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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just for the women or Couples but who would play with married men from this site knowing he had full permission to meet and play on a regular basis ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" We would play with married men. How would we know if they had permission or not though? So as long as we are not knowingly upsetting others partners, we accept all men.x"
a few reasons
1 I don't lie
2 I can accommodate not something I would do without the wife knowing
3 you could always chat to the wife beforehand if you didn't trust my word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I presumed you meant generically rather than you personally.
I tend to take a lot of what I read with a pinch of salt so personally I probably wouldn't and would want to play with both of a couple anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" We would play with married men. How would we know if they had permission or not though? So as long as we are not knowingly upsetting others partners, we accept all men.x
a few reasons
1 I don't lie
2 I can accommodate not something I would do without the wife knowing
3 you could always chat to the wife beforehand if you didn't trust my word "
We don't judge from a moral point of view because which of us is in a position to do that but we find that arranging meets with people who are attached, male or female, just too complicated and long winded to be bothered.
As for permission and conversations with third parties about it, life is too short to get into all of that...
...plus, we'd find it weird to go to an attached persons house to fuck them. Will she be there? Or would she have to leave so we could meet? Would we have to arrange meets around times when she was out? See? Just too complicated to be interested when it's much more straightforward to meet unattached people... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" We would play with married men. How would we know if they had permission or not though? So as long as we are not knowingly upsetting others partners, we accept all men.x
a few reasons
1 I don't lie
2 I can accommodate not something I would do without the wife knowing
3 you could always chat to the wife beforehand if you didn't trust my word
We don't judge from a moral point of view because which of us is in a position to do that but we find that arranging meets with people who are attached, male or female, just too complicated and long winded to be bothered.
As for permission and conversations with third parties about it, life is too short to get into all of that...
...plus, we'd find it weird to go to an attached persons house to fuck them. Will she be there? Or would she have to leave so we could meet? Would we have to arrange meets around times when she was out? See? Just too complicated to be interested when it's much more straightforward to meet unattached people..."
Only as complicated as you want it to be |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"just for the women or Couples but who would play with married men from this site knowing he had full permission to meet and play on a regular basis ? "
We don't play with married men, though I don't doubt we have in a club because we never ask are you married before we do play  |
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" We would play with married men. How would we know if they had permission or not though? So as long as we are not knowingly upsetting others partners, we accept all men.x
a few reasons
1 I don't lie
2 I can accommodate not something I would do without the wife knowing
3 you could always chat to the wife beforehand if you didn't trust my word
We don't judge from a moral point of view because which of us is in a position to do that but we find that arranging meets with people who are attached, male or female, just too complicated and long winded to be bothered.
As for permission and conversations with third parties about it, life is too short to get into all of that...
...plus, we'd find it weird to go to an attached persons house to fuck them. Will she be there? Or would she have to leave so we could meet? Would we have to arrange meets around times when she was out? See? Just too complicated to be interested when it's much more straightforward to meet unattached people...
Only as complicated as you want it to be "
Errrrr....that's not really an answer.
It's complicated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't often meet single guys alone but if we did we wouldn't care, probably wouldn't even ask.
If I'm in a club alone and actively looking for a guy then, again, don't care. I won't ask.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We don't often meet single guys alone but if we did we wouldn't care, probably wouldn't even ask.
If I'm in a club alone and actively looking for a guy then, again, don't care. I won't ask.
V xx "
shame there isn't more couples like you nearer to me on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" We would play with married men. How would we know if they had permission or not though? So as long as we are not knowingly upsetting others partners, we accept all men.x
a few reasons
1 I don't lie
2 I can accommodate not something I would do without the wife knowing
3 you could always chat to the wife beforehand if you didn't trust my word
We don't judge from a moral point of view because which of us is in a position to do that but we find that arranging meets with people who are attached, male or female, just too complicated and long winded to be bothered.
As for permission and conversations with third parties about it, life is too short to get into all of that...
...plus, we'd find it weird to go to an attached persons house to fuck them. Will she be there? Or would she have to leave so we could meet? Would we have to arrange meets around times when she was out? See? Just too complicated to be interested when it's much more straightforward to meet unattached people...
