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Finding site hard

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi ism finding it hard to meet on this site dont know what iam doing wrong iam not nasty or cheeky respectfull always dont stalk or bombard with msgs but still no luck ? Any help n pointers much appreciated thx matt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As they say mate, time is the key, I hope you find someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're probably not doing anything wrong really, although to me your profile description could be written a bit more clearly.

It's just that there are way more men looking for women here than vice versa, so you have to persevere and be patient.

Good luck : )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi ism finding it hard to meet on this site dont know what iam doing wrong iam not nasty or cheeky respectfull always dont stalk or bombard with msgs but still no luck ? Any help n pointers much appreciated thx matt"

You may be aware that most ladies will look at the profile before deciding whether to reply to an unsolicited message.

Yours, I am afraid, does not distinguish you from all the other single males. It has a poor sentence structure. It shows no personality. You are a good-looking chap but, without a smile, you don't look welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with the comments above about the structure of your profile and smiling.

What would put me off straight away however is the fact there is clearly a picture with a child in it,l, just my opinion but I don't like it.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Change your profile picture and keep trying. You sound as if you're keen to ensure meets are good for both parties and don't have "attitude". Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I'd happily proofread and correct your description if you like, I know not everybody enjoys writing and English etc.

Me, I'm sad enough to love it