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Sorry for the same again but hello...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Have been on here for 6 months but after Christmas thought I would get involved with a proper profile...am a bit nervous....
People just wanted to know what Iam doing wrong to get a break on herei know a guy looking for fun is like 100 two a penny.... But have sent a few polite messages
No text or sex speak...just normal stuff but no replys..I know the lady's will be getting bombarded with messages but just want to know what it takes to even get a hello.....
If you can take a min to look at my profile and let me know if I can change it in any way...sorry for the same topic post..
Thanks people
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont worry about it man, you could have the perfect profile on here and still not get a look in,there are a few genuine nice respectful ladies on here the rest are like stoners in a cake shop greedy fuckers cock mad and stick to what seems to be an unseen circle so chin up  |
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It's natural to be nervous, nearly all of us were when we started out .
Your torso picture is fine but the one of you in a tee shirt doesn't tell us much about you.
Your profile text is ok too but doesn't really stand out.
No in the forum, see if there's an organised social locally or visit a club.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi thanks for the advice
Don't want to sound dum but I thought I was posting in the forum ???
The spelling side of it is my nerves and dyslectic in spelling I have it in maths also....
The spelling has hit a nerve with some people
Glad it's not a scrabble site...I would be crap... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont worry about it man, you could have the perfect profile on here and still not get a look in,there are a few genuine nice respectful ladies on here the rest are like stoners in a cake shop greedy fuckers cock mad and stick to what seems to be an unseen circle so chin up "
Ha ha ha cheers bro... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi and welcome, it looks ok, it sais you cant accommodate and haven't put why there."
It just don't really work for me to accommodate..sometimes I can and some I can not..so that's why I put I can not.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would ditto the Grammar / Spelling....as sad as that sounds ALOT of people will be put off of your profile trust me!  "
Hi thanks for the advice as I said the spelling and grammar is a bit of a problem for me...maybe there are some nice English teachers out there that can help me out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont worry about it man, you could have the perfect profile on here and still not get a look in,there are a few genuine nice respectful ladies on here the rest are like stoners in a cake shop greedy fuckers cock mad and stick to what seems to be an unseen circle so chin up "
When i had a proper profile up it was the main thing that got me meets.
A good profile isn't one that tries to appeal to everyone or that is full of clichés its one that shows who you are, and so with an honest profile you get messages from the kind of people you want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would ditto the Grammar / Spelling....as sad as that sounds ALOT of people will be put off of your profile trust me!
Hi thanks for the advice as I said the spelling and grammar is a bit of a problem for me...maybe there are some nice English teachers out there that can help me out..."
Best tip, read it out loud. |
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Join in on the forum in the lounge bit and the swingers bit as they are busiest - just say something in one of the threads. Just keep doing that - might take weeks but if you're always there, you won't get ignored. There was a lady who told me she had bee on here years then changed her name and photo, went in the forum and joined in an no one spoke to her. Don't give up.
Try the chat rooms, just having a presence in there and getting to chat to someone will help.
Go to a social - maybe easier for you to interact face to face
Go to a club - what fun!
Consider a lot more photos and a variety too.
What is it about you that a lady might think 'oh that sounds interesting - I'll ask him about that' ? Find something and put it in your profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi and welcome, it looks ok, it sais you cant accommodate and haven't put why there.
It just don't really work for me to accommodate..sometimes I can and some I can not..so that's why I put I can not.."
Same as myself, so say that in your profile. You don't have to explain why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have changed my profile a little.And tried to address the grammar and spelling.
If you can let me know what you all think that would be grate..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have changed my profile a little.And tried to address the grammar and spelling.
If you can let me know what you all think that would be grate..
Thanks "
Looking a lot better personally I would just reword the oral sex part, maybe I reading it wrong but it sounds like you like to give because you expect to receive too. Maybe something like......
'I'm heavily into foreplay/oral as this, for me, is a major part of the whole thing'
Just a suggestion  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have changed my profile a little.And tried to address the grammar and spelling.
If you can let me know what you all think that would be grate..
Thanks
Looking a lot better personally I would just reword the oral sex part,
maybe I reading it wrong but it sounds like you like to give because you expect to receive too. Maybe something like......
'I'm heavily into foreplay/oral as this, for me, is a major part of the whole thing'
Just a suggestion "
Cheers mate changed it up a bit again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Only two errors I can see on your profile, both spellings, pritty is pretty, and four play is foreplay.
Other than that your profile reads much better than it did few days ago"
Hi done that thanks.And thanks for taking the time to read it.. |
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Interesting what was said above about no replies in the forum.... I've posted three messages, an intro and a question about my profile pics, and i have had no responses at all, even though other similar posts have... I must be doing something wrong
To the OP, bad spelling and grammar would put me off, as it's an indication of how you would speak, and if I can't hold a conversation with you.... shrug... not sure if that helps xx
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Interesting what was said above about no replies in the forum.... I've posted three messages, an intro and a question about my profile pics, and i have had no responses at all, even though other similar posts have... I must be doing something wrong
To the OP, bad spelling and grammar would put me off, as it's an indication of how you would speak, and if I can't hold a conversation with you.... shrug... not sure if that helps xx
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Except when I click on the green arrow to see your forum history, you did get replies!  |
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"Thanks for the extra advice.I have posted on a few different topics in the forums in an effort to join in and get noticed.
