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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Lack of profile.....simple, I read them and will not respond to a 1liner or lack lustre one!

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By *umpleteazerWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire


"Lack of profile.....simple, I read them and will not respond to a 1liner or lack lustre one!"

+1

I always read the profile and look at the pics before opening a message. There is nothing there to appeal. This is your shop window - use it to give potential meets an idea of what you can offer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Profiles do get read, well I know i read them, yours is the usual young guy looking for a shag you need to put more effort in, and do you really need the cock pics?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm another one that reads profile, top to bottom and back again.

In the art is seduction this is a minus score. Photos are a massive no no if my eyes, no effort, just like the profile. Sorry dude just being honest.....

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman  over a year ago

Norwich

There is barely any info on your profile and your pictures are not great - we all know what a cock looks like, and the one where you have just 'finished' on the bed sheets - yuck! There really is no need......

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By *enard ArgenteMan  over a year ago

London and France


"There is barely any info on your profile and your pictures are not great - we all know what a cock looks like, and the one where you have just 'finished' on the bed sheets - yuck! There really is no need...... "

Yes; I can't see how any of the pics would appeal erotically to any woman;

Spunk on bedsheets..yuk !

Standing on a toilet seat with your jeans round your ankles is particularly bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to. "

That would suggest its the pics that are off putting and I have to say that some are really not good. Sorry to be brutally honest but many women don't really find spunking cock shots attractive!

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By *ordonBennettMan  over a year ago

dover

If you really believe there's no point in a profile, then you just carry on as you are....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you haven't changed your profile then I'm amazed you ever got anywhere....it says nothing and shows a total lack of effort, and lack of respect for ladies on the site....of course they read profiles!

(And cock pics....really? Someone with your "experience" should know that cock overload is a definite no no)

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS  over a year ago

Coventry

Maybe the fact that yours says "no point in a profile, they don't get read", haha. They do! Why ask for help on your profile if you think nobody looks at it? :P I know myself and plenty of others judge people by their profiles rather than the message.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try selling your car with the text saying no point writing about it and only several pics of the gearstick, see how much interest you get!

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By *ordonBennettMan  over a year ago

dover

Looks like writing a profile is just too much effort.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find it hard to believe you ever got meets with that profile? Really??

Maybe ask your previous conquests for a re-match. Or revert back to your old pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes I really wish there was a button to press to help you unsee things!!

Op, sorry but the pics are really off putting, the text bare and actually yes, most people do read the text, so that really isn't going to help you.

If you've been here before then why not try to remember what helped you get meets then and implement that again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good god. Who are you trying to attract? Nothing enticing about your pics or profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to. "

Your profile says there's no point in a profile, it doesn't get read...its the first thing I do. I don't bother looking at the pics if I'm not interested in the profile.

Women (generally speaking) are less visually orientated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to. "

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here..."

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

"

So do I. I just dont put it online...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

So do I. I just dont put it online... "

And you look good in it too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

So do I. I just dont put it online...

And you look good in it too "

Look better out of it haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

So do I. I just dont put it online...

And you look good in it too

Look better out of it haha "

I'm sure you do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here..."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe you ever got meets with that profile? Really??

Maybe ask your previous conquests for a re-match. Or revert back to your old pictures. "

I have had this problem before aswell but i didnt habe spunking cock pics and i always take time to write a civil profile ? Could it be actually due to the vast numbers of men over women and women have more choice?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

"

I put that down as a minus...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe you ever got meets with that profile? Really??

Maybe ask your previous conquests for a re-match. Or revert back to your old pictures.

I have had this problem before aswell but i didnt habe spunking cock pics and i always take time to write a civil profile ? Could it be actually due to the vast numbers of men over women and women have more choice?"

It is, which is why he needs to put some effort in..given the choice of a poorly written profile with 6 wanking shots or an eloquent profile with an array of well presented pics 99.999% of women would respond to the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe you ever got meets with that profile? Really??

Maybe ask your previous conquests for a re-match. Or revert back to your old pictures.

I have had this problem before aswell but i didnt habe spunking cock pics and i always take time to write a civil profile ? Could it be actually due to the vast numbers of men over women and women have more choice?

It is, which is why he needs to put some effort in..given the choice of a poorly written profile with 6 wanking shots or an eloquent profile with an array of well presented pics 99.999% of women would respond to the latter."

Or they still wouldnt respond

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe you ever got meets with that profile? Really??

Maybe ask your previous conquests for a re-match. Or revert back to your old pictures.

I have had this problem before aswell but i didnt habe spunking cock pics and i always take time to write a civil profile ? Could it be actually due to the vast numbers of men over women and women have more choice?

