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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just about everyone compliments our pics, so we tend take it as a reason for men we don't find attractive to get us to message them back saying thanks. that's often why these type of message get ignored.
as for being polite, carry on with that. at least you won't be pissing people off if they are not interested in you.
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Clubs are a great start to get meets with couples and females once you get more verifications you will find it easier to have private meets. Only thing i would say is you dont need to say how straight you are, thou i understand thats very normal for a new guy to the scene to feel the need to say. Red goes through massive dry spells on his single profile sometimes so maybe your just having one of them. Rosie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well guys you could be fighting a loosing battle peeing up a stick with so many guys that let others down three guys attending our party Saturday non turned up and couple years ago 15 out of 16 no shows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know if i am doing something wrong. Il compliment their pictures and be respectful but no one replies. Only got one veri. Anyone give me any ideas what im doing wrong"
I'm sure it's the angle of the picture but your cock looks like it's broken  |
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Would seriously recommend you try a club, you have La Chambre on your door step, you will find people there who will chat with you and you may even end up having some fun. A lot of people will not meet from just getting a message and seeing pictures on a profile, at a club you get the chance to see the person for real, chat with them face to face and then you can make up your mind if you fancy them. Imagine if I arrange to meet you for the evening g in a hotel, I get there and you turn out to be not my cup of tea, where do we go from here ???? Very awkward, and prob night wasted. In a club if this happens, then just move on, talk to someone else, still enjoy the evening. This goes both ways too lol |
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By *limmailMan
over a year ago
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what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? not one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha  |
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"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? not one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well guys you could be fighting a loosing battle peeing up a stick with so many guys that let others down three guys attending our party Saturday non turned up and couple years ago 15 out of 16 no shows "
More fool them. You're a very sexy couple. I always turn up when invited. Some people are just full of bullshit unfortunately |
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"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? Other one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha "
There's nothing stopping you deleting your profile. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? not one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha "
Uh-huh. Ever think perhaps you are also doing something wrong?
Of course, it's much easier to blame all the women here... It couldn't possibly be you.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? not one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha
Uh-huh. Ever think perhaps you are also doing something wrong?
Of course, it's much easier to blame all the women here... It couldn't possibly be you. "
It is women's fault... You don't want to sleep with him |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? not one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha
Uh-huh. Ever think perhaps you are also doing something wrong?
Of course, it's much easier to blame all the women here... It couldn't possibly be you.
It is women's fault... You don't want to sleep with him "
That's us, just bloody unreasonable. And on a sex site too. Outrageous!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? not one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha
Uh-huh. Ever think perhaps you are also doing something wrong?
Of course, it's much easier to blame all the women here... It couldn't possibly be you.
It is women's fault... You don't want to sleep with him
That's us, just bloody unreasonable. And on a sex site too. Outrageous! "
Yes how dare you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get messed about constantly, it's not just the single guys this happens to!
As most on here have stated, we tend to stick with clubs and parties now.
The fact people have turned up proves to us they are looking for some degree of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have been here and had one verification... Some guys would dream about that ratio!
Personally... A smile wouldn't go amiss... You don't look like a cheery chappy!"
Also the start of your profile (chubby, tattooed, can't accomodate) is the truth....but it sounds a bit negative to start with in the way it is worded?
You haven't asked for a profile critique, so hope you don't take this the wrong way. However people will look at your profile before deciding if to reply or not. Try to be a bit more positive about what you can offer. |
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I've had a meet that's let me down 5 times now, says literally a few hours before yeah I'm up for the meet then goes offline for days. It's just annoying, I hate timewasters, I don't get much spare time so when I do I don't want to be dicked about |
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Greetings x
I think fab is different from pretty much all other sites - it's about swinging not dating
If you want a fxck POF will get you one x
If you want a date Match dot come will suffice x
I've learnt from experience the only way you can guarantee fun times is to attend a club ( in my case gatehouse or sauna sauna ) you can soon rack up verifications
And after that any private meetings are a bonus x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I totally agree, clubs are always good, we have had our first experience with a single guy in a hotel, however we met him at a club first, single guys do struggle, we was looking for a guy so my partner could have her first DVP and all the guys was up for it till it come down to it, the single girls get criticised for being let downs but a lot of the guys are too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know if i am doing something wrong. Il compliment their pictures and be respectful but no one replies. Only got one veri. Anyone give me any ideas what im doing wrong"
How did you get the one veri if no one replies to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? not one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha "
Here are some more tits for you to look at! Lol xxx |
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"I know but I will give people a chance as I'm a nice guy, but that is taking the piss a bit"
Then ignore them and move on or continue to allow them to take the piss out of you as you have been doing. Only you can change it op |
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"I know but I will give people a chance as I'm a nice guy, but that is taking the piss a bit"
Why allow them too then complain? Life can get in the way of fun, but five times is pushing it.
Personally I only allow one cancellation. Seven years I've been here never encountered a time waster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clubs are a great start to get meets with couples and females once you get more verifications you will find it easier to have private meets. Only thing i would say is you dont need to say how straight you are, thou i understand thats very normal for a new guy to the scene to feel the need to say. Red goes through massive dry spells on his single profile sometimes so maybe your just having one of them. Rosie x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site is what it is, and not worth anyone moaning about - not saying the OP is moaning - but single men / men playing solo and worse still us men honest enough to admit we are Bisexual, are here to be chosen and its pot luck - and if your lucky enough to find a cracking female or MF couple, hang on to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont know if i am doing something wrong. Il compliment their pictures and be respectful but no one replies. Only got one veri. Anyone give me any ideas what im doing wrong"
Tats and beards are like marmite to women. The ones who like them, absolutely fucking love them. The ones who don't, can't stand them. There is no middle ground, especially with beards. I've yet to see a profile that says, "I don't mind beards, but I don't mind clean shaven either", or words to that effect.
As for compliments to pictures, I'd personally leave that until you've had a reply. In a first message it can make you seem needy/desperate which is obviously an instant flap shutter...
On the plus side, you're tall and have clear face pics which will always earn you points.
And that's my two pence on the matter... |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"what utter drivel....nothing wrong i been here over 10 years! guess what? Other one single lady maybe 2 and rest i get from live sights as most woman here so daMN fond of parading tits think we all like moths to a flame???? bout as far as they go ha ha ha ha
There's nothing stopping you deleting your profile."
I thought this too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know how you feel man.
The problem with my area is it seems most of the women want either black guys or over the top muscular guys. One profile even says she doesn't like tall men so being 6' 2 I lost my one advantage lol.
I've stopped messaging people now as it's pretty pointless and I'm taking a more casual approach to this. I log on every now and then and browse profiles or the forum. I may not be getting meets but it's done wonders to my confidence! Lol
Anyway that's my advice. Play it casual if you get messages/meets great if not then it's not the end of the world.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup same person, I'm a patient person but getting the feeling I'm been screwed around"
If she had a good reason, then I would go for a 2nd meet, but 5 you must be desperate |
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) and it is the angle, my cock definately ain't broken :p
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