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over a year ago
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I'm really struggling to get anyone just to read my messages talk about reply or anything else. Don't get me wrong I'm here to meet people but don't want to shag anyone I'd love to find a
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really struggling to get anyone just to read my messages talk about reply or anything else. Don't get me wrong I'm here to meet people but don't want to shag anyone I'd love to find a
Regular FB or maybe 2"
Not too many ladies are looking for a man in a relationship - and fewer are looking for a man who does not want to shag them. Even fewer will bother with someone with an uninteresting profile containing no photos. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm really struggling to get anyone just to read my messages talk about reply or anything else. Don't get me wrong I'm here to meet people but don't want to shag anyone I'd love to find a
Regular FB or maybe 2
Not too many ladies are looking for a man in a relationship - and fewer are looking for a man who does not want to shag them. Even fewer will bother with someone with an uninteresting profile containing no photos."
That's meant to read just come out of a long term relationship lol but may explain a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really struggling to get anyone just to read my messages talk about reply or anything else. Don't get me wrong I'm here to meet people but don't want to shag anyone I'd love to find a
Regular FB or maybe 2
Not too many ladies are looking for a man in a relationship - and fewer are looking for a man who does not want to shag them. Even fewer will bother with someone with an uninteresting profile containing no photos.
That's meant to read just come out of a long term relationship lol but may explain a lot. "
It reads, "I have been in a long term relationship for a while now," which is quite different. And why do you not want to shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't all ices aid is not looking to settle down or am I missing something. "
You did - but it is changed now. You really do need to write an informative profile, though. There is nothing there to attract. Would you pick your profile over those other hundred that are more attractive? We wouldn't respond to a message from you. There is nothing there. Really don't understand your reference to sarcasm, either, as can't see anything sarcastic on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I haven't all ices aid is not looking to settle down or am I missing something.
You did - but it is changed now. You really do need to write an informative profile, though. There is nothing there to attract. Would you pick your profile over those other hundred that are more attractive? We wouldn't respond to a message from you. There is nothing there. Really don't understand your reference to sarcasm, either, as can't see anything sarcastic on your profile."
Thanks I've just read yours and I'm going to have another rewrite see if I can get it more informative. The reference to the sarcasm is the messages I send, I'm usually just trying to be humourous but I think it gets lost in translation |
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I think your profile reads quite well. You've talked about your interests and you've said what you gave to offer.
Putting on your profile that you only want to meet women is sufficient. Saying you're not ready to meet couples could be interpreted as not really being up for the swinging lifestyle, so would be better to say nothing. Remember this is a swinging website, so in contrast to casual dating websites, Fab is very much geared towards fun involving at least three people.
With regards to your description of yourself, I think a man being 'curvy' may be a turn off. Most men who are not muscle bound and have a bit of a tummy get away with describing themselves as 'average' in body shape. Unless you really are very overweight.
A profile definitely need more photos. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think your profile reads quite well. You've talked about your interests and you've said what you gave to offer.
Putting on your profile that you only want to meet women is sufficient. Saying you're not ready to meet couples could be interpreted as not really being up for the swinging lifestyle, so would be better to say nothing. Remember this is a swinging website, so in contrast to casual dating websites, Fab is very much geared towards fun involving at least three people.
With regards to your description of yourself, I think a man being 'curvy' may be a turn off. Most men who are not muscle bound and have a bit of a tummy get away with describing themselves as 'average' in body shape. Unless you really are very overweight.
A profile definitely need more photos. "
Thanks, I can't take full credit the comments above helped me a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your profile reads quite well. You've talked about your interests and you've said what you gave to offer.
Putting on your profile that you only want to meet women is sufficient. Saying you're not ready to meet couples could be interpreted as not really being up for the swinging lifestyle, so would be better to say nothing. Remember this is a swinging website, so in contrast to casual dating websites, Fab is very much geared towards fun involving at least three people.
With regards to your description of yourself, I think a man being 'curvy' may be a turn off. Most men who are not muscle bound and have a bit of a tummy get away with describing themselves as 'average' in body shape. Unless you really are very overweight.
A profile definitely need more photos.
Thanks, I can't take full credit the comments above helped me a lot. "
It is crap. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think your profile reads quite well. You've talked about your interests and you've said what you gave to offer.
Putting on your profile that you only want to meet women is sufficient. Saying you're not ready to meet couples could be interpreted as not really being up for the swinging lifestyle, so would be better to say nothing. Remember this is a swinging website, so in contrast to casual dating websites, Fab is very much geared towards fun involving at least three people.
With regards to your description of yourself, I think a man being 'curvy' may be a turn off. Most men who are not muscle bound and have a bit of a tummy get away with describing themselves as 'average' in body shape. Unless you really are very overweight.
A profile definitely need more photos.
Thanks, I can't take full credit the comments above helped me a lot.
It is crap."
All of it or most lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most of it....and if you are out of a relationship...why no pics and why can't you accommodate? Without explanation most will assume you are attached. There are thousands of attached guys on here who post themselves as single. You will be lumped in with them if a 39 yr old can't accommodate it looks rather suspicious to many! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most of it....and if you are out of a relationship...why no pics and why can't you accommodate? Without explanation most will assume you are attached. There are thousands of attached guys on here who post themselves as single. You will be lumped in with them if a 39 yr old can't accommodate it looks rather suspicious to many!"
Thanks, my daughter stays here a lot so accom isn't an option, should I add that? Also first time here so not that confident about adding a picture at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tbh it sucks really bad. Not long before your be posting again asking .... Why cant i get meets "
So what sucks because others have suggested changes which I've made and they've said its ok |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and have a really good read.
You're one of zillions of men after the few women. Work out why we wouldn't pick you and you're half way there  "
Thanks for that I've read a few and they seem to give good advice. |
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"Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and have a really good read.
You're one of zillions of men after the few women. Work out why we wouldn't pick you and you're half way there
Thanks for that I've read a few and they seem to give good advice. "
There are some jokes in there but in the main people do give good advice in here |
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