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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ever time a message some 1 don't get a reply "
Oooooo. I see. Read the site rules. No reply should be taken as a "no thank you."
It can be difficult but it's the way of the site.
-Courtney |
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Remove your status then read the profile of whoever you choose to message then if you match each other's requirements just write saying hi, you notice that you both like the same things would she be interested in taking it further...or words to that effect.
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"Need help "
Make sure you read her profile and try to personalise it or pick up on some points made on her profile text. Try to write a few sentences, (not just fancy a fuck) and don't copy and paste to mass mail lots of women. Good luck. |
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"I have only had 2 reply since I've been on here "
It's not instashag, as a single guy odds are stacked against you. Men outnumber women on here. You will need to put in time and effort to stand out from the crowd and also have patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont want to sound rude, but it might be obvious to someone you message that your profile is someone elses...that wont help.."
I just read it.
Oh gosh. 
-Courtney |
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"I made a sex film "
If you feel that the women you're contacting will find it relevant or attractive yes, mention it.
The most important thing initially is to be yourself, women can spot it a mile off if you're not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do u mean "
i think thats another reference to 'your' profile..all someone has to go on on here is a profile, so if the profile is clearly someone elses then how can anyone make a decision to chat to you? its the same as having no profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hit and miss, sometimes you can pour your heart and soul (bit dramatic) into a message and not get a reply and sometimes a simple hello will get a reply, you should always try to put the effort in and make it personal to the girl your messaging, and don't worry about getting a message back, if you do... Jackpot if not into the next profile you go a d don't look back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi
Right your own maybe?
What's cofi ?? "
its his name that he's using on his stolen profile text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi
Right your own maybe?
What's cofi ??
its his name that he's using on his stolen profile text"
If it is stolen he could have picked a more eloquent profile.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with the spelling... Shocking profile surprised you get anything."
he's changed it...the stolen one was a shining example of perfect english...thats why it screamed 'nicked!' when he wrote his own stuff on the forum... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's with the spelling... Shocking profile surprised you get anything.
he's changed it...the stolen one was a shining example of perfect english...thats why it screamed 'nicked!' when he wrote his own stuff on the forum..."
Right I get you now...still love the spelling of some words  |
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This reminds me so much of my profile being stolen by another guy while still in the forum.
Everyone told him it was wrong but he didn't see it like that and thought it was perfectly ok to steal it.
I reported him.
36 hours later he was banned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To address your original question OP, be friendly, light hearted and consider her profile and stated likes and dislikes. You've mentioned on a few threads about your porn exploits, not a massive sell to be completely honest. Consider how you would go about striking up a conversation in a bar and deploy similar tactics. We women are tricky and changeable beasts so there is no 'one size fits all' approach. Remember you might see a profile and picture library that makes you think 'yup, I'd do that' and then banter starts and you realise she's as dull as ditch water. Just try to find out what they're about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read that profile before... Word for word... Except it has kinky where it now says cofi
Right your own maybe?
What's cofi ??
its his name that he's using on his stolen profile text
If it is stolen he could have picked a more eloquent profile.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cofi mean the town I live in we all call our self cofi lad if u lived in Wales u would understand "
Did you really steal someone's profile text , that's really cold dude ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cofi mean the town I live in we all call our self cofi lad if u lived in Wales u would understand "
You're only wanting those who understand that? You know how to limit your target audience mate. |
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"Cofi mean the town I live in we all call our self cofi lad if u lived in Wales u would understand
You're only wanting those who understand that? You know how to limit your target audience mate. "
It's ok.
He has other area covered with his four other profiles.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?"
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile! |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...! |
"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile! "
Yes, I read that too.... feel there's both a bit of cut n pasting going on, and also beginning to think all is not what it seems down in Caernafon.... If ya get my drift.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!
Yes, I read that too.... feel there's both a bit of cut n pasting going on, and also beginning to think all is not what it seems down in Caernafon.... If ya get my drift..... "
You mean interbreeding down in Wales  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just read there profile cause 9 times out of 19 you aren't what they are looking for!! Just write a bit about yourself and show your human side!! But don't get down if you don't get a reply it's just one of them! But if you're nice and down to earth then they will most probably return!! I've made loads of friends since I've been here! This site isn't just about the "swinging" but it should be about having a laugh! And that's what I do ^.^  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile! "
I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!
I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!!"
Thats exactly what i thought |
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2 verifications for the same lady, written by 2 different people by the looks of things. A very hard to understand profile coupled with the number of similar threads by the OP goodness knows what to make of all this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This reminds me so much of my profile being stolen by another guy while still in the forum.
Everyone told him it was wrong but he didn't see it like that and thought it was perfectly ok to steal it.
I reported him.
36 hours later he was banned."
A couple of times my single profile text was stolen in its entirety & not even edited. I commented on the fact on the forum & was basically told I was being a big baby haha.
He might as well steal mine, others do. I'd like to see how he bastardises it with his awsum riting skilz
Mr J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 verifications for the same lady, written by 2 different people by the looks of things. A very hard to understand profile coupled with the number of similar threads by the OP goodness knows what to make of all this!!"
Op is taking the piss..he's playing people. Not as naive as he sounds..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!
Yes, I read that too.... feel there's both a bit of cut n pasting going on, and also beginning to think all is not what it seems down in Caernafon.... If ya get my drift..... "
He's probably "borrowed" it off someone else like he did with his previous profile text. |
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"This reminds me so much of my profile being stolen by another guy while still in the forum.
Everyone told him it was wrong but he didn't see it like that and thought it was perfectly ok to steal it.
I reported him.
36 hours later he was banned.
A couple of times my single profile text was stolen in its entirety & not even edited. I commented on the fact on the forum & was basically told I was being a big baby haha.
He might as well steal mine, others do. I'd like to see how he bastardises it with his awsum riting skilz
Mr J "
Well the guy who stole mine did so in mid session of a thread he'd started asking for help.
I noticed comments from others telling him how much better it was now, so I looked at it and found he'd lifted mine word for word.
The reaction of the forum was understandably hostile when I revealed his deception, but the amazing thing was that he didn't think he'd done anything wrong, and was just borrowing it until he wrote his own!
He got flamed after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!
I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!!"
There's no way they were written by the same person |
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"Does anyone else think his verification isn't genuine? Or do all Welsh people write the same way?
His verification of her is an essay written in a very different style to his profile!
I was stunned by the verification he supposedly wrote for his most recent meet. No way has the same person written the profile and that verification. Something weird going on! !!!
There's no way they were written by the same person "
I think the OP's borrowing habits are getting fully aired across all five of his current threads!
He's really not doing himself any favours here at all |
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"Need help "
Only one way to message a female, by fully reading a profile to ensure you are a full match, then talking to her as you would if you met her away from the site, i.e., by not talking to her pussy |
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"Or try this;
I've seen your profile, thought I'd say hello
You're a bit of all right, don't you know
I have a cock, hard, thick n juicy
I'd love to stick it up your wet pussy"
"Juicy" and "pussy"...do they rhyme? |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"Or try this;
I've seen your profile, thought I'd say hello
You're a bit of all right, don't you know
I have a cock, hard, thick n juicy
I'd love to stick it up your wet pussy
"Juicy" and "pussy"...do they rhyme?"
Close enough... |
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