It is, which is why he needs to put some effort in..given the choice of a poorly written profile with 6 wanking shots or an eloquent profile with an array of well presented pics 99.999% of women would respond to the latter.

Or they still wouldnt respond"

They might not - if he hasnt got anything decent to offer.

Doesn't matter how much choice we have - the fact is there's not enough decent ones to meet. I would meet every night if I could - but it's impossible to go through all the drivel with a fine tooth comb.

When you see yet another message from someone with a profile like the OP I just despair at society! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

From my past experience on here its pretty much one sided , apart from a select few of my interactions on fab the couples or single women i speak to always complain about guys not being able to hold a convo etc and always mesaage me with short , dry answers even after meeting . I always send a face pic if its myself making first contact and explain in an individual message (not copied and pasted) that if i aint the type of guy they like the look of or sound of then its no hard feelings. So they choose to reply but very short answers and even after sending a face pic back they just go silent lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe you ever got meets with that profile? Really??

Maybe ask your previous conquests for a re-match. Or revert back to your old pictures.

I have had this problem before aswell but i didnt habe spunking cock pics and i always take time to write a civil profile ? Could it be actually due to the vast numbers of men over women and women have more choice?

It is, which is why he needs to put some effort in..given the choice of a poorly written profile with 6 wanking shots or an eloquent profile with an array of well presented pics 99.999% of women would respond to the latter.

Or they still wouldnt respond

They might not - if he hasnt got anything decent to offer.

Doesn't matter how much choice we have - the fact is there's not enough decent ones to meet. I would meet every night if I could - but it's impossible to go through all the drivel with a fine tooth comb.

When you see yet another message from someone with a profile like the OP I just despair at society! Lol "

I understand that fully

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From my past experience on here its pretty much one sided , apart from a select few of my interactions on fab the couples or single women i speak to always complain about guys not being able to hold a convo etc and always mesaage me with short , dry answers even after meeting . I always send a face pic if its myself making first contact and explain in an individual message (not copied and pasted) that if i aint the type of guy they like the look of or sound of then its no hard feelings. So they choose to reply but very short answers and even after sending a face pic back they just go silent lol"

It is difficult for a single guy on here. Sometimes its not enough just to be nice and respectful. I struggled to even get a reply until I started on the forums. Then I got known a bit and made friends...then groups of friends and meets dropped out of that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can say that again mate lol very confusing at times

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From my past experience on here its pretty much one sided , apart from a select few of my interactions on fab the couples or single women i speak to always complain about guys not being able to hold a convo etc and always mesaage me with short , dry answers even after meeting . I always send a face pic if its myself making first contact and explain in an individual message (not copied and pasted) that if i aint the type of guy they like the look of or sound of then its no hard feelings. So they choose to reply but very short answers and even after sending a face pic back they just go silent lol

It is difficult for a single guy on here. Sometimes its not enough just to be nice and respectful. I struggled to even get a reply until I started on the forums. Then I got known a bit and made friends...then groups of friends and meets dropped out of that. "

That's because you are interacting with people without sending a FAF message lol. People underestimate the social aspect to fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From my past experience on here its pretty much one sided , apart from a select few of my interactions on fab the couples or single women i speak to always complain about guys not being able to hold a convo etc and always mesaage me with short , dry answers even after meeting . I always send a face pic if its myself making first contact and explain in an individual message (not copied and pasted) that if i aint the type of guy they like the look of or sound of then its no hard feelings. So they choose to reply but very short answers and even after sending a face pic back they just go silent lol

It is difficult for a single guy on here. Sometimes its not enough just to be nice and respectful. I struggled to even get a reply until I started on the forums. Then I got known a bit and made friends...then groups of friends and meets dropped out of that.

That's because you are interacting with people without sending a FAF message lol. People underestimate the social aspect to fab"

What the hell is a FAF message ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From my past experience on here its pretty much one sided , apart from a select few of my interactions on fab the couples or single women i speak to always complain about guys not being able to hold a convo etc and always mesaage me with short , dry answers even after meeting . I always send a face pic if its myself making first contact and explain in an individual message (not copied and pasted) that if i aint the type of guy they like the look of or sound of then its no hard feelings. So they choose to reply but very short answers and even after sending a face pic back they just go silent lol

It is difficult for a single guy on here. Sometimes its not enough just to be nice and respectful. I struggled to even get a reply until I started on the forums. Then I got known a bit and made friends...then groups of friends and meets dropped out of that.

