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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on here a couple of weeks now ( know that that isn't a v.long time!) I was just wondering if my profile could do with any tweaking or whether there are any other photos a single guy on here should be posting. I do have private face pics, that I'm happy to send once a connection has been established. Thanks in advance guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now ( know that that isn't a v.long time!) I was just wondering if my profile could do with any tweaking or whether there are any other photos a single guy on here should be posting. I do have private face pics, that I'm happy to send once a connection has been established. Thanks in advance guys!"
Your profile looks fine to me
Read people's profiles before sending messages and make sure you are what they are looking for and send a smiley face pic. Other than that the content of messages should just be like talking to someone in a bar. . A little one than a hi, how are you though
Lots of similar threads on same subject to have a look through |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok, I like the pics, maybe another of your bum, women to like a nice bum 
Text, personally for me I like to see more about the type of personality you have and seek rather than base it all on appearance.
What likes, dislikes do you have and look for?
It's certainly not a bad profile though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So why fab a pic and then not answer a msg or even just say no thanks when your not interested politeness costs nothing"
That's not an issue for hijacking a newbie thread with people trying to help. A fan means they like a pic...not that they want to meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now ( know that that isn't a v.long time!) I was just wondering if my profile could do with any tweaking or whether there are any other photos a single guy on here should be posting. I do have private face pics, that I'm happy to send once a connection has been established. Thanks in advance guys!
Your profile looks fine to me
Read people's profiles before sending messages and make sure you are what they are looking for and send a smiley face pic. Other than that the content of messages should just be like talking to someone in a bar. . A little one than a hi, how are you though
Lots of similar threads on same subject to have a look through "
A little more than hi..... ** |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here "
What a croc of sH1t....... They are not rude, they are sometimes choosy but normally in line with what they state clearly on their profiles......the problem is guys messaging inappropriately and with sky high expectations.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here "
To be fair, some women and couples I have messaged, tend to send a message back even if it is just a "no, thank you", which goes a long way when you do spend time messaging someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok, I like the pics, maybe another of your bum, women to like a nice bum
Text, personally for me I like to see more about the type of personality you have and seek rather than base it all on appearance.
What likes, dislikes do you have and look for?
It's certainly not a bad profile though "
Ok definitely take that on board, will look to add some more about my personality! Just a struggle taking bum pics by yourself  haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here
What a croc of sH1t....... They are not rude, they are sometimes choosy but normally in line with what they state clearly on their profiles......the problem is guys messaging inappropriately and with sky high expectations...."
Yeah that's an impression I'm getting that the select few tend to ruin it for the rest of us males. Don't understand how the first thing you could message someone is a cock pic! The mind baffles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here
What a croc of sH1t....... They are not rude, they are sometimes choosy but normally in line with what they state clearly on their profiles......the problem is guys messaging inappropriately and with sky high expectations...."
Totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So why fab a pic and then not answer a msg or even just say no thanks when your not interested politeness costs nothing
That's not an issue for hijacking a newbie thread with people trying to help. A fan means they like a pic...not that they want to meet you."
Exactly this. I stopped fabbing photos on my old profile as many would message me and talking about rude, some got a little nasty when I said I didn't want to meet, I just liked their pic. If they were interested, they'd message, fabbing a pic is a compliment, not an offer to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just said hi how are you not here's my cock want to fuck it I never send cock pics or do you want to fuck msgs I say hi how are you And most of the time ladies carnt even be bothered to answer back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I just said hi how are you not here's my cock want to fuck it I never send cock pics or do you want to fuck msgs I say hi how are you And most of the time ladies carnt even be bothered to answer back"
A little tip, women read profiles before opening the message, if it says nothing then you're unlikely to get a response. They might have 50 plus messages in their inbox, do you stand out amongst all those???? |
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here
What a croc of sH1t....... They are not rude, they are sometimes choosy but normally in line with what they state clearly on their profiles......the problem is guys messaging inappropriately and with sky high expectations....
Yeah that's an impression I'm getting that the select few tend to ruin it for the rest of us males. Don't understand how the first thing you could message someone is a cock pic! The mind baffles."
Oh no, no, no, no...
Not this weary old argument again!!!
How are the "select few" ruining it for you??
Take responsibility for your own success or lack of it on the site, and don't blame others for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes sorry op, got side tracked by a rude person hijacking your thread moaning about rude people!
