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That's understandable completely, it is all about feeling comfortable with who your with, especially if it's something new. Is there anything specific which the thought of turns you on or your wish to explore. Think about that and go from there. Good luck |
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"Been thinking about my first gay experience. I love the thought of it but very nervous about taking the first step"
It might be easier with an mf couple where the guy is bi. That's what happened to me. You need a high level of emotional intelligence.  |
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Having been there myself I'd definitely say go for it.
My first experience was with a couple with a bi male and I still see them on occasion more than 10 years later. That said if you find a guy that you a) like the look of and b) click with over a few messages then the "in at the deep end" approach may work better.
Either way, best of luck and enjoy. |
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Some good advice on here....but if you hope to find a couple with a bi guy...you may wish to change your profile from straight..to at least bi-curious?
There has been a lot of negativity on the forums for guys who hide their bi or bi-curious nature. |
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"Some good advice on here....but if you hope to find a couple with a bi guy...you may wish to change your profile from straight..to at least bi-curious?
There has been a lot of negativity on the forums for guys who hide their bi or bi-curious nature."
This is very true, if my partner and I ever search for single men we do usually limit the search criteria down to bi/bi-curious men and don't take notice of messages from profiles who are straight but then say bi in their messages. I understand why people do this, but i like openness  |
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