That's because you are interacting with people without sending a FAF message lol. People underestimate the social aspect to fab

What the hell is a FAF message ? Lol"

Fancy a fuck. That's not an offer so don't panic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lol ah i see , thank you for clearing that up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dont worry there aint no panic in these eyes lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From my past experience on here its pretty much one sided , apart from a select few of my interactions on fab the couples or single women i speak to always complain about guys not being able to hold a convo etc and always mesaage me with short , dry answers even after meeting . I always send a face pic if its myself making first contact and explain in an individual message (not copied and pasted) that if i aint the type of guy they like the look of or sound of then its no hard feelings. So they choose to reply but very short answers and even after sending a face pic back they just go silent lol"

Well if they're replying bluntly or gone silent they're possibly not interested in taking it further? Why would they carry on chatting with someone they're not attracted to? I'm not saying this was the case in these instances (cause I don't know what you've sent or look like) - I'm merely playing Devil's Advocate.

For some reason and you don't tend get it in the real world - guys on here seem to forget the law of attraction.

No likey, no messagy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"From my past experience on here its pretty much one sided , apart from a select few of my interactions on fab the couples or single women i speak to always complain about guys not being able to hold a convo etc and always mesaage me with short , dry answers even after meeting . I always send a face pic if its myself making first contact and explain in an individual message (not copied and pasted) that if i aint the type of guy they like the look of or sound of then its no hard feelings. So they choose to reply but very short answers and even after sending a face pic back they just go silent lol

Well if they're replying bluntly or gone silent they're possibly not interested in taking it further? Why would they carry on chatting with someone they're not attracted to? I'm not saying this was the case in these instances (cause I don't know what you've sent or look like) - I'm merely playing Devil's Advocate.

For some reason and you don't tend get it in the real world - guys on here seem to forget the law of attraction.

No likey, no messagy."

I get what you mean and by me posting here about it doesnt mean i am offended by their choice , im just merely curious as to why this happens , everybody has different attractions and trust me that is respected

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to. "

You've put more effort into this thread and your opening post than you have your profile.

I've got a huge massive mega idea on what you've missed but just as people don't read profiles, they don't take any notice of advice either so......round and round we go....getting nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Wow such an array of responses. Thanks to all of u i take them all into consideration. I have had an extensive and personally aluring profile before with much to the same problem, i cant help with the cock dimesions and how appealing it comes to oyhers ( or not) its what im dealt with and im ok with that. Ill make some changes and see if situations change. If any one would like a further chat, your welcome to send a message. X thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

far far too many cock pics and shows no imagination ,not inspired to even read ur write fab a pic or even revisit ur profile again sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"far far too many cock pics and shows no imagination ,not inspired to even read ur write fab a pic or even revisit ur profile again sorry x"

PMSL - say it like it is! x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"far far too many cock pics and shows no imagination ,not inspired to even read ur write fab a pic or even revisit ur profile again sorry x

PMSL - say it like it is! x "

just did didnt i ? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"far far too many cock pics and shows no imagination ,not inspired to even read ur write fab a pic or even revisit ur profile again sorry x

PMSL - say it like it is! x just did didnt i ? lol x "

No - I actually think you could have been much blunter! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try "

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

"

Do you like guys in uniform?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan  over a year ago

Widnes


"Lack of profile.....simple, I read them and will not respond to a 1liner or lack lustre one!

+1

I always read the profile and look at the pics before opening a message. There is nothing there to appeal. This is your shop window - use it to give potential meets an idea of what you can offer"

Umm. I do like your shop window. !!

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman  over a year ago

Burbage

Crap profile and even worse pics, as others have said put effort into your profile, women do read them

As for cock pics, is that only part of your body to take pictures of?

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Try selling your car with the text saying no point writing about it and only several pics of the gearstick, see how much interest you get!"

at "several pics of the gearstick"

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"wen my profile got closed. "

How did this happen?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan  over a year ago

Widnes


"wen my profile got closed.

How did this happen?"

I was wondering that to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?"

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Alas, the spunking cock pics are still up there.

No advice taken = no meets = another forum post created in two weeks asking for more profile advice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down "

Yes I find squaddies a bit of a turn off to be honest. As soon as I see gun or combat pics in my inbox - I can't delete quick enough!

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley

WOW

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley

Ooops, wrong thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ooops, wrong thread "

Hahaha!

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By *uddleWithCraigMan  over a year ago

Wolverhampton or Travels

I would like comments regarding my profile as it be good to know where I'm going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

Do you like guys in uniform? "

Only my guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

Do you like guys in uniform?

Only my guy "

Whats he in? just out of interest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Yes I find squaddies a bit of a turn off to be honest. As soon as I see gun or combat pics in my inbox - I can't delete quick enough! "

Well I'm sorry to hear that not all of us use it as a bedding tool some of us are just proud to serve our country and it's citizens we are just people who just happen to have bad reputations unfortunately! !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down "

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?"

