I'm always looking too also I love to watch or join in and can accom as you can see I have recently lost both my legs above the knees so looking for friends to come over for social ie coffee chat any fun would be a bonus for me  |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I'm always looking too also I love to watch or join in and can accom as you can see I have recently lost both my legs above the knees so looking for friends to come over for social ie coffee chat any fun would be a bonus for me "
Same as me really friend chat and anything else a bonus  |
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over a year ago
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I have a friend who is to all intents and purposes hemi-plegic following a car crash (left hand side virtually paralysed). He is not on fab but knows of the site and my lifestyle. He offered his three-bed apartment as a party venue.
After some consideration I accepted, arranged a party, invited a mix of guests (mostly those I previously knew/met) and informed them of the circumstances.
A great time was had by all.....and in particular my friend who enjoyed the company of three women over a six hour period.
So I don't see any problem....regardless of your "disability". Stumpy is a long standing member here! |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I have a friend who is to all intents and purposes hemi-plegic following a car crash (left hand side virtually paralysed). He is not on fab but knows of the site and my lifestyle. He offered his three-bed apartment as a party venue.
After some consideration I accepted, arranged a party, invited a mix of guests (mostly those I previously knew/met) and informed them of the circumstances.
A great time was had by all.....and in particular my friend who enjoyed the company of three women over a six hour period.
So I don't see any problem....regardless of your "disability". Stumpy is a long standing member here!"
Thats a great real life story and offers hope of a good time to everyone. I too have the availability to accomodate but not on a grand scale. |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I think of myself as a lady with a disability. I am not a disabled lady !
It is a part of who I am, but people meet me for who I am and not because I have a long term health problem.  "
Lizzie no ones asking for people to meet them because of their dissability or long term health problem. Just letting people know we are here and enjoy life to the full! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I think of myself as a lady with a disability. I am not a disabled lady !
It is a part of who I am, but people meet me for who I am and not because I have a long term health problem.
Lizzie no ones asking for people to meet them because of their dissability or long term health problem. Just letting people know we are here and enjoy life to the full! "
Sorry. You headed this thread " disabled guy". Hence my message suggesting to take the emphasis off your disability and more about your personality.  |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I think of myself as a lady with a disability. I am not a disabled lady !
It is a part of who I am, but people meet me for who I am and not because I have a long term health problem.
Lizzie no ones asking for people to meet them because of their dissability or long term health problem. Just letting people know we are here and enjoy life to the full!
Sorry. You headed this thread " disabled guy". Hence my message suggesting to take the emphasis off your disability and more about your personality. "
Just i dont want to arrange to meet peeps without telling em i need crutches and then make it awkward i want to be straight upfront hence the heading! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think of myself as a lady with a disability. I am not a disabled lady !
It is a part of who I am, but people meet me for who I am and not because I have a long term health problem.
Lizzie no ones asking for people to meet them because of their dissability or long term health problem. Just letting people know we are here and enjoy life to the full!
Sorry. You headed this thread " disabled guy". Hence my message suggesting to take the emphasis off your disability and more about your personality.
Just i dont want to arrange to meet peeps without telling em i need crutches and then make it awkward i want to be straight upfront hence the heading!"
I'm the same I have to use crutches sometimes and I'd rather people know! I'm not afraid to use the word disabled and neither should you! You have posted in Introductions and I see nothing wrong with the way you headed your thread! I wish u all the best x |
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I think we are all free to label ourselves how we want surely ?
I'm a disabled lady at the moment. I have been for about 4 or 5 years. Hopefully in about a years time i will no longer be disabled then i will just be a lady |
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By *ojo1964Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I'm Rob, I have Cerebral Palsy, I'm confined to a wheelchair. I'm live independently also I drive too.
I'm looking for fun with a regular fuck buddy prefer BBWs or I'd would also like to watch a couple maybe join in too. |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"So OP ... what is it you are asking or stating .... as your thread started as .... DISABLED GUY ??????
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I am being honest about my particular problems and looking for new friends, why have you emphasised that in capital letters. Not everyone wants to meet other people for various reasons and i just think it best to be open and honest. Not asking any favours etc, so hope that helps cos lets face it i cant jump off wardrobes any more lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fb is disabled and we have had loads of fun together in mmf and although he requires Viagra prior to fun we have never viewed this a problem. He has very limited mobility. Good luck and have fun! |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"My fb is disabled and we have had loads of fun together in mmf and although he requires Viagra prior to fun we have never viewed this a problem. He has very limited mobility. Good luck and have fun!"
Will do and i hope you continue to do so too! |
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Hi every one and as it's been said I find It more about the person then anything else I was in a club last week and was talking to a veryy lovely lady who had cruchers but that's did not bother me got to see every one for who they are |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Hi every one and as it's been said I find It more about the person then anything else I was in a club last week and was talking to a veryy lovely lady who had cruchers but that's did not bother me got to see every one for who they are "
Thats cool mate |
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"You come across as a nice guy op, I'm sure you'll not struggle on here x
Struggling lol just leep smiling  "
you will be fine mate as it's been said if you seem a top guy so you should be having fun in no time |
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By *abphil OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"You come across as a nice guy op, I'm sure you'll not struggle on here x
Struggling lol just leep smiling you will be fine mate as it's been said if you seem a top guy so you should be having fun in no time"
Cheers mate |
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