"Does anyone like the look of me enough to reply to a message? Had no responses from anyone I've messaged. Am I doing something wrong? "
Probably not, it does take time and you've only been here two weeks. Have a look round the forums and join in some of the chats in a positive way, see if you get a feel for how people interact. Good luck |
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"Does anyone like the look of me enough to reply to a message? Had no responses from anyone I've messaged. Am I doing something wrong? "
We wouldn't reply, you're not what we're looking for, but even if you were, with such a poor profile we would still pass you by
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"Does anyone like the look of me enough to reply to a message? Had no responses from anyone I've messaged. Am I doing something wrong? "
Those who like the power-lifting look will still want to know your character and compatibility. A one-line profile does not do that. |
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Wow thanks for the response guys...i was a little confused with the comments on my profile as i had updated it a couple days ago...but looks like i hadn't saved it.
I've been on the site a few different times, so longer than the 2 weeks. But appreciate the input. I've updated the profile and hopefully it looks a lot better.
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"Does anyone like the look of me enough to reply to a message? Had no responses from anyone I've messaged. Am I doing something wrong?
Those who like the power-lifting look will still want to know your character and compatibility. A one-line profile does not do that."
Thanks I've updated now
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"Does anyone like the look of me enough to reply to a message? Had no responses from anyone I've messaged. Am I doing something wrong?
Those who like the power-lifting look will still want to know your character and compatibility. A one-line profile does not do that.
Thanks I've updated now
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It is certainly better than the previous one-liner, but it still doesn't really sell you.
I prefer to read a profile which gives me an impression of the person. Like I know a bit about them or could connect with them. Yours does not do that for me.
But I am just one person. Others will have different views. |
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"Does anyone like the look of me enough to reply to a message? Had no responses from anyone I've messaged. Am I doing something wrong?
Those who like the power-lifting look will still want to know your character and compatibility. A one-line profile does not do that.
Thanks I've updated now
It is certainly better than the previous one-liner, but it still doesn't really sell you.
I prefer to read a profile which gives me an impression of the person. Like I know a bit about them or could connect with them. Yours does not do that for me.
But I am just one person. Others will have different views."
Maybe I'm not very good at selling myself? What else would you advise me adding....not sure you can get a personality of someone from a profile? Thanks tho |
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"Does anyone like the look of me enough to reply to a message? Had no responses from anyone I've messaged. Am I doing something wrong?
Those who like the power-lifting look will still want to know your character and compatibility. A one-line profile does not do that.
Thanks I've updated now
It is certainly better than the previous one-liner, but it still doesn't really sell you.
I prefer to read a profile which gives me an impression of the person. Like I know a bit about them or could connect with them. Yours does not do that for me.
But I am just one person. Others will have different views.
Maybe I'm not very good at selling myself? What else would you advise me adding....not sure you can get a personality of someone from a profile? Thanks tho "
Maybe more detail about what you have to offer, and what you are looking for.
At the moment the profile seems tobe dominated by the development of your interest in powerlifting. |
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Getting better all the time.
I was going to say get rid of the "fat child" thing as negativity is generally not a good thing but I actually think it shows a bit of vulnerability in a cute way.
I will say that there is no point in saying, "Prefer non-smoker" yet having a "Won't meet smokers." That sounds desperate.
And, yes, check your grammar and spelling. |
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