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though."

Good point well presented

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented "

Thanks, just my take though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

With complete nut cases out there hacking down squaddies in cold blood, there's no way I'd advertise what I did on here for all to see, you never know who you're talking to. Anyway, just popped in to see if anything has changed and surprise surprise, nothing has!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"With complete nut cases out there hacking down squaddies in cold blood, there's no way I'd advertise what I did on here for all to see, you never know who you're talking to. Anyway, just popped in to see if anything has changed and surprise surprise, nothing has!"

I totally understand where you're coming from but what do we accomplish by hiding away? Surely soldiers should be saying we ain't scared we should be showing our protectorates that we are willing to be out in the open to take on the terrorist scum also known as daesh surely we shouldn't be sending the vibe that Britain has turned cowardice? Please don't take this as an aggressive response please I'm genuinely interested in people's opinions thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ooops, wrong thread "

Pmlol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented

Thanks, just my take though "

I have 2 points to raise with the wearing of uniform in pics on here. Firstly its when people think it defines who they are, rather than being yourself. It actually dehumanises you making you less attractive. If all you have is a set of combats then thats pretty sad.

Secondly is the security issue. Despite many warnings plenty of guys plaster everything they do over social media making you an easy target...this is just an extension of that, especially for the guys unimaginative enough to use their name and last4 as their username...how hard is it to work out that 'jones1234' from Hereford is a squaddie and using mobile location can see when you are on exercise etc?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"With complete nut cases out there hacking down squaddies in cold blood, there's no way I'd advertise what I did on here for all to see, you never know who you're talking to. Anyway, just popped in to see if anything has changed and surprise surprise, nothing has!

I totally understand where you're coming from but what do we accomplish by hiding away? Surely soldiers should be saying we ain't scared we should be showing our protectorates that we are willing to be out in the open to take on the terrorist scum also known as daesh surely we shouldn't be sending the vibe that Britain has turned cowardice? Please don't take this as an aggressive response please I'm genuinely interested in people's opinions thanks"

I work in a uniformed service, I'm immensely proud to but wouldn't ever post photos of me in uniform as I feel its unprofessional and could get me into trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"With complete nut cases out there hacking down squaddies in cold blood, there's no way I'd advertise what I did on here for all to see, you never know who you're talking to. Anyway, just popped in to see if anything has changed and surprise surprise, nothing has!

I totally understand where you're coming from but what do we accomplish by hiding away? Surely soldiers should be saying we ain't scared we should be showing our protectorates that we are willing to be out in the open to take on the terrorist scum also known as daesh surely we shouldn't be sending the vibe that Britain has turned cowardice? Please don't take this as an aggressive response please I'm genuinely interested in people's opinions thanks

I work in a uniformed service, I'm immensely proud to but wouldn't ever post photos of me in uniform as I feel its unprofessional and could get me into trouble. "

Yup. If people think their security sections arent trawling through sites like this to find their own staff then they are a bit deluded.

So for the squaddies on here...Yes guys, the military police may well know you are on here if you go advertising it...

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"With complete nut cases out there hacking down squaddies in cold blood, there's no way I'd advertise what I did on here for all to see, you never know who you're talking to. Anyway, just popped in to see if anything has changed and surprise surprise, nothing has!

I totally understand where you're coming from but what do we accomplish by hiding away? Surely soldiers should be saying we ain't scared we should be showing our protectorates that we are willing to be out in the open to take on the terrorist scum also known as daesh surely we shouldn't be sending the vibe that Britain has turned cowardice? Please don't take this as an aggressive response please I'm genuinely interested in people's opinions thanks

I work in a uniformed service, I'm immensely proud to but wouldn't ever post photos of me in uniform as I feel its unprofessional and could get me into trouble. "

Yes some companies, the forces especially, have firm rules about bringing them or their image into disrepute, unfortunately swinging can be one of the things that does that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"With complete nut cases out there hacking down squaddies in cold blood, there's no way I'd advertise what I did on here for all to see, you never know who you're talking to. Anyway, just popped in to see if anything has changed and surprise surprise, nothing has!

I totally understand where you're coming from but what do we accomplish by hiding away? Surely soldiers should be saying we ain't scared we should be showing our protectorates that we are willing to be out in the open to take on the terrorist scum also known as daesh surely we shouldn't be sending the vibe that Britain has turned cowardice? Please don't take this as an aggressive response please I'm genuinely interested in people's opinions thanks

I work in a uniformed service, I'm immensely proud to but wouldn't ever post photos of me in uniform as I feel its unprofessional and could get me into trouble.

