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over a year ago
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"............Any tips would be warmly welcomed, thank you all  "
Rightly or wrongly some members make the assumption that a single guy who cannot accommodate has something to hide and would like a wee explanation as to why that's not the case.
I doubt it'll make much difference either way but you know how nosy some folks can be  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"............Any tips would be warmly welcomed, thank you all
Rightly or wrongly some members make the assumption that a single guy who cannot accommodate has something to hide and would like a wee explanation as to why that's not the case.
I doubt it'll make much difference either way but you know how nosy some folks can be "
Kinda agree with this. If a single guy can't accom, can think of two reasons they'd not want to admit (wife, live with parents) and one they should (live with housemates).
I don't think that it's all swingers are suspicious, it's just that a lot of swingers are experienced and see better options than the secretive ones. |
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over a year ago
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"Ah i see, have no problem saying i care for my elderly, ill step dad. But wud that put ppl off?"
There's no accounting for the reasons some folks will decide are valid when it comes to choosing who, and who not, to meet.
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over a year ago
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"Well iv amended my profile 2explain my living conditions so to speak. Thanx v much 4the advice anyway"
You up for more?
It looks as if you've ticked EVERY interest. That smacks of desperation in some minds. Maybe just delete a few of your least favourite things. |
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over a year ago
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"Got that. Do u work 4the site or summit lol. Thanx 4the pointers tho!  "
When you get a bit more time have a look through the 'what is wrong with single guys?' threads which infest the forums.
Many of the common complaints are there although I don't doubt the list will be added to on a frequent basis. |
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"Got that. Do u work 4the site or summit lol. Thanx 4the pointers tho!
When you get a bit more time have a look through the 'what is wrong with single guys?' threads which infest the forums.
Many of the common complaints are there although I don't doubt the list will be added to on a frequent basis."
Leave the guy alone if he can't accomidate that's his buisness and he may like all interests.
Keep your profile how it is you wrote it so it reflects you. |
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"Got that. Do u work 4the site or summit lol. Thanx 4the pointers tho!
When you get a bit more time have a look through the 'what is wrong with single guys?' threads which infest the forums.
Many of the common complaints are there although I don't doubt the list will be added to on a frequent basis.
Leave the guy alone if he can't accomidate that's his buisness and he may like all interests.
Keep your profile how it is you wrote it so it reflects you."
I can do no more than quote the OP "Any tips would be warmly welcomed, thank you all". |
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hope you have a fab time!
patience and politeness is the key tips for you really. read profiles and make it obvious you have when messaging people x
