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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials are always a good, inexpensive way to meet people.
The forums are also a good way to get noticed and get your personality across a bit more.
If you're looking for meets off the site then a good set of pics are needed and a profile that shows some effort has been made. Be polite and remember that just because it's a sex site women won't fuck anything and aren't free prostitutes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wots up with people abit of common curtisty not to much to ask a sex site indeed "
indeed, plenty of haters on here with nothing better to do than be bitter and twisted. Spread the love guys |
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"Wots up with people abit of common curtisty not to much to ask a sex site indeed
indeed, plenty of haters on here with nothing better to do than be bitter and twisted. Spread the love guys"
Well yours is the only post in this thread that is slagging other people off, so maybe you should take your own advice... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Hmm I haven't started off too well have I. It was not my intention to hurt anyone's feelings on here and I can see why I have started a hornets nest for which I apologize to all that feel aggrieved by my insensitive question. I know that it Is a swingers site obviously and I realise I should have rephrased my question - hindsight is a wonderful thing. For those that offered constructive advice I thank you for others I am sorry.
Andy |
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"Hmm I haven't started off too well have I. It was not my intention to hurt anyone's feelings on here and I can see why I have started a hornets nest for which I apologize to all that feel aggrieved by my insensitive question. I know that it Is a swingers site obviously and I realise I should have rephrased my question - hindsight is a wonderful thing. For those that offered constructive advice I thank you for others I am sorry.
Andy"
Take no notice.
Your question was asked in good faith; the responses of the usual suspects shouldn't put you off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Many thanks for that and if I am lucky enough to 'Swing' preferably not from a tree when I get linched I'll have you to thank for it. I owe you one...
Andy |
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"Obviously this is a sex site but what is the best way to meet others on here. Thanks in anticipation.
Andy"
You can indeed get a lot of attention purely from messaging.
The best way, my friend, is to stand out from the crowd in a good way.
The best way to do that on a swingers site is to not be sexual.
If it is possible, remove your genitals before coming onto the site. You'll do better.
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"My genitals have been removed any lovely ladies available to initiate me into the fold or folds whichever the case may be....
Andy"
Sounds painful. The cock pics are still there though (my eyes, my eyes), unless you've put up two pics of your pet rabbit, but he looks remarkably like a penis. It's not the most flattering shots of a pet rabbit I've seen either.  .
Seriously though, you need a decent profile with pics and something that tells people about your personality. Yours doesn't.
I don't think people were out of order really. You haven't offended anyone though, so don't apologise. People are very direct if asked for advice - the reason is that there's an endless stream of blokes asking for profile help. Very many of them don't act on that help and change anything, or get a bit shirty (which obviously isn't you). They invariably come back a month later asking the same thing, or moaning about the site and its members. .
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Hey Andy
Remove your 2 public cock pictures. 99% of women on here don't want to see just cock. Put some other pics on, chest, back, shoulder, eyes, legs...anything to show your type of body.
Your profile wording is poor, therefore women assume your bedroom performance will also be the same.
You wrote an eloquent apology, you can obviously string a sentence together. Read a few couples profiles to get an idea of what to include on your profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Swinging is sex lol ,it's not a coffee club ,,why do you think most people are on here for lol yes there is the social side of it ,but it all boils down to pure sex ... |
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"Many thanks for that and if I am lucky enough to 'Swing' preferably not from a tree when I get linched I'll have you to thank for it. I owe you one...
Andy"
Best of luck mate you seem genuine and nice. Happy swinging
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"Swinging is sex lol ,it's not a coffee club ,,why do you think most people are on here for lol yes there is the social side of it ,but it all boils down to pure sex ..."
I've made a great coffee club out of Fab |
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I appreciate the best way to meet people is to get out there and go to clubs for far greater success, however i also think that a lot of guys on this site do not help themselves due to a lack of common manners.
Too many times when in a chatroom, directing or not, i constantly see the use of the C-word. for me, it's not a good word to use, even in a chatroom environment.
Then comes the constant lack of the words, 'please' and 'thank you'. two very important words in my eyes.
irrespective of man, woman or couple, everyone deserves the right to be treated with respect.
lets remember one thing, everyone on this site is someones son/daughter, brother/sister, mum/dad etc.....
rant over |
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