I agree with others, pics are nice but you need to expand more with your description. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah, seems to get the general consensus but I've been wondering - this may sound very stupid - but in terms of likes and dislikes, what should I be referring to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, seems to get the general consensus but I've been wondering - this may sound very stupid - but in terms of likes and dislikes, what should I be referring to?"
Only you know why you're here and what you're looking for. Put your preferences and likes and try to make it positive and get your personality across. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah, seems to get the general consensus but I've been wondering - this may sound very stupid - but in terms of likes and dislikes, what should I be referring to?
Only you know why you're here and what you're looking for. Put your preferences and likes and try to make it positive and get your personality across. "
Made some amendments, think it's an improvement? |
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"The choosier the women are on here are the ones who wouldn't stand a chance in the real world and the rude ones he refers to. I agree 100%"
Diasagree I'm extremely choosy but have no trouble in the "real world" either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here
What a croc of sH1t....... They are not rude, they are sometimes choosy but normally in line with what they state clearly on their profiles......the problem is guys messaging inappropriately and with sky high expectations....
Yeah that's an impression I'm getting that the select few tend to ruin it for the rest of us males. Don't understand how the first thing you could message someone is a cock pic! The mind baffles.
Oh no, no, no, no...
Not this weary old argument again!!!
How are the "select few" ruining it for you??
Take responsibility for your own success or lack of it on the site, and don't blame others for it."
I'm a single guy....getting on a bit...nothing special...but I do meet (in 4 years on previous profile my verified meets would scare most guys shitless)..I have been very successful on here. I do NOT see myself as the privileged few! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been on here a couple of weeks now ( know that that isn't a v.long time!) I was just wondering if my profile could do with any tweaking or whether there are any other photos a single guy on here should be posting. I do have private face pics, that I'm happy to send once a connection has been established. Thanks in advance guys!"
Back to the original question......
Looks a good profile etc to me, but try and be more positive in what you will/won't do, etc
As for photos, depending on what your looking for, maybe a few with clothes on might be good to show a bit more personality?! Then again this is a guys perspective lol |
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" I just said hi how are you not here's my cock want to fuck it I never send cock pics or do you want to fuck msgs I say hi how are you And most of the time ladies carnt even be bothered to answer back"
And yet you have practically nothing on your profile... They won't be bothered if you can't be bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here
To be fair, some women and couples I have messaged, tend to send a message back even if it is just a "no, thank you", which goes a long way when you do spend time messaging someone."
But they never asked you to message them in the first place you are sending unsolicited mail, do you reply to all the unsolicited mail you receive through the post?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The choosier the women are on here are the ones who wouldn't stand a chance in the real world and the rude ones he refers to. I agree 100%"
I can assure you I have no trouble at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So why fab a pic and then not answer a msg or even just say no thanks when your not interested politeness costs nothing
Yawn... Read FAQs
kind of rude no?"
But your sarcasm is OK right?
My reaction to anyone suggesting women or anyone else are rude for not replying to everyone. Hearing it over and over becomes tiresome |
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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here "
an answer like that is off no help too yourself or others
just because females don't jump too you dose not make them rude .it might be a swingers site but defo not an instant shag show some respect might get you some where  |
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here an answer like that is off no help too yourself or others
just because females don't jump too you dose not make them rude .it might be a swingers site but defo not an instant shag show some respect might get you some where "
Guys with attitudes like that and empty profiles make it easier for courteous guys who have something more substantial to offer... |
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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago
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"To be fair mate I think most ladies are rude on here an answer like that is off no help too yourself or others
just because females don't jump too you dose not make them rude .it might be a swingers site but defo not an instant shag show some respect might get you some where
Guys with attitudes like that and empty profiles make it easier for courteous guys who have something more substantial to offer..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP - I like your profile, looks good to me.
With reference to the 'all women are rude' comment - Although I do try and reply to most (where possible) if I had 5 messages and 1 or 2 just said 'Hi, how are you?' and their profiles were almost blank, those would be the ones I wouldn't fret about not replying to.
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"To the OP - I like your profile, looks good to me.
With reference to the 'all women are rude' comment - Although I do try and reply to most (where possible) if I had 5 messages and 1 or 2 just said 'Hi, how are you?' and their profiles were almost blank, those would be the ones I wouldn't fret about not replying to.
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This is why it really helps to have something meaningful and engaging in your profile and messages.. |
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