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How did you get your wife interested in swinging
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Lots of single chaps do have a partner that isn't in the scene as such.
The difficulty lots face is how to gently introduce the scene.
I've been asked by a reasonable number of friends (usually single guys with a wife) to give the wife a sensual massage. The key for the lady is to know that there's no chance of sex during the early meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok just looking to hear how you guys got your wives into swinging or us anyone like me and not sure how to approach the subject. "
I showed her my single profile and the verifications I had received from meeting people and clubs
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"Ok just looking to hear how you guys got your wives into swinging or us anyone like me and not sure how to approach the subject.
I showed her my single profile and the verifications I had received from meeting people and clubs
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This is the best idea. All the "single" guys should do this.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner of 6 years started with fantasy talk In sex about anothers watching then escalating into talking about if there was a additional couple with us. Then Said his mates had been on this site which to be honest at first I was like wtf ha but then it got me curious and I looked on myself and here we are 7 months later just had our second experience with a couple, visited lots of clubs and loving it worth a mention we only live once and as long as there is good relationship you will all good x |
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By *ipglossWoman
over a year ago
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Nobody said it had to be the guy initiating 
I got into a new relationship, I told him from the kick off this is what I like to do, he's interested and we're enjoying seeing where it will take us.
Previous relationship had no kinks at all but he was a super shag! |
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over a year ago
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You have two veris from webcams. Perhaps tell her you like to be watched and then maybe do some stuff on webcam if she says yes. Should progress from there? Doing it on webcam should be a safe start for her without maybe shocking her with a club or landing a strange person in your bedroom.
She can switch the cam off if she's uncomfortable and she's fully in control. |
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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago
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"My best mate mentioned once how he'd love to give my wife one, I told her and we invited him to a threesome , the rest is history .  "
Wow bet there's a few on here who would like to give your wife one very sexy lady if you don't mind me saying (mr Dee) and we got into swinging after chatting about the subject on and of for around a ye then we saw a program on men and motors showing you la chambres in our home town went along and here we still are swinging away not as often due to Mrs Dee suffering ill health but we have enjoyed every minute of our sexploits x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She had already done threesome with guys threesome with girls and joined a married couple. All done social without the aid of a site.
I had done it as a single guy and just admitted my involvement and she shared her experiences. Never looked back. |
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Strangely enough it didn't take any coercion or manipulation. I found that by being entirely honest with her, she was able to be entirely honest with me, and being generally compatible we ended up with something that we both love! - This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok just looking to hear how you guys got your wives into swinging or us anyone like me and not sure how to approach the subject. "
I know how I got himself to think it was his idea  but can't help with your dilemma much. Apart from maybe you making it all about her ? Telling her you have a fantasy about her being the centre of attention in a MMF scene and see how she reacts. If you mention full couple swaps too early it will sound to be all about you, and there lies disaster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask her in the heat of the moment if she would prefer to suck your cock or be fucked then ask her if she would like both at the same time. If her reaction is positive then say "would you like that...is that something you would try" and ask her what else she would like to do. She might be thinking it all along but not comfortable saying but more likely too in the heat of the moment. Mrs A x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See what her reaction is when you're fucking her whilst you put your fingers in her month and tell her to suck them like she's sucking cock and you talk dirty that she's got 2 cocks. When's you're both finished ask her would she like to make it a reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often it is the wife who initiates it.
Or the man is on here as a "single"...in which case showing his profile to his wife is the usual way forward. You cannot consider going into swinging without honesty! |
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"Strangely enough it didn't take any coercion or manipulation. I found that by being entirely honest with her, she was able to be entirely honest with me, and being generally compatible we ended up with something that we both love! - This!"
same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many moons ago,and after alot of talking ,albeit pillow talk,he took it upon himself to add us too a site (not this one) I think he thought I may just delete it. I Infact just altered it and corrected the spelling lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We watched porn when we were younger and the Girl on Girl stuff always turned her on, so it was always on the cards she'd bring a mate home.
How we got deeper into it was simple, i join a site as a couple told her about it and she soon had men wanting her which turned her on. Once the seed was planted well the rest is history.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My best mate mentioned once how he'd love to give my wife one, I told her and we invited him to a threesome , the rest is history . "
I can see why he would, lucky mate
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