Only as complicated as you want it to be "
My point is that we don't so tend not to. And you haven't answered my other questions |
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There's only one married man I play with and I know he has permission as I used to play with them as a couple but she's taking a break from swinging while they're trying to conceive but doesn't mind him meeting me alone. I have no problems if it's out in the open, I'm not one for facilitating cheating that for me isn't what swinging us about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's only one married man I play with and I know he has permission as I used to play with them as a couple but she's taking a break from swinging while they're trying to conceive but doesn't mind him meeting me alone. I have no problems if it's out in the open, I'm not one for facilitating cheating that for me isn't what swinging us about "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would take the view that its really none of my business. I have beeded a few married women and the reason they want it is because their husband simply doesnt pay them any attention and/or they dont feel loved or appreciated. Thats the long and short of it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would take the view that its really none of my business. I have beeded a few married women and the reason they want it is because their husband simply doesnt pay them any attention and/or they dont feel loved or appreciated. Thats the long and short of it."
that isn't the case for us its all about adding new dimensions to our lives |
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"just for the women or Couples but who would play with married men from this site knowing he had full permission to meet and play on a regular basis ? "
Only your word for it that you have permission, not that it matters, i dont meet married men |
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"just for the women or Couples but who would play with married men from this site knowing he had full permission to meet and play on a regular basis ? "
I was chatting to one of my friends about this last week.
I think a lot of people like to feel exclusive. It is better for their egos.
It depends on the woman in your case. I'd imagine that most women wouldn't want to share a man with another woman. It would make her feel less valuable. However, some women don't care and some women even prefer it.
If you think about it, it makes no tangible difference. A married man is no different physically than a single man. It's wholly based on the values of the judge.
I think the general thought process is; "If a man fancies another woman as well as me, why should I give him what he wants. I'm not getting 100% of him so why should I give him 100% of me?".
It's more on the feelings and values of the person who is judging you. It boils down to his/her own values rather than you being different in any physical way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My word are you children. Speak to my woman/man to confirm what I am saying.
Even if that is the case. The partner may not want their info given to a stranger or rather both parties keep their sexual open partners out of thwir family business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" We would play with married men. How would we know if they had permission or not though? So as long as we are not knowingly upsetting others partners, we accept all men.x
a few reasons
1 I don't lie
2 I can accommodate not something I would do without the wife knowing
3 you could always chat to the wife beforehand if you didn't trust my word
We don't judge from a moral point of view because which of us is in a position to do that but we find that arranging meets with people who are attached, male or female, just too complicated and long winded to be bothered.
As for permission and conversations with third parties about it, life is too short to get into all of that...
...plus, we'd find it weird to go to an attached persons house to fuck them. Will she be there? Or would she have to leave so we could meet? Would we have to arrange meets around times when she was out? See? Just too complicated to be interested when it's much more straightforward to meet unattached people...
Only as complicated as you want it to be "
Not at true! Guys like you are complicated. You can't meet at the drop of a hat whenever a lady wants to meet, why should we have to ask permission to sleep other anyone when there's plenty of singles out there. Talk to your wife you say? Lol yeah only have your word that's your wife. Could be anyone covering your back for all I know. I wouldn't meet a mummy's boy so definitely wouldn't meet you with your wife the other side of the wall either. I'm also not interested in guys who have to sneak me into their homes. Sorry sir but you're the one that's complicated. Single guys All the way for me thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" We would play with married men. How would we know if they had permission or not though? So as long as we are not knowingly upsetting others partners, we accept all men.x
a few reasons
1 I don't lie
2 I can accommodate not something I would do without the wife knowing
3 you could always chat to the wife beforehand if you didn't trust my word
We don't judge from a moral point of view because which of us is in a position to do that but we find that arranging meets with people who are attached, male or female, just too complicated and long winded to be bothered.
As for permission and conversations with third parties about it, life is too short to get into all of that...
...plus, we'd find it weird to go to an attached persons house to fuck them. Will she be there? Or would she have to leave so we could meet? Would we have to arrange meets around times when she was out? See? Just too complicated to be interested when it's much more straightforward to meet unattached people...
Only as complicated as you want it to be
Not at true! Guys like you are complicated. You can't meet at the drop of a hat whenever a lady wants to meet, why should we have to ask permission to sleep other anyone when there's plenty of singles out there. Talk to your wife you say? Lol yeah only have your word that's your wife. Could be anyone covering your back for all I know. I wouldn't meet a mummy's boy so definitely wouldn't meet you with your wife the other side of the wall either. I'm also not interested in guys who have to sneak me into their homes. Sorry sir but you're the one that's complicated. Single guys All the way for me thanks. "
That's your choice as it is with everybody on this site however sneak I don't and if she wasn't my wife why would I declare i'm married in the first place I have absolutely nothing to hide i'm a honest guy ok been married and been allowed to play with permission you can decipher that how you want but I will always be honest with anyone I potentially meet complications are none in my eyes
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