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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I don't know what else to do..I hate posting these threads but I am literally out of ideas..I have up two potential meet requests on here, with no response, I have altered my profile and displayed face pictures after advice, no responses. I am polite and respectful when sending messages, and read profiles in full when doing so, no responses. I am unable to attend the local social gathering due to other commitments. I dont know what else I can do to initiate any sort of action on this place..sorry for the whinging..do I have to just be patient?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't see any meet requests on your profile?
Your profile seems fine to me and you have had a meet so you obviously did something right.
It does take patience."
thank u..i did post two but they would have gone now. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes. 
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North "
Snap lol  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't see any meet requests on your profile?
Your profile seems fine to me and you have had a meet so you obviously did something right.
It does take patience.thank u..i did post two but they would have gone now."
I haven't had a lot of success with meet requests either tbh. It depends on whether a suitable person happens to be available and sees the request.
I tend to get a lot of replies but most are from guys who aren't my type or who say they can't meet me at the time/place I've put but they could do other time/other place!
I don't know how many women look at them. I post them occasionally but I look at them very infrequently. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol "
might just do that..is the swinging better up there then..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then.. "
It has wyrdwomen there lol and us hehe he |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then.. "
There does seem to be less people moaning about lack of fun up here. Whether that's because we're all at it constantly or we just don't bother moaning, I'm not sure.
Anyway, there are very few single men meeting in York so you'd go down a treat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then..
There does seem to be less people moaning about lack of fun up here. Whether that's because we're all at it constantly or we just don't bother moaning, I'm not sure.
Anyway, there are very few single men meeting in York so you'd go down a treat. "
packing my bags  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then..
There does seem to be less people moaning about lack of fun up here. Whether that's because we're all at it constantly or we just don't bother moaning, I'm not sure.
Anyway, there are very few single men meeting in York so you'd go down a treat. packing my bags "
Plus York is a lovely city x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then..
There does seem to be less people moaning about lack of fun up here. Whether that's because we're all at it constantly or we just don't bother moaning, I'm not sure.
Anyway, there are very few single men meeting in York so you'd go down a treat. packing my bags
Plus York is a lovely city x"
I do love York..x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then..
There does seem to be less people moaning about lack of fun up here. Whether that's because we're all at it constantly or we just don't bother moaning, I'm not sure.
Anyway, there are very few single men meeting in York so you'd go down a treat. packing my bags
Plus York is a lovely city x I do love York..x"
Well if you're ever up here... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then..
There does seem to be less people moaning about lack of fun up here. Whether that's because we're all at it constantly or we just don't bother moaning, I'm not sure.
Anyway, there are very few single men meeting in York so you'd go down a treat. packing my bags
Plus York is a lovely city x I do love York..x
Well if you're ever up here..."
I will be sure to let you know..x |
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"So I don't know what else to do..I hate posting these threads but I am literally out of ideas..I have up two potential meet requests on here, with no response, I have altered my profile and displayed face pictures after advice, no responses. I am polite and respectful when sending messages, and read profiles in full when doing so, no responses. I am unable to attend the local social gathering due to other commitments. I dont know what else I can do to initiate any sort of action on this place..sorry for the whinging..do I have to just be patient? "
I would say go to clubs or socials. I would also be wary of someone who had two verifications from the same person .... why the need? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see any meet requests on your profile?
Your profile seems fine to me and you have had a meet so you obviously did something right.
It does take patience.thank u..i did post two but they would have gone now.
I haven't had a lot of success with meet requests either tbh. It depends on whether a suitable person happens to be available and sees the request.
I tend to get a lot of replies but most are from guys who aren't my type or who say they can't meet me at the time/place I've put but they could do other time/other place!
I don't know how many women look at them. I post them occasionally but I look at them very infrequently."
This, we don't have much luck with meet requests either, and to be honest most of the ones posted we look at are not suitable for us so it can be very hard.
Shame you can't get to your local social but I agree clubs are a good way to go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would also be wary of someone who had two verifications from the same person .... why the need?
Two wouldn't put me off. Means consistency. Seven might though "
I know two is ok from whom ever surely.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never ever look at 'meets' & the 'meet anyone/anytime' thing is a right turn off for me.
My first veri was via cam, this could be an idea if you want more veris, and who knows where it could lead... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never ever look at 'meets' & the 'meet anyone/anytime' thing is a right turn off for me.
My first veri was via cam, this could be an idea if you want more veris, and who knows where it could lead... "
thank you |
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"I would also be wary of someone who had two verifications from the same person .... why the need?
Two wouldn't put me off. Means consistency. Seven might though I know two is ok from whom ever surely.."
Not sure what two is trying to say though? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"can be the timing as well. just because you're free at a certain time doesn't mean people who would be interested are.
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yeah I get that, I tried it didn't work out, back to the drawing board.. |
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I've seen you u retract with others in the forums and you come across well. It's a waiting game....wait for that potential sex partner to be looking - some people are 'online' but aren't actively looking.
Patience.... |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Nice smiley pics OP, and lovely brown eyes.
It is just patience, although I notice you're keen to try swinger clubs so maybe get down to one of those. It might take planning but could be what gets you going.
Alternatively, move North
Snap lol might just do that..is the swinging better up there then.. "
This for me!! 
Pleases and thank yous always go down well too op.... But without being creepy x |
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