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It will take time.....maybe weeks of constant joining in so lots of people notice you as a regular and get to chat with you. It depends what your expectations are - quick results or you're here for the long term. |
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"Sites full of Timewaters mate, I'm the same but ive given up now"
This is the first thing you've ever said in the fab forum!
If you've given up - why are you still on fab? Or have you NOT given up but just having a moan? |
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"Only two errors I can see on your profile, both spellings, pritty is pretty, and four play is foreplay.
Other than that your profile reads much better than it did few days ago
Hi done that thanks.And thanks for taking the time to read it.."
Actually your posts on this forum contain very few spelling errors so that shows you can write well enough... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sites full of Timewaters mate, I'm the same but ive given up now
This is the first thing you've ever said in the fab forum!
If you've given up - why are you still on fab? Or have you NOT given up but just having a moan? "
"Timewaster" is a great word normally describing us and usually used by people weve said "no"to The word is overused and of little effect to swingers who more than often research their meets and do not want to jump in a car at the drop of a hat to go meet some unverified stranger,people that scream timewaster all the time we tend to avoid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Get over it. Half of the girls on here I would not batter an eye lid at in the street mate pure plain janes that because there's lots of thirsty guys showing them attention there heads swell to a stupidly big size. So my advice is let them come to you theres nothing attractive about being desperate or bitter. |
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"Get over it. Half of the girls on here I would not batter an eye lid at in the street mate pure plain janes that because there's lots of thirsty guys showing them attention there heads swell to a stupidly big size. So my advice is let them come to you theres nothing attractive about being desperate or bitter. "
Although irony is hilarious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get over it. Half of the girls on here I would not batter an eye lid at in the street mate pure plain janes that because there's lots of thirsty guys showing them attention there heads swell to a stupidly big size. So my advice is let them come to you theres nothing attractive about being desperate or bitter.
Although irony is hilarious "
struggling to see the irony ya crank |
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"Get over it. Half of the girls on here I would not batter an eye lid at in the street mate pure plain janes that because there's lots of thirsty guys showing them attention there heads swell to a stupidly big size. So my advice is let them come to you theres nothing attractive about being desperate or bitter.
Although irony is hilarious struggling to see the irony ya crank "
Ok allow me to explain it for you, if you wouldn't look twice at them in the street, but you'd shag them from here clearly your desperate too. Also your talking like your gods gift to women so your ego is clearly inflated too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have read you profile and see nothing wrong with it if that's what you are looking for. My profile always clearly explains what I am looking for, that day, week or month and I update it regularly. You are not what I'm looking for and that would suggest to me (if you had messaged me) that you hadn't bothered to read it, therefore I wouldn't answer. So in short make sure you target the women that are looking for what you gave to offer and it may just work out for you. Good luck xx |
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"Get over it. Half of the girls on here I would not batter an eye lid at in the street mate pure plain janes that because there's lots of thirsty guys showing them attention there heads swell to a stupidly big size. So my advice is let them come to you theres nothing attractive about being desperate or bitter.
Although irony is hilarious struggling to see the irony ya crank
Ok allow me to explain it for you, if you wouldn't look twice at them in the street, but you'd shag them from here clearly your desperate too. Also your talking like your gods gift to women so your ego is clearly inflated too "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have read you profile and see nothing wrong with it if that's what you are looking for. My profile always clearly explains what I am looking for, that day, week or month and I update it regularly. You are not what I'm looking for and that would suggest to me (if you had messaged me) that you hadn't bothered to read it, therefore I wouldn't answer. So in short make sure you target the women that are looking for what you gave to offer and it may just work out for you. Good luck xx"
Hi was that my profile you looked at??
If it was Thankyou as it was getting a bit busy on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read you profile and see nothing wrong with it if that's what you are looking for. My profile always clearly explains what I am looking for, that day, week or month and I update it regularly. You are not what I'm looking for and that would suggest to me (if you had messaged me) that you hadn't bothered to read it, therefore I wouldn't answer. So in short make sure you target the women that are looking for what you gave to offer and it may just work out for you. Good luck xx
Hi was that my profile you looked at??
If it was Thankyou as it was getting a bit busy on here "
It was,,, don't know why it keeps knocking off what I'm quoting lol damn phone x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have read you profile and see nothing wrong with it if that's what you are looking for. My profile always clearly explains what I am looking for, that day, week or month and I update it regularly. You are not what I'm looking for and that would suggest to me (if you had messaged me) that you hadn't bothered to read it, therefore I wouldn't answer. So in short make sure you target the women that are looking for what you gave to offer and it may just work out for you. Good luck xx
Hi was that my profile you looked at??
If it was Thankyou as it was getting a bit busy on here
It was,,, don't know why it keeps knocking off what I'm quoting lol damn phone x"
Cheers for having a look.Do you think I can tweak it in any way..?
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