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How do i meet ppl why won't anyone reply
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv learned that on forums is not how it work dude be patient it is a swing site and like myself your a single man, maybe take a look at some things on your profile you can change to be more accommodating to couples and such, it all takes time lol  |
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"Get into the chat rooms on cam or head to socials. Get urself known xx"
As above. . Also consider adding some narrative to your profile. It may also be worth considering dropping the text speak on profile and messages.
Other than that be patient
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does this work ppl....I've pmed loads of ppl an no1 every reply....can anyone help plz"
You have to sell yourself, which at this time, your not doing.
Most people read a profile before they read a message. If there's no profile to read, why they should they read your message?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile says nothing about you and what you are looking for, I'd work on that.
My pet hate, pictures in uniform, to me of seems to say I'm military and defines you as such and I hate to see the uniform used to get sex. It's not a criticism but I also know a lot of others feel the same, just a suggestion to put it in friends only maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I never answer those.
Read the profiles. Find something in common. Compliment them on something you like. Crack a joke. Pop a reference to their profile in the subject title. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just read your profile.
Not even a "hello" it's too short.
Gotta make it interesting, bit about you, what YOU can offer someone, not the other way around which is a mistake a lot of single men make.
Introduce yourself the way you would in a public situation, friendly, confident and say a bit about yourself.
Good luck. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry just Vicki ya post just came through....I just say hi or how ya doin is that bad"
Yeh I'd just delete. Need a decent profile- bit about yourself and a message that convays you have read profiles. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"Sorry just Vicki ya post just came through....I just say hi or how ya doin is that bad
Yeh I'd just delete. Need a decent profile- bit about yourself and a message that convays you have read profiles."
Yea sorry mate, I am pretty sure that those messages earn a delete from virtually 100% of ladies....you will have to do better than that to attract attention! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks bring on the fantasy I'll take that off....just proud to have been in I wasn't tryin to use it like that but thanks for the heads up"
And be proud, we understand that fully if you get what I mean |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Hey all an thanks for your advice....I've changed a few things on my profile could you all give me a bit of feed back if you don't mind"
being straight but wanting to meet tvs would put me off, I wouldn't reply to your message, however others will so its really up to you
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
As people have suggested earlier, you need to say what YOU offer. We know what you are looking for, but why would a lady choose to chat to you and meet you.
What are you like,? what are you good at ? What are you into ?
Tell us more information so we can decide if you are worth replying to. |
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) I wouldn't reply to a message from you.
I also wouldn't reply to anyone who sends a message full of text speak
