lots of pics but they don't really grab my attention
Look at them again
Consider angles
Smile
Erotic not just cock
And above all
Have patience
In the meantime look at clubs/socials to widen the circle of people you can meet |
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Your status put me off a bit..sounds a bit selfish to me. Likewise I'd advise altering your filters and sending punchy messages.
That said, if a lady didn't fancy you none of that will prevent the deletes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Your profile says bi curious, that your open minded and that you wouldn't run a hundred miles from a cock
This is why your getting lots of men messaging!!!
Re why women are deleting you--- I will leave them to answer"
I did not notice the bi curious , that probably explains it. As for the not running bit. I just thought that showed I was ok with a couple.
Thanks for the advice
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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Your profile says bi curious, that your open minded and that you wouldn't run a hundred miles from a cock
This is why your getting lots of men messaging!!!
Re why women are deleting you--- I will leave them to answer
I did not notice the bi curious , that probably explains it. As for the not running bit. I just thought that showed I was ok with a couple.
Thanks for the advice
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Sorry but all your profile pics are off-putting and you can't accommodate. Also you can't help your age but that may be a factor |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smile! A pout doesn't look good on anyone."
Yeah good point. Don't know what I was thinking
By the way that point is proven with your photo. You have a lovely smile |
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