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"If you're looking fora polygamous relationship this place is ideal I wouldn't even contemplate it with someone from this site " I dont get why not from this site. Your on here..does that mean nobody should contemplate dating you? Surely people are people wherever you find them? | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" Without doubt yes its possible via FAB - I know two couples who met here and now married and several others who are an "item" | |||
"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" Marry me. | |||
"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" Yes I think a relationship is possible on here | |||
"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" I certainly hope so, I'm not closed to finding love anywhere but if I found it on here, that would be ideal...an openminded individual with similar interests and views on sex as me would be great, be it male or female...filtered men out though and bi/gay women looking for the same thing are few and far between so I'm not holding my breath! | |||
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"In answer to the op though, it's not impossible to find a relationship on here, plenty have including myself. it's no different to meeting someone in a bar or on another site or wherever. Behind the fab profiles are just normal every day run of the mill people you see everywhere else " | |||
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"I'd love to find a great guy on here. It would definitely be an open and honest relationship for sure. I have had brief relationships here on fab and they were great, sadly didn't last. But I'm honest about being open to the idea as it's included on my profile " Dam it why can't you live closer lol | |||
"If you're looking fora polygamous relationship this place is ideal I wouldn't even contemplate it with someone from this site " Me neither. | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" I'd say the 2 main issues with a relationship from this site are that you find someone who does not share when in a relationship. Yes they do exist! The second is if you put it out there that you are after a relationship then it could lead some to use that in order to just get a meet. You can find love but there is an element of it finding you as an above poster has already said. | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" It most certainly is possible..Billy and I met on here 3 years ago, spent a while just having lots of fun and then decided there was more to it, neither of us were looking, it just kinda happened . like you say...at least we have similar interests Good luck. Poppy x | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" We met on pof, were completely honest from the start and things worked out great... | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" I wanted to ask exactly this! At least with whoever we might meet on here there will be no secrets! I would love to find a relationship on here... Surely it's possible? Or are we just too optimistic lol? Good luck to you OP x | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" of course you can loads of people here looking for a relationship even some couples | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" People have found love in a supermarket and dirty nightclubs etc so I wouldn't of thought here would be classed as impossible. I met someone on here for quite awhile, I'd happily enter into a relationship with. I never planned those feelings because i had planned on the single life for good lol! You just never know. Good luck op! | |||
"I wouldn't look here though you may be lucky. Let's face it must people on here are looking g for sex not a relationship though a relationship CAN develop from sex." Exactly. | |||
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"I wouldn't look here though you may be lucky. Let's face it must people on here are looking g for sex not a relationship though a relationship CAN develop from sex." I think this is the best place to look if you want to have a swinging relationship. There have been a lot of new couples just lately, it's lovely. I don't want to date a swinger so I wouldn't look on here myself. But lots of people do find what they want. | |||
"Yes it's possible. We met here around 6 years ago as singles. Engaged for almost 3 years. Cupid worked his magic and we are stronger than ever. Although it's not the 'ideal' place to meet when your loved ones ask how we met. But it happened. It wasn't something we were not looking for at the time. But who chooses when love strikes. Golden rules for us. Be honest. And be honest some more. We never meet our previous meets as singles. It's our experience. It's our future. Not our past. It works for us. But think we are very lucky. Mrs x " Why not just say you met on an internet dating site? | |||
"I wouldn't look here though you may be lucky. Let's face it must people on here are looking g for sex not a relationship though a relationship CAN develop from sex. I think this is the best place to look if you want to have a swinging relationship. There have been a lot of new couples just lately, it's lovely. I don't want to date a swinger so I wouldn't look on here myself. But lots of people do find what they want. " Point well made and taken by me. I suppose it depends what sort of a relationship you are after and relationships, like us humans, come in all different shapes, types and sizes none any better than each other. | |||
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"Surprised more single guys have not offered to meet you. There must be guys on here looking for a long term partner What do you thing guys is this lady wasting her time ? " no not at all...i.would have a realtionship with her on looks but u do need to have a good personality as im sure she does x | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" We think this would be the worst place in the world to pick a partner | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here." Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna | |||