Yup. If people think their security sections arent trawling through sites like this to find their own staff then they are a bit deluded.

So for the squaddies on here...Yes guys, the military police may well know you are on here if you go advertising it..."

I do know people this has happened too..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented

Thanks, just my take though

I have 2 points to raise with the wearing of uniform in pics on here. Firstly its when people think it defines who they are, rather than being yourself. It actually dehumanises you making you less attractive. If all you have is a set of combats then thats pretty sad.

Secondly is the security issue. Despite many warnings plenty of guys plaster everything they do over social media making you an easy target...this is just an extension of that, especially for the guys unimaginative enough to use their name and last4 as their username...how hard is it to work out that 'jones1234' from Hereford is a squaddie and using mobile location can see when you are on exercise etc?"

Right my take on your opinion.

#1. Your coming off a bit hostile

#2. If having one pic of your self in uniform is sad then I'm the king of sad

#3. Unimaginative ok so having a pic of your self with your own cock in your hand is so original.

#4. If you are military and your bagging on your own people that's just jack

#5. People have a right to know who they are talking to completely especially if someone is 100% dedicated to their work and has been for quite a few years so relationships always come second.

#6. Dehumanised? So your saying I'm less human for wearing a uniform and so is anyone else?

#7. Only unprofessional soldiers would take their phones into a battle simulated exercise. Do you think i want to see who is near when I'm filthy and chin strapped.

#8. Your a target no matter who you are or what you wear.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple  over a year ago

near cardiff


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to. "

I would get rid of the flaccid cock shots..there is nothing remotely appealing,or attractive about them..

Take some tide pictures of you.most people go for faces.even swinging people..

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed


"With complete nut cases out there hacking down squaddies in cold blood, there's no way I'd advertise what I did on here for all to see, you never know who you're talking to. Anyway, just popped in to see if anything has changed and surprise surprise, nothing has!

I totally understand where you're coming from but what do we accomplish by hiding away? Surely soldiers should be saying we ain't scared we should be showing our protectorates that we are willing to be out in the open to take on the terrorist scum also known as daesh surely we shouldn't be sending the vibe that Britain has turned cowardice? Please don't take this as an aggressive response please I'm genuinely interested in people's opinions thanks

I work in a uniformed service, I'm immensely proud to but wouldn't ever post photos of me in uniform as I feel its unprofessional and could get me into trouble.

Yup. If people think their security sections arent trawling through sites like this to find their own staff then they are a bit deluded.

So for the squaddies on here...Yes guys, the military police may well know you are on here if you go advertising it...

I do know people this has happened too.."

I'd imagine Intel already know your on here.

Regarding op. No profile so no interest.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented

Thanks, just my take though

I have 2 points to raise with the wearing of uniform in pics on here. Firstly its when people think it defines who they are, rather than being yourself. It actually dehumanises you making you less attractive. If all you have is a set of combats then thats pretty sad.

Secondly is the security issue. Despite many warnings plenty of guys plaster everything they do over social media making you an easy target...this is just an extension of that, especially for the guys unimaginative enough to use their name and last4 as their username...how hard is it to work out that 'jones1234' from Hereford is a squaddie and using mobile location can see when you are on exercise etc?

Right my take on your opinion.

#1. Your coming off a bit hostile

#2. If having one pic of your self in uniform is sad then I'm the king of sad

#3. Unimaginative ok so having a pic of your self with your own cock in your hand is so original.

#4. If you are military and your bagging on your own people that's just jack

#5. People have a right to know who they are talking to completely especially if someone is 100% dedicated to their work and has been for quite a few years so relationships always come second.

#6. Dehumanised? So your saying I'm less human for wearing a uniform and so is anyone else?

#7. Only unprofessional soldiers would take their phones into a battle simulated exercise. Do you think i want to see who is near when I'm filthy and chin strapped.

#8. Your a target no matter who you are or what you wear. "

I actually think you're being more hostile than him.

I good friend of mine was discharged from service (and not honourably) for being on this site with pictures of him wearing his uniform for bringing his line of service into disrepute by swinging so he's actually trying to give you and the OP some very valuable advice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented

Thanks, just my take though

I have 2 points to raise with the wearing of uniform in pics on here. Firstly its when people think it defines who they are, rather than being yourself. It actually dehumanises you making you less attractive. If all you have is a set of combats then thats pretty sad.

Secondly is the security issue. Despite many warnings plenty of guys plaster everything they do over social media making you an easy target...this is just an extension of that, especially for the guys unimaginative enough to use their name and last4 as their username...how hard is it to work out that 'jones1234' from Hereford is a squaddie and using mobile location can see when you are on exercise etc?

