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Why can't I get a meet lol
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"How hard have you tried? Have you messaged lots of people?
You have a great body but your profile lacks a certain something, could that be it.
Best of luck.  "
" lacks a certain something"
Yes; sure does : lack a certain one hell of a lot :applies to the second poster too:
1. One line in write up. Hardly gets their interest; last time I looked, women had brains, they like those brains stimulated .
2. Knob shots: all you are doing is showing them a knob . We all ( blokes) have a knob ; women know what a knob looks like, by and large they aren't worried about that aspect ( at least to start.
3. They won't flock to you; you need to sell yourself to them; |
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You profile says nothing. We like to get a feel for compatibility..what do you like? Women get dozens of mails every day. You have to strike a chord....even me. I get 7 or 8 every day and we can't spend all day every day having sex.
Lol having said that, if you mailed me with more than "hi"
Or "how are you" but put more of you into it I'd definitely consider it.
Hope that helps |
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Renamed.
I do agree with you except we do like to see a cock though it's not ...We all have a preference. Me, I like a nice hard healthy looking one with the foreskin back so I can see the head. Not necessarily big..ooh I've gone all weak.  |
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"To be honest I was not sure wot to expect x"
Ok, lots of people are in the same boat when they sign up.
I suggest you think about what you want from the site and then set about getting it. So say what you're after and say what you have to offer. Join in some of the forum discussions in a good way, try and get to a social if there's one in your area and I'm afraid you will probably have to try and accept that you will have to be patient.
Good luck |
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You get out of the site the effort you put in .
Have you made most of your profile??
Are you using chat ,forums, sending messages ect?
Do you go to social events in your area ??
Take a step back and ask yourself ..would I mail/reply to this person ???
Wish you well
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. The pictures on your profile are a bit blurred and could be improved .
As you profile is only three words , can you realistically expect anyone to want to meet .
Your profile is a key marketing tool and needs to be interesting , detailed and informative . |
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over a year ago
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Would anyone expect to chat someone up in,say,a bar or nightclub by just standing around looking,admittedly,rather hot but being the strong silent type?
Maybe treat this as a similar thing,make some effort to chat people up. (There are plenty of people here who are quite willing to be chatted up,after all,,,shouldn't be too difficult).
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"fabswingers hasn't started charging by the word quite yet....... "
I don't give one sentence profiles a second glance. Harsh? Maybe i just think if you cba writing anything about yourself/what you are looking for/what you don't like what else cba doing lol x |
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"Anyone care to run the rule over my profile? Maybe even PM me what sorts of things a single guy should be saying to stand out...Ive tried various messages and styles..."
Work it out yourself by selecting advice from other advice threads. Don't be spoon fed. Be proactive. You know you best. |
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I'm in the same boat as you.... People have looked but no one has asked to meet, I haven't got a face picture on my profile, do you think that could be a factor? |
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"I'm in the same boat as you.... People have looked but no one has asked to meet, I haven't got a face picture on my profile, do you think that could be a factor? "
if you have one private and send with messages, you should be ok. I suspect, the fact you've got a partner may be the reason, but at least you're honest and state it on your profile. |
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