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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, new to the seen, messaged a few women in my area even just for a chat nothing major, but messages keep getting deleted or ignored. Any tips?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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actually just go into introductions and see all the other guys moaning about it.
loads of people can't get this and that, funnily enough nothing turned up in search (including not this topic). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of things (and please, I am trying to be constructive).
1. Your age, being very young you are very much restricted in the number of people who want to meet people your age (many of the users of this website will have kids your age, and it just doesn't feel right for them).
2. Profile text. Not good at all "looking for something to do in my free time", I wonder how you would feel about being someones "free-time" fuck?
3. Write something nice about yourself, perhaps, why as an 18 year old you are on this site (maybe you live in a rural location and its difficult to meet people etc etc.) Make a little effort with your profile text, and go from there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A couple of things (and please, I am trying to be constructive).
1. Your age, being very young you are very much restricted in the number of people who want to meet people your age (many of the users of this website will have kids your age, and it just doesn't feel right for them).
2. Profile text. Not good at all "looking for something to do in my free time", I wonder how you would feel about being someones "free-time" fuck?
3. Write something nice about yourself, perhaps, why as an 18 year old you are on this site (maybe you live in a rural location and its difficult to meet people etc etc.) Make a little effort with your profile text, and go from there"
That's more like the advice I was looking for. Thanks  is it any better Now? I think the original profile was just like a temporary lick of paint. Meant to finish later but never got round to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A couple of things (and please, I am trying to be constructive).
1. Your age, being very young you are very much restricted in the number of people who want to meet people your age (many of the users of this website will have kids your age, and it just doesn't feel right for them).
2. Profile text. Not good at all "looking for something to do in my free time", I wonder how you would feel about being someones "free-time" fuck?
3. Write something nice about yourself, perhaps, why as an 18 year old you are on this site (maybe you live in a rural location and its difficult to meet people etc etc.) Make a little effort with your profile text, and go from there
That's more like the advice I was looking for. Thanks is it any better Now? I think the original profile was just like a temporary lick of paint. Meant to finish later but never got round to it"
Its okay but the "even if I am not attracted" bit... I would ditch, its kind of a thing we do (blimey I am using the royal "we" wait for the flames), that as grown adults on a swinging meet, if we are not into the person we meet, either socially or otherwise, we state that AT the meeting (usually after a nice chat and a few giggles (and by this I mean laughs). No need to put this in your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people are bored with these threads ( the deleted posts suggest this )then don't read them.
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Yeah you see I think there is an assumption by regular forum users that its just "another one of those posts" forgetting that new members join all the time and rather than beating them down, we should encourage them, and build a better community...
Well you never know |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If people are bored with these threads ( the deleted posts suggest this )then don't read them.
Yeah you see I think there is an assumption by regular forum users that its just "another one of those posts" forgetting that new members join all the time and rather than beating them down, we should encourage them, and build a better community...
Well you never know"
 Everyone was knew once, and didn't know everything there is to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree with subdivided ...
As a former single male on here, although quite a bit older, I think it's not unreasonable to offer some constructive criticism once in a while...
My only other advice would be to add a few more pics...not 'cock vs sky remote' by the way, but some with a bit of thought...and maybe erotic rather than 'here's my dick from ten angles'
Be a little careful with how much personal info you give...as the next Brian Cox you might not want your Fab history to catch up with you in ten years!
Also consider a club..That way you can get a feel (no pun intended) for the swinging scene and maybe introduce yourself to some people and show you are mature for your years .as long as you are!
This place is not Tinder...most of us like our naughty friends to be friends! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i deleted mine coz i suggested he search for something, then went to search it myself (to check) and no results returned.
Yeah sorry, I meant the posts I had to delete not yours "
oh ok, thanks. i was the only deleted post i could see so did think you meant me.
didn't know you'd had to remove posts as i hadn't been back in until now. not sure why i came back in tbh coz i have no further advice. |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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From the non verified to the super verified we all get the delete or ignore treatment or sudden variations of that.