Right my take on your opinion.

#1. Your coming off a bit hostile

#2. If having one pic of your self in uniform is sad then I'm the king of sad

#3. Unimaginative ok so having a pic of your self with your own cock in your hand is so original.

#4. If you are military and your bagging on your own people that's just jack

#5. People have a right to know who they are talking to completely especially if someone is 100% dedicated to their work and has been for quite a few years so relationships always come second.

#6. Dehumanised? So your saying I'm less human for wearing a uniform and so is anyone else?

#7. Only unprofessional soldiers would take their phones into a battle simulated exercise. Do you think i want to see who is near when I'm filthy and chin strapped.

#8. Your a target no matter who you are or what you wear.

I actually think you're being more hostile than him.

I good friend of mine was discharged from service (and not honourably) for being on this site with pictures of him wearing his uniform for bringing his line of service into disrepute by swinging so he's actually trying to give you and the OP some very valuable advice "

Actually read what he wrote calling people sad and unimaginative. And classing us as dehumanised what gives him the right?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its his opinion and he's entitled to it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My uniform picture has now been deleted!

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My uniform picture has now been deleted! "

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?!

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented

Thanks, just my take though

I have 2 points to raise with the wearing of uniform in pics on here. Firstly its when people think it defines who they are, rather than being yourself. It actually dehumanises you making you less attractive. If all you have is a set of combats then thats pretty sad.

Secondly is the security issue. Despite many warnings plenty of guys plaster everything they do over social media making you an easy target...this is just an extension of that, especially for the guys unimaginative enough to use their name and last4 as their username...how hard is it to work out that 'jones1234' from Hereford is a squaddie and using mobile location can see when you are on exercise etc?

Right my take on your opinion.

#1. Your coming off a bit hostile

#2. If having one pic of your self in uniform is sad then I'm the king of sad

#3. Unimaginative ok so having a pic of your self with your own cock in your hand is so original.

#4. If you are military and your bagging on your own people that's just jack

#5. People have a right to know who they are talking to completely especially if someone is 100% dedicated to their work and has been for quite a few years so relationships always come second.

#6. Dehumanised? So your saying I'm less human for wearing a uniform and so is anyone else?

#7. Only unprofessional soldiers would take their phones into a battle simulated exercise. Do you think i want to see who is near when I'm filthy and chin strapped.

#8. Your a target no matter who you are or what you wear.

I actually think you're being more hostile than him.

I good friend of mine was discharged from service (and not honourably) for being on this site with pictures of him wearing his uniform for bringing his line of service into disrepute by swinging so he's actually trying to give you and the OP some very valuable advice

Actually read what he wrote calling people sad and unimaginative. And classing us as dehumanised what gives him the right? "

I read what he wrote and it was wrote using the words "it's when" so that is an IF scenario not outright calling someone something you only chose to take offence to the statement

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By *acavityMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

"

How old is that picture? It looks like DPM (wood land cam), which was phased out five or six years ago, replaced by MTP (multi terrain)

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?! "

It's changed now I hope you're not in charge of tactics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?! "

it should be gone now I think it's showing as a different pic on mine.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?! it should be gone now I think it's showing as a different pic on mine. "

That's better.

Rather than sit around on this thread and read all the replies, do a thread search for profile advice and spend an hour reading what everyone has said to all the other single guys who ask day in day out for the same thing. Then think strategically - what end result do you want? Then think tactically - how will I get there? Then plan and act and execute......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?!

It's changed now I hope you're not in charge of tactics "

Yes blundering idiot tactics with a northerly direction straight to the pub

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?! it should be gone now I think it's showing as a different pic on mine.

That's better.

Rather than sit around on this thread and read all the replies, do a thread search for profile advice and spend an hour reading what everyone has said to all the other single guys who ask day in day out for the same thing. Then think strategically - what end result do you want? Then think tactically - how will I get there? Then plan and act and execute...... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

How old is that picture? It looks like DPM (wood land cam), which was phased out five or six years ago,

replaced by MTP (multi

terrain)"

10 years ago bud

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?!

It's changed now I hope you're not in charge of tactics

Yes blundering idiot tactics with a northerly direction straight to the pub "

This shows you have a sense of humour and an adult response to posts without getting angry and likes pubs. All good. Rely less on your job and cock and more on your character and personality.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

How old is that picture? It looks like DPM (wood land cam), which was phased out five or six years ago,

replaced by MTP (multi

terrain)

10 years ago bud"

I haven't put up a recent one because I have changed unit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?!