"I wouldn't look here though you may be lucky. Let's face it must people on here are looking g for sex not a relationship though a relationship CAN develop from sex." Yes OP, you can definitely find love on here, but finding and actively looking ate two different things. My partner and myself met 6 years ago, have lived together 4 1/2 share practically everything, so it does happen. We however were not looking and things grew the more we met up. We still meet others especially those we already knew previously - why not? They're just meets and/or close friends so we don't see why we have to cut them off if we have fun together. The main danger is when people join swingsites actively seeking relationships but not to swing, yet their profile is vague or does not let on this fact. As a guy I've seen many a single girl's profile with certain key words or phrases, or combinations of. After a while she eventually has her first meet, meets the same fellow a few more times, then the next phrase "Found what am looking for" goes up, soon followed by a couples profile. A number of times the poor fellow thinks he can still meet on his own (not realising new rules are I play), she finds out and all hell brakes loose, they have a public falling out at a social and they split up with him branded the arsehole and left to pick and repair his damaged reputation. But it's not all doom and gloom, that's just one of the examples I know of | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna" Bassed on the both of us then, which is a small sample granted, that's a 50/50 success rate so far, no better or worse than normal life I'd say lol | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna" Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. " Can you imagine the rows after a month of marriage"you fucked 47 men in two years you slut" opposed to "your a crap shag as you only got 3 legovers in 6 years"..seriously relationships are about Love Trust and commitment ...most on here could not commit themselves to a good hearty shit | |||
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"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. " I agree totally !! | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. I agree totally !!" So it's alright for couples to meet "the special one" and then start swinging but not do the same in reverse ? | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. I agree totally !! So it's alright for couples to meet "the special one" and then start swinging but not do the same in reverse ?" Well yes I think it is because I've been with my husband since I was 14 and I'm now 47 so we are just doing it to add abit of spice into the mix and are very secure with each other as I'm sure many others are so not here to meet a partner...which is what the OP has asked a vice on ! | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. I agree totally !! So it's alright for couples to meet "the special one" and then start swinging but not do the same in reverse ?" That seems to be the trouble with fab lately ,its not nsa any more,it just seems to be the overspill from dating sites that have invaded to curtail the fun and look for love.....maybe there should be a filter so we can pass these by | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. Can you imagine the rows after a month of marriage"you fucked 47 men in two years you slut" opposed to "your a crap shag as you only got 3 legovers in 6 years"..seriously relationships are about Love Trust and commitment ...most on here could not commit themselves to a good hearty shit" | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. Can you imagine the rows after a month of marriage"you fucked 47 men in two years you slut" opposed to "your a crap shag as you only got 3 legovers in 6 years"..seriously relationships are about Love Trust and commitment ...most on here could not commit themselves to a good hearty shit " | |||
"I personally know 3 couples that have met on here, one have been together a few months, another for a couple of years, and the third got married last August, so yep there's definitely a chance to find happiness and a relationship on here. Have to throw a spanner in the works here im afraid because we know 3 couples who met on fab and they have all split up so I don't think this is a good place to find "that special one" Anna Swingers aren't ever going to be 'that special one'. I agree totally !! So it's alright for couples to meet "the special one" and then start swinging but not do the same in reverse ?That seems to be the trouble with fab lately ,its not nsa any more,it just seems to be the overspill from dating sites that have invaded to curtail the fun and look for love.....maybe there should be a filter so we can pass these by " I've not noticed that change at all, from what I've seen there's still the same amount of people looking for NSA as ever there has been. Though maybe your suggestion of a possible nsa only filter could be a good idea. | |||
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"It is possible to meet and have a fully working relationship from meeting on this site, not sure why people think otherwise Theres lots of singles on here that aren't swingers and only using this site until the "one" comes along. Surely because they met on here does not mean either not relationship material." 100% agree with this! | |||
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"I'm of the opinion that love finds you rather than the other way around although I think the love of my life has a defective sat nav, either that or someone has tipped him off as to what a bonkers handful I am!! Good luck op " Haha....I think mine has the same problem sadly! | |||
"I'm of the opinion that love finds you rather than the other way around although I think the love of my life has a defective sat nav, either that or someone has tipped him off as to what a bonkers handful I am!! Good luck op Haha....I think mine has the same problem sadly! " Yep I'm with you | |||
"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" We did. We have been together over 2 years and living together for the period as well x | |||
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"Sad, but in my experience, so far it's true... But I live in hope! " Hope springs eternal I'd love to find a serious relationship here - where else am I going to meet a kinky bisexual girl? | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?We think this would be the worst place in the world to pick a partner " I am not sure picking is the right word. Agree not the best place to actively look perhaps. But that is very different from luckily finding someone and then growing a relationship. The advantage being you both definitely know a particular interest that has no awkward 'how do I bring this up!!' | |||
"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" Yes it is possible, i did | |||
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"Although I am on 'Match' etc I ask the question am I looking in the wrong place? Is it possible to find a relationship on Fab? At least we will have similar interests. Can anyone help?" Ive known people on here that have married from meeting on here so I know it can happen At least we all have common goal on here, we love sex lol | |||
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