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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all been a site member for a while now and i am yet to have my first meet. And im looking to get verified, im new to the swinging community and have no idea where to start all i know is im horny as fuck and need help surely someone can provide

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Provide what?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Provide what? "

What I thought. Think OP means he requires some sort of service

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think holding a smoke pipe helps

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all been a site member for a while now and i am yet to have my first meet. And im looking to get verified, im new to the swinging community and have no idea where to start all i know is im horny as fuck and need help surely someone can provide "

we didnt have our first meet from fab for a good 4 months after we joined, we went to clubs and met people that way! get out, get to a club, make some friends and then the meets will come, go to a social meet people there.

Also, your profile needs some work, check out the guys who are successful on the site, check out their profiles find out what they are doing to attract people, Alot of people wont meet people who smoke, that includes , alot wont meet people as young as you, so you are gonna have to put in the work if you wanna meet people. it wont just fall into your lap, nobody is going to provide for you, you have to work for it.

Px

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for your feedback ill be sure to take in everything you said and improve on my profile ill start by adding and replacing some photos thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all been a site member for a while now and i am yet to have my first meet. And im looking to get verified, im new to the swinging community and have no idea where to start all i know is im horny as fuck and need help surely someone can provide "

Being a site member does not increase your chances. Why did you think it did?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I've used this comparison before (and doubtless will again ) this isn't like the Argos web site where you can browse, click in what you want and have it delivered the same day. Meets are usually mutually beneficial and hopefully pleasurable and anybody considering arranging to meet you will want to know what you are offering in return for whatever they're providing you.

I don't know what that thing is in your photo but if I was you I'd exchange it for a photo in which you aren't holding it.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Common mistake is the assumption that writing messages will even get you a reply. Your chances of getting any meets here are infinitesimally small. Best not to see this site as anything more than a forum site, a place to waste a few hours when there's nothing on telly. Sorry.

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

The 'I'm here so come get me' method just doesn't work on Fab

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By *horehouseCouple  over a year ago

dissatisfied


"Common mistake is the assumption that writing messages will even get you a reply. Your chances of getting any meets here are infinitesimally small. Best not to see this site as anything more than a forum site, a place to waste a few hours when there's nothing on telly. Sorry. "

Sums this site up a treat ..we waste many hours on the forums as most telly I crap ..clubs and parties best places to get meets .

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan  over a year ago

Northants

Oh please, really???

Not another one!

If you stop your whinging and make an effort its really not too difficult to meet some really nice people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Common mistake is the assumption that writing messages will even get you a reply. Your chances of getting any meets here are infinitesimally small. Best not to see this site as anything more than a forum site, a place to waste a few hours when there's nothing on telly. Sorry. "

Yep, that's the way I see it too. I'm mostly here for the forums too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for your feedback ill be sure to take in everything you said and improve on my profile ill start by adding and replacing some photos thanks again"

And use punctuation unless you have been using it so much that all the relevant keys on your computer have broken.

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By *asokittyWoman  over a year ago

Nr Worksop

What have you got to offer? Other than complaining you're horny and expect someone to deliver....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Writting a profile can help

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all been a site member for a while now and i am yet to have my first meet. And im looking to get verified, im new to the swinging community and have no idea where to start all i know is im horny as fuck and need help surely someone can provide "

The impression I get is that you think that this is a free sex site, (it is in many ways, but I like to look on it as a community of like-minded friends, some of whom meet up for some mutual fun from time-to-time, (note the use of the word "mutual")) where all you have to do is say that you are "as horny as fuck" and women will drop into your lap. Look at it this way, what have you got to offer a female if she were to agree to meet you? Your profile is two lines of badly written "what I want" and nothing else. Lots of guys get meets on here, they just work at it a lot harder. The analogy is that you are fishing without bait, you've just dropped your hook in the water and expecting to land loads of women. It isn't going to happen. Look at the advice you have been given, look at how the successful guys word their profiles and how they go about getting a meet.

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