It's changed now I hope you're not in charge of tactics

Yes blundering idiot tactics with a northerly direction straight to the pub

This shows you have a sense of humour and an adult response to posts without getting angry and likes pubs. All good. Rely less on your job and cock and more on your character and personality. "

Haha cheers will do thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?!

It's changed now I hope you're not in charge of tactics

Yes blundering idiot tactics with a northerly direction straight to the pub

This shows you have a sense of humour and an adult response to posts without getting angry and likes pubs. All good. Rely less on your job and cock and more on your character and personality.

Haha cheers will do thanks "

Oh btw I'm not the op on this post I was just defending him because he had a pic with uniform

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented

Thanks, just my take though

I have 2 points to raise with the wearing of uniform in pics on here. Firstly its when people think it defines who they are, rather than being yourself. It actually dehumanises you making you less attractive. If all you have is a set of combats then thats pretty sad.

Secondly is the security issue. Despite many warnings plenty of guys plaster everything they do over social media making you an easy target...this is just an extension of that, especially for the guys unimaginative enough to use their name and last4 as their username...how hard is it to work out that 'jones1234' from Hereford is a squaddie and using mobile location can see when you are on exercise etc?

Right my take on your opinion.

#1. Your coming off a bit hostile

#2. If having one pic of your self in uniform is sad then I'm the king of sad

#3. Unimaginative ok so having a pic of your self with your own cock in your hand is so original.

#4. If you are military and your bagging on your own people that's just jack

#5. People have a right to know who they are talking to completely especially if someone is 100% dedicated to their work and has been for quite a few years so relationships always come second.

#6. Dehumanised? So your saying I'm less human for wearing a uniform and so is anyone else?

#7. Only unprofessional soldiers would take their phones into a battle simulated exercise. Do you think i want to see who is near when I'm filthy and chin strapped.

#8. Your a target no matter who you are or what you wear. "

In reply to your delightful comments. In order:

1. It was far less hostile than your reply.

2. It was referring to having pics in uniform. On here.

3. Its not my hand in my pics. But thanks for looking.

4. I was trying to give advice to stop him getting in the shit. Its called looking after your own.

5. Thats what private pics and messages are for. I am very selective about who sees a lot of my pics. Most of them are friends only.

6. What do you think the uniform is for? It makes you all the same. As in the other dictionary definition. My point was about if you are in rig then it makes you the same as everyone else wearing the same. Then people moan about being tarred with the same brush. However in civvy kit no one knows and you can shine as an individual.

7. I know lots of unprofessional soldiers who take phones on exercise. As an example I was on a tinder date last year and she had some army guy sending her dick pics while he was on stag...

8. Valid point, but no point putting on a giant dayglo 'look at me sign' is there?

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My uniform picture has now been deleted!

Who the hell is that in your avatar photo then?!

It's changed now I hope you're not in charge of tactics

Yes blundering idiot tactics with a northerly direction straight to the pub

This shows you have a sense of humour and an adult response to posts without getting angry and likes pubs. All good. Rely less on your job and cock and more on your character and personality.

Haha cheers will do thanks

Oh btw I'm not the op on this post I was just defending him because he had a pic with uniform "

Oh fuck. I just KNOW I'd get shot first

I mean the op then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here before and lost all veris and perks wen my profile got closed. Since ive been back i been struggling to meet any one yet i havnt changed and nor has my profile except the pics that are up. Has any one got any ideas on what i could have missed? Im usually a site supporter to.

here is a list of what you have missed, in no particular order...

1. you have assumed that no one reads profiles on here, which is obviously untrue

2. you can't accommodate

3. you are a squaddie

4. you are a smoker

5 we only have your word that you previously had veri's

6. if you put more effort in you will get more results...try rewriting your profile highlighting your sparkling wit and how you can breathe through your ears....after reading your current profile, I'd say anything was worth a try

Sorry but whats being a squaddie got to do with anything? ?

Naff all really... But it bugs the hell out of me that youngish lads on here think women are queuing up to bed a squaddie... Or any other man in uniform ... I also think he'd get more response if he took that pic down

Why should he take it down? it bugs the hell out of me that some people tar us all with the same brush plus is this not a swinging site where people meet to be bedded? Or am I totally mistaken? ?

The issue I find is that some military personnel do use the uniform as a way to get sex and rely on that rather than on their personality and other things they have to offer and that because they wear a uniform women will come flocking to them...please note I said some not all.

Pride in what your uniform represents is the best thing, pride in your job and serving your country, I do disagree with that uniform being used to try to attract women just for sex though.

Good point well presented

Thanks, just my take though

I have 2 points to raise with the wearing of uniform in pics on here. Firstly its when people think it defines who they are, rather than being yourself. It actually dehumanises you making you less attractive. If all you have is a set of combats then thats pretty sad.