Everyone obviously cannot reply to every one but some do make you wonder. There's some profiles that always seem to delete emails from a genuine's that contact them (yup genuine's & circles of friends observe & talk when it comes to suspects ). Yet in contrast the same deleters never fail in arranging with wasters, not so genuine's. We know this as they spend their days/nights updating their profile status about the latest timewaster no show (assuming it's true). But as said when a well verified genuine contacts them they delete the email within seconds.
Can only assume thats terrible bad luck or large doses of something else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people are bored with these threads ( the deleted posts suggest this )then don't read them.
Yeah you see I think there is an assumption by regular forum users that its just "another one of those posts" forgetting that new members join all the time and rather than beating them down, we should encourage them, and build a better community...
Well you never know
Everyone was knew once, and didn't know everything there is to know."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the moment, the five most recent threads on this message board are on this same topic...posters seeking help could so easily do a bit of research..."
They could but then why have a forum if you don't want people to post on it?
Everyone is entitled to post however they choose just as others can choose to ignore repetitive threads or give constructive advice. The kiss fuck avoid threads do my nut in but I simply ignore them and read and comment on other threads that aren't full of attention seekers needing an ego boost.
Sticky threads would be a good idea but people ignore them too.
OP your profile reads well but a few more tasteful pics would be an advantage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the moment, the five most recent threads on this message board are on this same topic...posters seeking help could so easily do a bit of research..."
I'm sure when you first joined you had no problems, no challenges, no questions and new exactly how the forums "operated".
Tell you what pisses me off, every time someone asks for help, people moaning about people asking for help. Let's have a look at the last 5 threads and see how many times that's happened.
As Ruggers said so eloquently, if you don't like these threads, ignore......
Back to the OP, you've had some good advice already. Read it, deliberate it, use it wisely. Good luck. |
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"At the moment, the five most recent threads on this message board are on this same topic...posters seeking help could so easily do a bit of research...
I'm sure when you first joined you had no problems, no challenges, no questions and new exactly how the forums "operated".
Tell you what pisses me off, every time someone asks for help, people moaning about people asking for help. Let's have a look at the last 5 threads and see how many times that's happened.
As Ruggers said so eloquently, if you don't like these threads, ignore......
Back to the OP, you've had some good advice already. Read it, deliberate it, use it wisely. Good luck."
No need to be so tetchy...I wasn't moaning at all.
Yes, I had plenty of questions at the outset, and, like many others no doubt, I read threads on the forums that gave useful advice...others could easily do the same |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"At the moment, the five most recent threads on this message board are on this same topic...posters seeking help could so easily do a bit of research..."
I can only assume people are only allowed to ask/discuss something once at one point in time on this forum. Beyond that point the everyone should refer back to that point in time post
Sounds like something from the Ministerium für Staatssicherheit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the moment, the five most recent threads on this message board are on this same topic...posters seeking help could so easily do a bit of research...
I'm sure when you first joined you had no problems, no challenges, no questions and new exactly how the forums "operated".
Tell you what pisses me off, every time someone asks for help, people moaning about people asking for help. Let's have a look at the last 5 threads and see how many times that's happened.
As Ruggers said so eloquently, if you don't like these threads, ignore......
Back to the OP, you've had some good advice already. Read it, deliberate it, use it wisely. Good luck.
No need to be so tetchy...I wasn't moaning at all.
Yes, I had plenty of questions at the outset, and, like many others no doubt, I read threads on the forums that gave useful advice...others could easily do the same "
It's all the chocolate, it's upset my usual cerebral calm....  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Yes, I had plenty of questions at the outset, and, like many others no doubt, I read threads on the forums that gave useful advice...others could easily do the same "
Or they could ask for advice and the people who don't like those threads can ignore them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, I had plenty of questions at the outset, and, like many others no doubt, I read threads on the forums that gave useful advice...others could easily do the same
Or they could ask for advice and the people who don't like those threads can ignore them"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi .. I would leave out the 'don't know what to write' bit, as it kind of contradicts the 'confident' bit. Also the 'hormonal kid'.. If they where not thinking it.. Then I think they will be after reading it.
And if you are going to have a face pic.. A nice smiley one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, I had plenty of questions at the outset, and, like many others no doubt, I read threads on the forums that gave useful advice...others could easily do the same
Or they could ask for advice and the people who don't like those threads can ignore them"
Is there an echo in here? |
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