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How do I get more meets an mails .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on here for a while now, not had any meets an only a couple of mails , I get mailed off men a lot but not females , I'm straight btw.
Can anyone advise me on how to better my profile .
Thanks in advance .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have more sydney university warnings than you have profile writing, those warnings mean nothing, check out some local guys who have been succesful and see how their profiles look to get some ideas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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use your filters to block single men. write a profile that lets people know what you're looking for and can offer from a swinging point of view rather than sounding like someone just looking for casual sex wherever you happen to be for work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get rid of the Sydney university claptrap ..what would they want with 2 pics? 
You need to show what you are looking for and what turns you on..
Disclaimers aren't cool  |
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"Been on here for a while now, not had any meets an only a couple of mails , I get mailed off men a lot but not females , I'm straight btw.
Can anyone advise me on how to better my profile .
Thanks in advance . "
I know that when we've personally looked for guys, the number one first filter we employ is "we never look at profiles where their avatar is a cock pic". For a huge number of people on here, swinging is much more about sexy people rather than sex organs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New right up sorted ."
Sorry, but if that's your new write up...I hate to think what the old one said. I don't mean to be harsh, but it says very little, It doesn't stand out, and there's no personality to it.
(Pictures need to be improved too)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here for a while now, not had any meets an only a couple of mails , I get mailed off men a lot but not females , I'm straight btw.
Can anyone advise me on how to better my profile .
Thanks in advance . "
Well let's see now...
The first thing that will happen when you send a message is said woman or 'target' will look at your opening lines. If 'u spel lyk dis' then go straight to block and delete, do not pass Go, do not collect £200...
However I have read your profile and your command of the language of this land is not as bad as that (more on this later). So we can assume you pass the first 'test' and they click on your profile before reading the carefully crafted message you have just written them. They skip all that shit you've spent ages writing and re-writing and getting advice on and go to your stats...
36 - seems to be a fairly 'safe' age on here and in a lot of peoples' range. Tick.
6'4 - Definitely tick.
Athletic - As above, definitely tick.
Non-smoker - I've never heard of anyone being turned down for being a non-smoker. So tick.
The rest of that stuff there then becomes a bit less important.
You have passed the 'stats test'
Congratulations you can accommodate, you're obviously not cheating on a partner or living at home with mum and dad. Tick.
So now you have passed these tests they will finally read you profile. Reading... reading... so far so goo... Wait. Just one seco... What's this?! A space before a full stop? A fucking SPACE before a full stop?! What the fuck!?
Blocked. Deleted. Do NOT pass Go. Do NOT collect £200. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go with your dressed shot - that shirt is gorgeous and leaves something to the imagination. Every male on here has a cock. Not all of them fill a shirt like that.
Run your profile through a spellchecker. I know. I know. It's shallow. It'll turn less people off so it's worth doing.
Finally, look at what you're writing. 'I'll meet up, I'll watch, I'll do anything, just please let me meet up with you' is how it comes across. Instead, why not try putting a bit of humour, let some of your personality out. The rest will come. And message others. I can't speak for any of the other women on here but the male to female ratio pretty much guarantees that a lot of females don't have time to do more than clear their inbox of messages every so often. So drop them a line, don't wait for the mails to come rolling in. And keep chatting here! The more we see of your personality on the forums, the likelier you are to get someone saying hi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finally, look at what you're writing. 'I'll meet up, I'll watch, I'll do anything, just please let me meet up with you' is how it comes across. Instead, why not try putting a bit of humour, let some of your personality out. The rest will come. "
Humour often doesn't come across as intended on here. What people write as a tongue-in-cheek remark too often gets interpreted as arrogant or aggressive... |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Updated , again lol"
Better profile photo and more information about you too.
You can always tweak it, add couple more sentences here and there. Maybe read some of the men's profiles who are forum regulars, you may pick up a few tips from them.  |
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Humour. & a bit of personality gets my attention I've messaged guys who show a sense of humour it's supposed to be fun in every way! Check out the humour ect on the forums , most folks on there seem great fun. Good Luck. |
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