Secondly is the security issue. Despite many warnings plenty of guys plaster everything they do over social media making you an easy target...this is just an extension of that, especially for the guys unimaginative enough to use their name and last4 as their username...how hard is it to work out that 'jones1234' from Hereford is a squaddie and using mobile location can see when you are on exercise etc?

Right my take on your opinion.

#1. Your coming off a bit hostile

#2. If having one pic of your self in uniform is sad then I'm the king of sad

#3. Unimaginative ok so having a pic of your self with your own cock in your hand is so original.

#4. If you are military and your bagging on your own people that's just jack

#5. People have a right to know who they are talking to completely especially if someone is 100% dedicated to their work and has been for quite a few years so relationships always come second.

#6. Dehumanised? So your saying I'm less human for wearing a uniform and so is anyone else?

#7. Only unprofessional soldiers would take their phones into a battle simulated exercise. Do you think i want to see who is near when I'm filthy and chin strapped.

#8. Your a target no matter who you are or what you wear.

In reply to your delightful comments. In order:

1. It was far less hostile than your reply.

2. It was referring to having pics in uniform. On here.

3. Its not my hand in my pics. But thanks for looking.

4. I was trying to give advice to stop him getting in the shit. Its called looking after your own.

5. Thats what private pics and messages are for. I am very selective about who sees a lot of my pics. Most of them are friends only.

6. What do you think the uniform is for? It makes you all the same. As in the other dictionary definition. My point was about if you are in rig then it makes you the same as everyone else wearing the same. Then people moan about being tarred with the same brush. However in civvy kit no one knows and you can shine as an individual.

7. I know lots of unprofessional soldiers who take phones on exercise. As an example I was on a tinder date last year and she had some army guy sending her dick pics while he was on stag...

8. Valid point, but no point putting on a giant dayglo 'look at me sign' is there? "

True you have my sincere apologies I'm just sick of all the squaddie bashing on this type of sites. tinder on stag can you even get Internet signal in the sticks?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

True you have my sincere apologies I'm just sick of all the squaddie bashing on this type of sites. tinder on stag can you even get Internet signal in the sticks? "

No bashing going on fella. Just trying to give constructive criticism..just hope the op pays attention to everyone..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

True you have my sincere apologies I'm just sick of all the squaddie bashing on this type of sites. tinder on stag can you even get Internet signal in the sticks?

No bashing going on fella. Just trying to give constructive criticism..just hope the op pays attention to everyone.."

Yes I've just looked at his profile my eyes are burning

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

Do you like guys in uniform?

Only my guy

Whats he in? just out of interest"

He's a Squaddie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

True you have my sincere apologies I'm just sick of all the squaddie bashing on this type of sites. tinder on stag can you even get Internet signal in the sticks?

No bashing going on fella. Just trying to give constructive criticism..just hope the op pays attention to everyone.."

We can live in hope, but I'm not holding my breath

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i adore men in combats and military uniform so squaddies get a from me x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

Do you like guys in uniform?

Only my guy

Whats he in? just out of interest

He's a Squaddie "

Oh ha ha even me mr dense got that bit I mean which reg? But it doesn't matter if you're not comfortable saying.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

Do you like guys in uniform?

Only my guy

Whats he in? just out of interest

He's a Squaddie

Oh ha ha even me mr dense got that bit I mean which reg? But it doesn't matter if you're not comfortable saying. "

Haha, sorry I wouldn't divulge that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It depends who you are trying to get a meet with. Take all your filters off and see how much attention you get...

Seriously though. Ditch all the cock shots, and the uniform shot and start again. Read some male profiles (no thats not gay, but see where other guys are going right). Try having a wank before you write yours so its your brain and not your cock writing it.

Download a photoshop app on your phone and make your pics a bit more pleasing before you upload them. Takes some getting used to but it shows you make an effort.

You wouldnt go up to a lady in a bar and say 'heres some pics of me wanking'. Dont do it on here...

But he has a uniform, surely ladies will be screaming to go with a squaddie

Do you like guys in uniform?

Only my guy

Whats he in? just out of interest

He's a Squaddie

Oh ha ha even me mr dense got that bit I mean which reg? But it doesn't matter if you're not comfortable saying.

Haha, sorry I wouldn't divulge that "

No worries totally understand

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

The OP legged it?

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By *ordonBennettMan  over a year ago

dover


"The OP legged it?"

Maybe he got a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The OP legged it?"

No he is still on...he has got rid of the wanking pics...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You say your last profile 'got closed'. Did admin do that? Was there a reason? Or did you just mean you left?

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