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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Need some help guys. Been in fab about 3 months now, I ve sent countless messages, which are all promptly deleted!
I mean I not sending offensive rude messages. Just trying to break the ice.
Any help would be great thanks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people look at profiles first before looking at messages so profiles need to stand out with detail about you, your likes, dislikes etc and what you are looking for and offering. Yours is very short and tells me nothing.
Pics I like the no cock shots, maybe having a variety, bum, torso etc women like to see.
Messages, when you look at profiles and think you match what they are looking for, send messages tailored to them, mentioning similar interests etc, not talking about war and peace but something to get them interested  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most people look at profiles first before looking at messages so profiles need to stand out with detail about you, your likes, dislikes etc and what you are looking for and offering. Yours is very short and tells me nothing.
Pics I like the no cock shots, maybe having a variety, bum, torso etc women like to see.
Messages, when you look at profiles and think you match what they are looking for, send messages tailored to them, mentioning similar interests etc, not talking about war and peace but something to get them interested "
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Ok thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people look at profiles first before looking at messages so profiles need to stand out with detail about you, your likes, dislikes etc and what you are looking for and offering. Yours is very short and tells me nothing.
Pics I like the no cock shots, maybe having a variety, bum, torso etc women like to see.
Messages, when you look at profiles and think you match what they are looking for, send messages tailored to them, mentioning similar interests etc, not talking about war and peace but something to get them interested "
Exactly this...and the comment about "poor admin" (I assume by this you mean not replying) seems rather negative. Folks round here don't like any negativity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most people look at profiles first before looking at messages so profiles need to stand out with detail about you, your likes, dislikes etc and what you are looking for and offering. Yours is very short and tells me nothing.
Pics I like the no cock shots, maybe having a variety, bum, torso etc women like to see.
Messages, when you look at profiles and think you match what they are looking for, send messages tailored to them, mentioning similar interests etc, not talking about war and peace but something to get them interested
Exactly this...and the comment about "poor admin" (I assume by this you mean not replying) seems rather negative. Folks round here don't like any negativity."
Yeah I meant not keeping clean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people look at profiles first before looking at messages so profiles need to stand out with detail about you, your likes, dislikes etc and what you are looking for and offering. Yours is very short and tells me nothing.
Pics I like the no cock shots, maybe having a variety, bum, torso etc women like to see.
Messages, when you look at profiles and think you match what they are looking for, send messages tailored to them, mentioning similar interests etc, not talking about war and peace but something to get them interested
Exactly this...and the comment about "poor admin" (I assume by this you mean not replying) seems rather negative. Folks round here don't like any negativity.
Yeah I meant not keeping clean "
In that case perhaps add that you are always freshly showered and shaved...and look for the same in others. Less offensive? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most people look at profiles first before looking at messages so profiles need to stand out with detail about you, your likes, dislikes etc and what you are looking for and offering. Yours is very short and tells me nothing.
Pics I like the no cock shots, maybe having a variety, bum, torso etc women like to see.
Messages, when you look at profiles and think you match what they are looking for, send messages tailored to them, mentioning similar interests etc, not talking about war and peace but something to get them interested
Exactly this...and the comment about "poor admin" (I assume by this you mean not replying) seems rather negative. Folks round here don't like any negativity.
Yeah I meant not keeping clean
In that case perhaps add that you are always freshly showered and shaved...and look for the same in others. Less offensive?"
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Lol ok thanks for the advice |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"Need some help guys. Been in fab about 3 months now, I ve sent countless messages, which are all promptly deleted!
I mean I not sending offensive rude messages. Just trying to break the ice.
Any help would be great thanks?"
If you've really sent countless messages, that sounds like you're sending them to people you probably don't really match up that well to.
I'd argue it's far better to send one or two a month, but where you really feel you are what they are looking for.
If there are, say 100 women on FAB living near a bloke, how many of them might consider jumping into bed with him? Not many - 5 maybe?
It's really no different to the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good torso shot is always good in my book. The fact that there are no cock pics is also a plus. As others have said, perhaps a bit more detail about what you're looking for & just a bit more about yourself x |
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"Need some help guys. Been in fab about 3 months now, I ve sent countless messages, which are all promptly deleted!
I mean I not sending offensive rude messages. Just trying to break the ice.
Any help would be great thanks?"
Read profiles, and only message those who are actually looking for what you are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The big black cock sucking pic is still there. 
No suggested changes have been made even though they've been acknowledged, some more than once...."
Ok guys! Im bit hung over at the mo so just chilling today I will take all you advice on board tommorw when my head is straight thanks again for all the advice guys I really appreciate it! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people look at profiles first before looking at messages so profiles need to stand out with detail about you, your likes, dislikes etc and what you are looking for and offering. Yours is very short and tells me nothing.
Pics I like the no cock shots, maybe having a variety, bum, torso etc women like to see.
Messages, when you look at profiles and think you match what they are looking for, send messages tailored to them, mentioning similar interests etc, not talking about war and peace but something to get them interested "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am new too and have tried a number of profile pics. Now I have the cock one, which isn't everyone's cup of tea but I'm trying different ways and been changing my profile?? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"The big black cock sucking pic is still there.
No suggested changes have been made even though they've been acknowledged, some more than once....
Ok guys! Im bit hung over at the mo so just chilling today I will take all you advice on board tommorw when my head is straight thanks again for all the advice guys I really appreciate it! Xx"
You don't have to take any advice given, you can choose if you do or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The big black cock sucking pic is still there.
No suggested changes have been made even though they've been acknowledged, some more than once....
Ok guys! Im bit hung over at the mo so just chilling today I will take all you advice on board tommorw when my head is straight thanks again for all the advice guys I really appreciate it! Xx
You don't have to take any advice given, you can choose if you do or not."
I thought there was an unwritten rule that all advice offered had to be taken?
You'd think so sometimes....  |
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